Vedika - Love & Courage!

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Lennie

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Posted: 7 years ago

There is alot Maya has said to her about Sahil but also about LOVE and COURAGE, and how she is getting a second chance at Real Love... and The best love stories exist between people who have least chances of being together

As much as Vedika has valid reasons and pov about why she is holding back, and how her and Sahil cannot ever be together... Age gap, gap in experiences, Society. Vedika raised another reason - Can they even be life partners, can she as a wife give him all the happiness that brings in a marriage (i assume, and include children here too).

But as Maya said overall their is LOVE in a relationship and that she does not want Vedika to lose this feeling and chance because of being afraid of Society

Question is Will Vedika ever have the courage to stand up for her love, her love for Sahil against the society and world! (when she finally realises/acknowleges she is completely IN love with Sahil)

We know Sahil can and has done stands up for his love... and continues to do so... against anything and everything.

As we saw Vedika recalling each time Sahil confessed to her... He loves her... and why he loves... and his proposal which said... to be his, and to fight the world together, can she take that step and have the COURAGE!

So much to come between these two and their journey towards each other. I look forward to it... esp as yesterday's episode we had Sahil declaring to his Badi Amma... that in One month... Vedika will be Mrs Sahil Aggarwal! And he declared their name Sahil + Vedika = SADIKA ❤️

Edited by Lennie - 7 years ago

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Priyanka85

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Posted: 7 years ago

Beautifully written n analysed.. Ya it's very difficult for Vedika

To accept Sahil's love because of society n people like Badi Amma. Also its very obvious for sahil's family to oppose such a relationship coz they care for him n his future.. Evn they feel dat such relationships does not last long n doesn't hve a future.. So evn dey r correct from their POV.. But as audience v knw dat Sahil loves Vedika genuinely n whole-heartedly..

I feel aftr ths holi episode in whch Vedika scolds Sahil n send him bck.. He starts IGNORING her.. Though he keeps loving her he won't bother her much n try n ignore her.. I guess it's only thn she realises his value n her feelings towards him.. Coz she starts missing him..😉

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SStephy

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Posted: 7 years ago

Vedhika's question about whether she'll be able to give the happiness of a wife to Sahil is a valid one. This isn't just about what society will think or the age gap... but there are some practical issues that can come up. I guess Vedhika is thinking about this relationship from a practical point of view than just in terms of feelings of love, which isn't wrong considering her life experiences.

The only one who can answer Vedhika's questions and clear her doubts is Sahil. But I wonder to what extent Sahil as thought about all these things. While love can happen anytime and feelings are not in anyone's control; committing into a relationship, on the other hand, requires a lot of thought before proceeding.

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: S.Stephy
Vedhika's question about whether she'll be able to give the happiness of a wife to Sahil is a valid one. This isn't just about what society will think or the age gap... but there are some practical issues that can come up. I guess Vedhika is thinking about this relationship from a practical point of view than just in terms of feelings of love, which isn't wrong considering her life experiences.

The only one who can answer Vedhika's questions and clear her doubts is Sahil. But I wonder to what extent Sahil as thought about all these things. While love can happen anytime and feelings are not in anyone's control; committing into a relationship, on the other hand, requires a lot of thought before proceeding.

I agree with this. It will be hard for Vedhika to accept her feelings because of the practical issues of this relationship. Makers are doing a great job in showing both of their feelings.

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poppinss

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Posted: 7 years ago

That last scene yesterday clearly portrayed Vedika's thoughts. She is absolutely right where she comes from and Maya pushing her seemed juvenile to me after that.

The two points that would really have an impact is physical intimacy and child(ren) . Very valid ones given their age difference. Vedika is perfectly right in trying to decide for both herself and Sahil. She is the elder. She needs to take the responsibility. So from a practical perspective, failure is written all over this relationship and that I think is what she is seeing right now. If there is a connection between them why not keep it at friendship and platonic is her thought.

