ShaRica -Adda -77 Peace and Tranquility - Page 119

Live and let live is a great principle to follow in life - what is to happen will happen no matter what - so why lose our sleep over something we know nothing about ???

At times like this, the best thing to do, according to me that is, is to look at things as they are - and not delve deep into a matter which probably doesn't have any depth to speak of.

Sometimes children show us how easy it is to deal with certain situations- I will share something from my personal experience. Today my daughter had her maths exam- on our way back home I asked her how did her paper go ( as maths is a subject no one dares to take lightly 😆 ) and she said that it went well and I again asked her - are you sure it went very well ??? - she said yes - and then I said - hope your marks would be really good in maths - and then she burst out - she was tired after sitting for an exam for two and a half hrs - hungry and feeling the afternoon heat and really not in a mood to answer questions which really had no specific answer - she said to me - I have given my exam well, checked all the sums very carefully and minutely and the answers seem correct- now I am not going to correct the papers, so how would I knew what marks I would get ??? The examiner would and I am not an examiner mamma -

And at that moment I realised how I was unnecessarily breathing down her neck - the exam is over - there's no point in discussing all these now. And I learnt a very valuable lesson today. So thought of sharing it with you all.
Wrt to Sharica, we have no clue about what the situation is actually between them - we only form ideas from what we have observed and from what they have shared with their fans - even if we have conviction and faith in them, that should not give us the liberty to pass judgements on them and advise them on such personal matters.
If we put ourselves in their place,it would not really be a happy experience, of that I am absolutely sure.
We admire them- let's be happy in their happiness and I strongly believe in the power of positive thinking

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Originally posted by: Leviosa

Woah! That's some revelation. His family would definitely be shipping him much harder with Erica than perhaps even us then haha. It's a reassuring thought but yeah, it does depend on the man himself to propose (before God even has a chance to mull over disposing haha) and choose for himself if he's marrying the girl his family loves and approves of even if it was his choice in the first place. But it would truly be a wonderful union seeing how they seem so compatible and have families that are ao supportive and in favor of it all happening.

You all almost finished this adda too.

I think we should not worry about SNS llikes. Eri never likes her parents or bro's pics even though she follows them. She hardly puts her family pics unless it's wishing on Special occasions such as Christmas. She must have wished Ifrah privately and opted to not like Sha's or Ifu's pic on SNS. She must have made up her mind not to like anything he posts for a while. Let's see how long she keeps this resolve. Or now he is family so she does not feel the need to like his posts anymore just like other family members !

I like how they are both happy in their respective places. Their happiness and that look of being content in life is all we need. Ship will eventually sail.