Suggestions For Annika's Ishqbaaazi

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Disclaimer 1: For those who r just too possessive about Annika...this isn't a bashing post😉...it's a discussion one..

it's not to blame CVS for what they didn't do🥱,it's to take opinions about Annika's love

Disclaimer 2: Don't use this post to start Shiv vs Annie and try not to go off topic😊

Disclaimer 3: This Is not a hate post. Bashers, haters please don't drop in if you are not here to discuss

- Hello everyone...I know everyone(especially me) r frustrated about the show(and trust me Groupbaazi isn't even the issue for me)

so let's take about something else...An aspect that i read all Shivika fandom and especially Annika's fans say or express...

- Before I start this let me first say that we all saw Shivaay's journey of love.
ALL TRACKS led someway or the other for Shivaay to change (at least in front of Annika not to the world)

From being SSO to Annika's Shivaay

Every track made him the outgoing Annika's husband &it's not just NKK...Everyone have many evidences of his ISHQBAAZI JOURNEY

  • 1st issue is: so I come to Annika and I quote her hard core fans of her being a flawed character (which i totally agree with)but to them it's CVS love for Shivaay that her journey is ignored so I'm asking you:

  • What should be Annika's ISHQBAAAZI'S JOURNEY?What are the flaws that Annika should over come to become the SOPHISTICATED SSO'S WIFE?

  • Her journey to becoming ASSO (and i don't mean taking the surname)?

for example : I for one think that Annika's way too OTT in public...that DSJZ &Goa plane hijack scene was a major turn off for me.😔

Many say it's Shivika's relation of nok jhok,but that was before marriage, but now!! Arguing like that in front of strangers!!Not even at home!!

&please don't say that it's takkar,it's annoying🥱


P.S 1: Don't use the above example to tell me about what Shivaay does&needs change...This post is about Annika & her flaws and her most needed changes as lover.

Not personality progress...But change for love
Cause let's be honest,every change that Shivaay went through was for his love not his persona...That's why till now he doesn't have an office,cause it simply won't help in anything regarding Annika😆😆


  • 2nd issue is: we have seen Shivaay colored with Annika's colors...Dancing to songs madly,using her language, going along with her nautankis...We can tell he's her husband with the way Annika's habits are rubbing off on him

  • But then I look at Annika,what rubbed from Shivaay on her?I remember post Biwi declaration, she started drinking coffee and even replying in his style,finding it hard to say sorry,cause she was becoming like him.

But after separation..I can't see Shivaay having any effect on her what so ever,how's Shivaay effecting Annika's life?if she made Shivaay loosen up a bit, but
how did he calm her wilderness?

In short...Where are Shivaay's colors in Annika today?

P.S 2: please don't mention CVS doing this and doing that...loving Shivaay or not caring about Annika,I'm asking you😆😆


P.S 3:Let's not talk past track,or even sister tracks here...I'm not asking Annika in center tracks...Those are interesting tracks that effect dynamics of current relations...But not progressing character...

P.S 4:I can't believe I have to write this,but just because I'm Shivaay fan doesn't mean I made this post to bash Annika in anyway..

To sum this up...Write how can Annika become Shivaay's Annika and how can she be colored with his love😳

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Firstly, this is an awesome post Enas👏👏👏

Since the first marriage, Shivika journey have been beautiful in many ways. But if u look closely, the journey is mostly about the individual character progression of Shivaay which made it look beautiful as well as Shivika working on their relation.

In this journey, we have seen Shivaay shedding his obsession for NKK which is the main hindrance in their relation; We have seen Annika coming out of her insecurities and trusting her fate & relationship with Shivaay.

And one more beautiful thing abt Shivika is they accepted their life partners as they are without expecting them to change. Shivaay never asked, or expected Annika to change but accepted her as she is. In the same way, Annika accepted Shivaay. Infact, they both tried to mould themselves according to each other with time.😊

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At this point, I just remember the jungle track of Shivika where Shivaay had some beautiful dialogues abt the same.😳

"Jiddi,stubborn,stuck up main hoon. Khud Ko change karne ki koshish bhi kar Raha hoon. Aur yeh change na ek din, ek hafta aur ek saal itni jaldi nahi hota hai.thoda waqt lagta hai.its a life long process na.hum ek doosre Ko ek dusre ke hisaab se badalte rahenge, ek dusre mein daalthe rahenge. Waqt lag Sakta hai kyunki yeh journey hai aur journey choti nahi Hoti hai journey lambi Hoti hai aur honi chahiye.aur agar journey lambi hogi tho waqt lagega.kuch kar nahin saktha Annika.aur kaas kar mujhe na kuch jyada hi waqt lagtha hai.kyunki mein yaha se pead Hun main.juk nahin saktha main.par iss sab mein na kahin bhi kitna bhi waqt lagega na humare rishte par koi asar nahi hona chahiye Annika.yeh tumhari aur meri zimmendari hai.kyunki humne tho ek dusre konaccept Kiya hai na jaise bhi hum he.tho ab chahe kitni bhi mushkilat hua aasan nahi hoga par hum karenge."