Sahil is the only one who could answer these questions and looks like its coming. The holi prank that Sahil plays is misunderstood by Vedika and she relates his actions to his physical attraction towards her and kind of removes her pallu. A tight slap for Sahil and he seriously looses it with Vedika and walks out. I think for now, I would take this as the answer to Vedika's first question. As Sahil put it earlier he respects her much more than he loves her.

Sahil the way he is shown is all heart. There is absolutely nothing practical about his love for Vedika. He loves her and wants her to have him in her life. If she is there that is enough to make everything beautiful, he can cross any number of hurdles. If she is not there, he is empty, nothing could fill him up. There is no happiness.

Its now about Vedika understanding the extent of Sahil's love and Sahil understanding her insecurities.

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Lennie

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Posted: 7 years ago

Great thoughts guys. 😊

Originally posted by: Priyanka85
Beautifully written n analysed.. Ya it's very difficult for Vedika
To accept Sahil's love because of society n people like Badi Amma. Also its very obvious for sahil's family to oppose such a relationship coz they care for him n his future.. Evn they feel dat such relationships does not last long n doesn't hve a future.. So evn dey r correct from their POV.. But as audience v knw dat Sahil loves Vedika genuinely n whole-heartedly..

I feel aftr ths holi episode in whch Vedika scolds Sahil n send him bck.. He starts IGNORING her.. Though he keeps loving her he won't bother her much n try n ignore her.. I guess it's only thn she realises his value n her feelings towards him.. Coz she starts missing him..😉

Thanks.

Agree with you on your thoughts. And not only that a woman always gets the blame most times.

Thats's a good theory, that Sahil should distance himself and maybe she will be restless on why he is and misses him 😉

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Lennie

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: S.Stephy
Vedhika's question about whether she'll be able to give the happiness of a wife to Sahil is a valid one. This isn't just about what society will think or the age gap... but there are some practical issues that can come up. I guess Vedhika is thinking about this relationship from a practical point of view than just in terms of feelings of love, which isn't wrong considering her life experiences.

The only one who can answer Vedhika's questions and clear her doubts is Sahil. But I wonder to what extent Sahil as thought about all these things. While love can happen anytime and feelings are not in anyone's control; committing into a relationship, on the other hand, requires a lot of thought before proceeding.

Absolutely agree.

And i agree with Vedika and her points. She has to think twice before taking such steps... not just for herself but her daughter too.

I love that Vedika brought up these factors and as you said, its something that BOTH Vedika and Sahil needs to have a talk about.

Like you i also wonder if Sahil has thought about this... because even Karan his friend ages ago, told him to think before he declares his feelings from a practical sense... At this point i believe Sahil thinks him and Vedika can fight the world and society but he needs to think and know what Vedika is feeling in terms of the reasons she has brought up.

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Lennie

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: poppinss

That last scene yesterday clearly portrayed Vedika's thoughts. She is absolutely right where she comes from and Maya pushing her seemed juvenile to me after that.

The two points that would really have an impact is physical intimacy and child(ren) . Very valid ones given their age difference. Vedika is perfectly right in trying to decide for both herself and Sahil. She is the elder. She needs to take the responsibility. So from a practical perspective, failure is written all over this relationship and that I think is what she is seeing right now. If there is a connection between them why not keep it at friendship and platonic is her thought.

Sahil is the only one who could answer these questions and looks like its coming. The holi prank that Sahil plays is misunderstood by Vedika and she relates his actions to his physical attraction towards her and kind of removes her pallu. A tight slap for Sahil and he seriously looses it with Vedika and walks out. I think for now, I would take this as the answer to Vedika's first question. As Sahil put it earlier he respects her much more than he loves her.

Sahil the way he is shown is all heart. There is absolutely nothing practical about his love for Vedika. He loves her and wants her to have him in her life. If she is there that is enough to make everything beautiful, he can cross any number of hurdles. If she is not there, he is empty, nothing could fill him up. There is no happiness.

Its now about Vedika understanding the extent of Sahil's love and Sahil understanding her insecurities.

