KanUm- Broken Beyond Repair??

In todays episode, Kanak remind us of everything Uma used to be. Shravan beta to Masisa, honest doctor, pure hearted man who would not stand harrassment to women, someone who would always stand up for the truth... that is why she fell in love with him, and why we all fell in love with him too.

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Originally posted by: Suhanie

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I think she will help him and his fam. to get rid of M. But i hope she will not forgive him. Thats not realistic. Then Uma have to win Kanak and her fam. again. Maby next storyline?

Silent fan

First and for most I would just like to say that is a great post and I myself have been contemplating about this and I would love to know everyone else's thoughts on this as well.

My thoughts are similar to yours, I know this is a fictional show but is It really that easy to forgive and forget ? So regardless of what happened and let's say Meera did really blackmail and played tricks and what not, that doesn't change the fact that Uma is married to her and has been for 2 years. Marriage isn't a game and I hate how some show's portray it, like an endless wheel of marriage and divorce, that's why I hated and still hate the fact that they showed Uma married to Meera, you expect this in other shows I just never expected it from this show. So from Kanaks stand point why should she forgive him, and even if she does forgive him there is the issue of trust, Uma and Kanak were on the verge of getting married and were so close, if he couldn't confide in her and get help from her or tell her what was going on then how can she trust him for a lifetime. Marriage is about love and trust and Uma is so easily manipulated, what happens in the future when life brings another hurdle, can she count on him to fight any battle together and not by himself? She has stood by him every step of the way but can she count on him to stand by her ?

Kanak's family will also be a hurdle, and rightly so. They will always want Kanaks happiness just like any other family would, so if he's ever able to win back Kanak's love then after he has to win back her family's trust and love, and that I don't think is going to be an easy task. Some how I don't think Bhabo is going to give in so easy.
Sorry for my long post I can go on and on about this but I'll stop here, I guess at this point all we can do is see how the cv's will handle the story and what twists and turns they will bring in, we never thought they would ever bring in a twist of Uma getting married to someone else so who knows where they can take the story next.

Originally posted by: GayatriRani

Kanak won't forgive Uma unless she knows the truth.

If she knows the truth, she able to understand.

Kanak would have done exactly same thing if she is in same place.

Both KanUm would not have taken perfect choice so far but they always try to protect loved ones.
Remember how Kanak came back to Ladno after forced marriage for Bhabho shop papers rather than taking her own brother help. She came back to unwanted marriage for her bhabho and even tried seduce Uma when she thinks him as a stranger.

That Kanak choice is not a problem to us as it made the story go towards KanUm and here we are questioning Uma because this step made KanUm separated.

But I still love this track and I believe Uma is completely justifiable not taking police help after all he went through.

I admire Uma and think he is not weak giving into Meera but strong minded to take such a decision and also maintaining his distance with Meera.

Even if they married, Meera never got Uma in real sense, of uma's love.

Both Kanak and Uma admirable in the way they put their relations first.

Uma is still the same Uma . He dont care about money. He gives importance to relations. He broke Kanak trust same way Kanak broke Uma's trust divorcing him but with very good intentions.

But I am enjoying Kanak taunting Uma as it's still shows how much Kanak still loves Uma. Uma caring heart may be hurt but he can't see see Kanak in pain before his eyes.

Originally posted by: Payal_ap

First and for most I would just like to say that is a great post and I myself have been contemplating about this and I would love to know everyone else's thoughts on this as well.

My thoughts are similar to yours, I know this is a fictional show but is It really that easy to forgive and forget ? So regardless of what happened and let's say Meera did really blackmail and played tricks and what not, that doesn't change the fact that Uma is married to her and has been for 2 years. Marriage isn't a game and I hate how some show's portray it, like an endless wheel of marriage and divorce, that's why I hated and still hate the fact that they showed Uma married to Meera, you expect this in other shows I just never expected it from this show. So from Kanaks stand point why should she forgive him, and even if she does forgive him there is the issue of trust, Uma and Kanak were on the verge of getting married and were so close, if he couldn't confide in her and get help from her or tell her what was going on then how can she trust him for a lifetime. Marriage is about love and trust and Uma is so easily manipulated, what happens in the future when life brings another hurdle, can she count on him to fight any battle together and not by himself? She has stood by him every step of the way but can she count on him to stand by her ?