This dialogues might be said with regarding to his NKK. But they hold true with every moment in one's life. One should not change for others but they can better themselves. Marriage is all about bettering oneself w.r.t your partner to make the relationship grow stronger and more beautiful.😊

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Apart from coming over his obsession for NKK, there r many things which Shivaay worked upon simultaneously. I got few cute and memorable things which Shivaay attempted like drinking tea😆, dancing to some Bollywood number, adapting Annika's dictionary and using the words now and then(tadi, raita phelgaya)😆, he tried to live a chawl life at least for one day😳, he travelled with her in an auto rickshaw and even enjoyed it😉😆, he became equally nautanki to his Annika and plays along with her😆, seen him eating pavbhaji and also not to forget with "nimbu"(😆 )(while Shivaay doesn't take citric food at night😆), him cooking "Aloo-Poori" (there was one instance where he said "Aloo" kaun kaatha hai🤣) in "Desi-Ghee" (Remember his face when Saahil asked him to cook chowmein in "Desi-Ghee"🤣) which is very nutritional according to him (mind it, this is only for Annika😳), cooking "deep-fried" Pakora in Olive oil (Remember Rudy saying Shivaay gets gussa hearing deep frying🤣), Surprised her so much with all the candies, doll house (ILU scene)... These r few things that makes his character and Ishqbaaazi cute.😳

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But somewhere that part of journey is lacking in Annika's character especially after separation phase. Before separation, right after biwi declaration, I was happy seeing her trying to drink "Sairabhano meri maano Americano"(🤣) without doing "khulli"(🤣) on him while he was expecting her to standing still without even moving🤣 (Both looked cute where Shivaay who hates this, actually stands there without moving showing how he accepted this "Khulli" as part of her and Annika drinking coffee without making faces😳) but then somehow later on this part is missing.

I always wanted Ishqbaaazi of Annika to be more than showing unwavering trust and support in Shivaay. Even Shivaay has this trust and support in his Ishbaaazi for Annika but his Ishqbaaazi has also evolved in something more than this.

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So, now coming to what I want to see as part of Annika's Ishqbaaazi:

1) As far as we know, Annika makes delicious Aloo-Poori but is a bad cook overall. I want to see her attempting to cook atleast Shivaay's fav dishes and surprise him.😉😆

2) Annika trusts Shivaay and now even trusts their relationship. But I never saw her confiding in him and sharing abt her past what she remembers or the nightmare she gets. Shivaay already tried to know abt her nightmare from Saahil once but he failed. Again, Annika was adamant and didn't want him to look into her past as she is not comfortable and fears if something worse might come up. So he finally gave up. But now I want to see Annika herself open up abt her past if she remembers or atleast abt the dream which she remembers. This is not difficult because we already saw how she shared what makes her fear for darkness.😊

3) I want her to come up with surprises making him feel special. I'm not saying she don't do that now. Even now she makes him feel special by showing her support and trust but I want to see something more than this.😉😳

4) I want her to come out of her over the top zone when with others. When we look at Shivaay, he is as crazy as her when they r alone, but when he is out infront of others, his attitude changes. The same way I want Annika to do it.😳

P.s. Now please don't come and tell me Shivaay shouted at her in public. I'm not talking abt how many times he shouted at her in public or how many times she shouted on him in public. I'm talking about only how they conduct themselves infront of others.I really feel Annika sometimes goes overboard while doing it.

5) During separation, she manipulated him emotionally to the extremes. But we never got a little remorse abt that from her. Yes, she accepted she did mistake and apologized to Shivaay once. But apologizing is different and showing remorse is different. I never got to see contemplating on what she did and how regretful she is. I wanted a heartfelt scene or convo abt it.

6) After last week's episode, I also want her to learn and dance on some Shivaay's favorite music. Isi bahane we will get some wonderful Shivika romantic dance.😳😆😉

7) I want Annika to atleast try to find out abt Shivaay's heart condition and What's it all about. We got Shivaay trying to find abt her fear for darkness and nightmare from Saahil and then we got him trying to dig her past, but I never got Annika trying to know abt his heart condition.😊

Now, trying to do all these things will not change "Kidkithod Sirf Annika" to some bechari but infact she will come out as more beautiful character. I'm not saying Shivaay is perfect Ishqbaaz or his journey as Ishqbaaz is complete. He still has a long way to go learning and adapting many things for himself and for their relationship. Ishqbaaazi ki safar zindagi bhar chaltha rahega jab tak insaan zinda hai.😊

Edited by MoNaya_Indira - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nice question Enazzz

We got Shivaay's journey but smh CVs did not give us Annika's journey or i wud say her efforts to mould into being THE SHIVAAY SINGH'S OBEROI'S wife.

i always wanted to see how Annika conducts herself infront of world where she is ASSO.. the baggage that name carries as well the power that name yields. And i don't mean that as her being wife to Shivaay..