I agree with you about Maya, at this point Maya is right when she talks about love to Vedika... but when Vedika raises valid reasons, i do think Maya needs to see where Vedika is coming from.. and why.

As you mentioned the two points, its exactly why i mentioned Children... its a valid point... Can Vedika give Sahil that... when and if the time comes... given her age too (i know elder woman have babies but does Vedika even want this... given her age, experience, again this needs to be discussed, its also why Vedika says... Sahil's life is just beginning... him growing, career, settling down... all this is to come for him... whilst she has lived all this and sadly lost her first husband)

To be honest i do not blame Vedika for being angry at him for the bhang prank... because i dont think Sahil realises what impact that could have if ppl saw her like this... again the blame would go on her.

Sahil loves her with his whole heart... and he wants her to be his... and together they can fight the world... but like i said him and Vedika need to talk about the practical things in the relationship

The last sentence YES... this factor needs to be raise and questioned and talked about esp the insecurities!

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poppinss

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Lennie

I agree with you about Maya, at this point Maya is right when she talks about love to Vedika... but when Vedika raises valid reasons, i do think Maya needs to see where Vedika is coming from.. and why.

As you mentioned the two points, its exactly why i mentioned Children... its a valid point... Can Vedika give Sahil that... when and if the time comes... given her age too (i know elder woman have babies but does Vedika even want this... given her age, experience, again this needs to be discussed, its also why Vedika says... Sahil's life is just beginning... him growing, career, settling down... all this is to come for him... whilst she has lived all this and sadly lost her first husband)

To be honest i do not blame Vedika for being angry at him for the bhang prank... because i dont think Sahil realises what impact that could have if ppl saw her like this... again the blame would go on her.

Sahil loves her with his whole heart... and he wants her to be his... and together they can fight the world... but like i said him and Vedika need to talk about the practical things in the relationship

The last sentence YES... this factor needs to be raise and questioned and talked about esp the insecurities!

I think talking is not going to help them... they need to see what the other goes through, understand and act. Sahil needs to see the comfort space of Vedika and why she feels what she does. Vedika needs to understand that she needs to face the society instead of running away from it and that she has every right to live her life the way she wants.

The perfect example i could think of is when Kesar tones down his love for Gulaal's, to make her comfortable. His emotions are not any less, but he shows it a lot more subtly. (Cant stop comparing can I 😆😆) Gulaal accepting /acknowledging the relationship publicly too... Jzee never missed anything 😆 (Only Gulaal forum addicts would understand this 😉)

Sahil needs to learn to balance his actions and emotions so as to not put Vedika in a fix. Also I think Vedika's reaction is now very valid given what Arya has expressed to her, she is going rip Sahil apart tomorrow and regret about it in leisure.

A Sahil Arya talk is very important at this point, to clear out their friendship and how it would stay irrespective of which direction Sahil and Vedika's relationship would go. I would also like to see how Sahil handles Arya telling him she does not want him to marry her mother. Would be interesting that... and she has every right to ask that off her friend. Not to mention that Sahil's words have a huge impact on Arya. I would not rule out Arya supporting Sahil and Vedika.

Sahil needs to tackle his mom... She committing suicide is extreme.

Also the Creepy Sadu and Shruti track is developing fast. They are about 20 yrs apart and if their affair is discovered and the family tries to marry her off to the guy as second wife. Valid questions arise for Sahil Vedika relationship.

On an other note... Funny how a rational Vedika has an irrational Maya as her friend. An irrational Sahil has a rational Karan as a friend. Balance balance balance. Hats off CVs

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Lennie

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Posted: 7 years ago

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I think Communication is very important in a relationship... and it should happen esp since they have these obstacles in them and will do that they need to overcome, and talking is a factor which is important.

I agree with you on Sahil has to find a balance between action and emotions... where it concerns Vedika

I also agree on Sahil and Arya need to talk too, since she knows now.

Edited by Lennie - 7 years ago