Kanak's family will also be a hurdle, and rightly so. They will always want Kanaks happiness just like any other family would, so if he's ever able to win back Kanak's love then after he has to win back her family's trust and love, and that I don't think is going to be an easy task. Some how I don't think Bhabo is going to give in so easy.
Sorry for my long post I can go on and on about this but I'll stop here, I guess at this point all we can do is see how the cv's will handle the story and what twists and turns they will bring in, we never thought they would ever bring in a twist of Uma getting married to someone else so who knows where they can take the story next.

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Originally posted by: Parmeen

Hi

I must admit I totally agree with you. I am a wife & a mother. If I was in a similar situation I too doubt whether I would forgive & forget. How can you this is the ultimate betrayal. It is all well & good to say well he was being a good brother, but what about being a good husband.

A marital relationship is never the same after a partner cheats, it never can be. U may forgive but u never forget.

I think the cvs have scored an own goal, they will make it seem like Kanak will forgive & help Uma , but this is not reality , how many women can. Indian soaps alway show women in this light , where a woman will tolerate everything & still stand by her man , this is not reality.

I did say at the time that this was the end of the relationship as there was no trust. Uma had time to talk to Kanak but did not instead he chose betrayal. For me that is unforgivable, especially as she believed in him & fought for him regarding Massisa & Bangkok.

I personally have lost respect for Uma & this show. He is shown as weak not strong, easily manipulated & very trusting., and had not learnt any lessons about life, and people .

Hi.. Very nice and interesting post dear.. I am also thinking the same from yesterday that will kanak able to forgive uma when truth revealed to her and able to forget the hurt caused by betrayal of trust..

I agree with u and every friend here who shared their views.. And it will be unrealistic if kanak forgive uma easily..

Yes.. Uma did what a best brother do by sacrificing his life to save suman's dreams.. But in the process he hurt immensly his kanak who had stand by him and his family at every step of life..

And yes.. Kanak would have done the same if she was in his shoes, but she would have atleast possible hint or explanation regarding her actions so that it could hurt less and have glimpse of why she have to do that, like she did in divorce scenario because she loved him and can't hurt him badly and he would have to trust her through life time..
But uma didn't give any thought to how bad she had hurting and yes he knew that she was hurt but didn't try to reduce that by giving any small explanation..
So it will be very hard to forgive and forget but she will understand him and help his family by eliminating meera from their lives forever but can't able to trust him thoroughly again like in past..

So uma will have to try to prove himself that he can be trusted and didn't really changed like she thought and have to convince hard her family especially bhabho as he broke the promise given to her and hurt her kanak..

We know uma was not at fault and kanak will also understand his situation but she won't able to trust him without insecurities so he had to try to free her from them and have to prove to her that she can trust him to not leave her behind in future will stand by her..

Originally posted by: DAPSG

Hi.. Very nice and interesting post dear.. I am also thinking the same from yesterday that will kanak able to forgive uma when truth revealed to her and able to forget the hurt caused by betrayal of trust..
I agree with u and every friend here who shared their views.. And it will be unrealistic if kanak forgive uma easily..
Yes.. Uma did what a best brother do by sacrificing his life to save suman's dreams.. But in the process he hurt immensly his kanak who had stand by him and his family at every step of life..
And yes.. Kanak would have done the same if she was in his shoes, but she would have atleast possible hint or explanation regarding her actions so that it could hurt less and have glimpse of why she have to do that, like she did in divorce scenario because she loved him and can't hurt him badly and he would have to trust her through life time.. But uma didn't give any thought to how bad she had hurting and yes he knew that she was hurt but didn't try to reduce that by giving any small explanation..