I wish we wud hv got scenes like corporate parties, where she wud be introduced to Shivaay's outside world.. i remember Pinky had complained during Mallika track that Shakti did not take her coz he was emabarassed.. I wanted CVs to make a point there nd show Annika's efforts in gelling with Shivaay's corporate life , be ASSO to the world , adapting to his elite life.. nd making him proud.

Many times in show they hv shown Annika being OTT or picking up fights in front of strangers nd Shivaay embarrassed there... wish We wud hv shown a different aspect of Annika here..

No doubt she is Annika ... Sirf Annika.. nd Shivaav has accepted her but i want her to be more polished , ASSO for the world.. nd want Annika to command the same power that SSO commands
Edited by Niyati_21 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Niyati_21

Nice question Enazzz

We got Shivaay's journey but smh CVs did not give us Annika's journey or i wud say her efforts to mould into being THE SHIVAAY SINGH'S OBEROI'S wife.

i always wanted to see how Annika conducts herself infront of world where she is ASSO.. the baggage that name carries as well the power that name yields. And i don't mean that as her being wife to Shivaay..

I wish we wud hv got scenes like corporate parties, where she wud be introduced to Shivaay's outside world.. i remember Pinky had complained during Mallika track that Shakti did not take her coz he was emabarassed.. I wanted CVs to make a point there nd show Annika's efforts in gelling with Shivaay's corporate life , be ASSO to the world , adapting to his elite life.. nd making him proud.

Many times in show they hv shown Annika being OTT or picking up fights in front of strangers nd Shivaay embarrassed there... wish We wud hv shown a different aspect of Annika here..

No doubt she is Annika ... Sirf Annika.. nd Shivaav has accepted her but i want her to be more polished , ASSO for the world.. nd want Annika to command the same power that SSO commands


@bold exactly!!! i didn't over explain in my post bt that's exactly what i remeembered when i was watching those scenes

she sounded like pinky...and i don't mean the english ...bt in general
not a way to talk in an official meeting or so i felt

@red:Thhat's exactly what i want from Annika...to be polished into sophistication in public at least and official appearances..and i wished to see more of that

@blue: showing how she can actually handle the situation till he's there...even if not business wise bt even family wise...to have that authority on everyone being the great's wall's wife❤️

I dont knw y it's implanted in heads that only ML needs to change in love and FLs can be the same...love changes u and u change on ur own for ur better half
the fact that Annika's changing process was never shown makes her ishqbaazi look less


her love is that of trust and support i agree...bt molding her self into her partner the way he did with her is missing😕😕&it leaves one disappointed a lot on so many occasions
Edited by EnasZ - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Enaz interesting Post 👏 few points here

1. I read an essay 😲

2. I am Anika fan 😊

3. I am not able to connect to Anika now 😕

4. Can we get something change in her ?😕 can she tone down her OTT ness ?

5. This show is a joke now *read in Tej's voice* 😆


P.S I am Anika fan 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Ujwala--

Enaz interesting Post 👏 few points here

1. I read an essay 😲

2. I am Anika fan 😊

3. I am not able to connect to Anika now 😕

4. Can we get something change in her ?😕 can she tone down her OTT ness ?

5. This show is a joke now *read in Tej's voice* 😆


P.S I am Anika fan 😆


1. it was longer than this😆it took lots of time to cut it to this
and half of it is disclaimer🤣🤣

so i totlaly get the need for ur 2nd point and P,S 🤣thse days without them u r doomed🤣

3,4 I can say that for me Annika was alligant Mrs ASSO before seperation then after...publicly and somehow more sophisticated privetly

she used to show her takkar in a non OTT way..make change in silence which was so goals😳

All I see she does right now is pick a fight to prove takkar ...which is everything bt that
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Posted: 7 years ago
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i guess and hope i have understood the thought behind your post and i totally agree by that
you cannot clap with one hand but both..
i really love annika and how she was/is never afraid of putting forward her opinion and feelings.. but why only shivaay has to drop out his nature and thoughts like NKK.. why doesnt annika grow a little sophisticated..
i wont deny she's always there by shivaay as his shield, but i have to say even pinky behaves more sophisticated in public than annika...
the point im trying to talk about is not that annika is sophisticated or not.. but that if shivaay can take a step forward to be someone annika likes, then why cannot annika try to improve little things shivaay wanted to see in his wife..
i remember shivaay saying from DBO that he doesnt find annika a woman who can be mother of his kids.. so annika should at least improve herself this bit that shivaay can proudly call her his wife and not just bcz he loves her blindly and ignores any flaws of hers.

#ShivIka ❤️
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Posted: 7 years ago
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We have all seen the beautiful journey of Shivaaay Singh Oberoi,the scion of Oberoi family to Annika's Shivaay. He has she'd his ideologies of name,blood and lineage and has become the man who can dance with Annika to a Bollywood number and eat aloo puri (of course fried in olive oil😆).
Annika has accepted Shivaay with all his faults but some more depiction of her ishqbaazi is needed.
I would love to see Annika learning English and ettiquetes suitable for an Oberoi bahu and though she can use her khirkitod language in private,some degree of sophistication is required in public ( I am sounding a bit dogmatic here,my apologies but this is my view and I am entitled to one).
I would love if Annika learns gourmet cooking as Shivaay likes gourmet food.
I would love if Annika starts her own business and gradually adds to the portfolio of Oberois.
I would love to see Annika dressing properly as fit for the wife of Shivaay Singh Oberoi.
Doing these will not lessen the innate value of Annika.She will still be the warm and kind heart fearless goddess and the 'takkar ki' life partner of SSO.
Edited by Hriju321 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Masooma Bukhari

i guess and hope i have understood the thought behind your post and i totally agree by that

you cannot clap with one hand but both..
i really love annika and how she was/is never afraid of putting forward her opinion and feelings.. but why only shivaay has to drop out his nature and thoughts like NKK.. why doesnt annika grow a little sophisticated..
i wont deny she's always there by shivaay as his shield, but i have to say even pinky behaves more sophisticated in public than annika...
the point im trying to talk about is not that annika is sophisticated or not.. but that if shivaay can take a step forward to be someone annika likes, then why cannot annika try to improve little things shivaay wanted to see in his wife..
i remember shivaay saying from DBO that he doesnt find annika a woman who can be mother of his kids.. so annika should at least improve herself this bit that shivaay can proudly call her his wife and not just bcz he loves her blindly and ignores any flaws of hers.

#ShivIka ❤️


that's exactly the point of my post...I want to actually see her do something FOR HIM making him proud of her

i always said that Annika is an evolved version of pinky...bt at the end of the day...in basic situations,she isn't acting like shivaay's wife should act

I still remember shivaay saying to OmRu...she's Shivaay Sigh Oberoi's wife...she should know what,when and how to say stuff

unfortunately she hasn't...not for one bit
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: EnasZ


that's exactly the point of my post...I want to actually see her do something FOR HIM making him proud of her

i always said that Annika is an evolved version of pinky...bt at the end of the day...in basic situations,she isn't acting like shivaay's wife should act

I still remember shivaay saying to OmRu...she's Shivaay Sigh Oberoi's wife...she should know what,when and how to say stuff
That was the only instant where she put off Shivaay in public. Other than that, in public, it is always Shivaay who does the talk, be it announcing wife in front of Daksh and media, be it proposing her for re-marriage, Shivaay does all the talking.

One thing I am glad of Annika is that she has blended with the family, which she craved for. She had earned a place. She did not take any right for herself, she was given - be it she calling Shakti papa, or shivaay declaring her biwi or Om calling her bhabhi.

After separation and re-marriage, especially after confession and consummation, their level of intimacy has gone up to that extent that they have in fact become one. She had come so close to Shivaay than any one. Her insecurities have vanished away.

unfortunately she hasn't...not for one bit


May be, she should come out of her 'aloo puri' zone and try something new. 'Aloo puri' zone is a comfort zone.

IMO, Shivaay's journey was more evident owing to the fact that he had many preconceived notions regarding love, marriage and relationship. And Annika did not have any. All she had was - longing for a stable and certain life and a family for her and Sahil, which she got from her marriage.

If you ask me, Annika's journey was blended with Shivaay's in each step - be it relying on the other, or asking for help, or standing for loved ones, or believing the person for him than for how he is, adding touches to Shivaay's contributions to the family, understanding Shivaay without him uttering a word, providing silent and never-ending support for Shivaay all the time, forming a team without making it appear so, etc... Small nuances...
She is still inside the house. Only when she steps out, will she realise and we realise to what extent she can carry the name of Shivaay Singh Oberoi's wife. I dont think we will get that.

May be her attempt to be a good GL should continue 😉
Edited by abhilashasharma - 7 years ago

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