ShaRica -Adda -78 'Rishto ki dori mein.. ek dhaga mera ek tumhara

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I had posted this in the last adda but realised that we have to move to a new one - hence reposting it

Live and let live is a great principle to follow in life - what is to happen will happen no matter what - so why lose our sleep over something we know nothing about ???

At times like this, the best thing to do, according to me that is, is to look at things as they are - and not delve deep into a matter which probably doesn't have any depth to speak of.

Sometimes children show us how easy it is to deal with certain situations- I will share something from my personal experience. Today my daughter had her maths exam- on our way back home I asked her how did her paper go ( as maths is a subject no one dares to take lightly 😆 ) and she said that it went well and I again asked her - are you sure it went very well ??? - she said yes - and then I said - hope your marks would be really good in maths - and then she burst out - she was tired after sitting for an exam for two and a half hrs - hungry and feeling the afternoon heat and really not in a mood to answer questions which really had no specific answer - she said to me - I have given my exam well, checked all the sums very carefully and minutely and the answers seem correct- now I am not going to correct the papers, so how would I knew what marks I would get ??? The examiner would and I am not an examiner mamma -

And at that moment I realised how I was unnecessarily breathing down her neck - the exam is over - there's no point in discussing all these now. And I learnt a very valuable lesson today. So thought of sharing it with you all.
Wrt to Sharica, we have no clue about what the situation is actually between them - we only form ideas from what we have observed and from what they have shared with their fans - even if we have conviction and faith in them, that should not give us the liberty to pass judgements on them and advise them on such personal matters.
If we put ourselves in their place,it would not really be a happy experience, of that I am absolutely sure.
We admire them- let's be happy in their happiness and I strongly believe in the power of positive thinking

😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ginger2010

I had posted this in the last adda but realised that we have to move to a new one - hence reposting it

Live and let live is a great principle to follow in life - what is to happen will happen no matter what - so why lose our sleep over something we know nothing about ???

At times like this, the best thing to do, according to me that is, is to look at things as they are - and not delve deep into a matter which probably doesn't have any depth to speak of.

Sometimes children show us how easy it is to deal with certain situations- I will share something from my personal experience. Today my daughter had her maths exam- on our way back home I asked her how did her paper go ( as maths is a subject no one dares to take lightly 😆 ) and she said that it went well and I again asked her - are you sure it went very well ??? - she said yes - and then I said - hope your marks would be really good in maths - and then she burst out - she was tired after sitting for an exam for two and a half hrs - hungry and feeling the afternoon heat and really not in a mood to answer questions which really had no specific answer - she said to me - I have given my exam well, checked all the sums very carefully and minutely and the answers seem correct- now I am not going to correct the papers, so how would I knew what marks I would get ??? The examiner would and I am not an examiner mamma -

And at that moment I realised how I was unnecessarily breathing down her neck - the exam is over - there's no point in discussing all these now. And I learnt a very valuable lesson today. So thought of sharing it with you all.
Wrt to Sharica, we have no clue about what the situation is actually between them - we only form ideas from what we have observed and from what they have shared with their fans - even if we have conviction and faith in them, that should not give us the liberty to pass judgements on them and advise them on such personal matters.
If we put ourselves in their place,it would not really be a happy experience, of that I am absolutely sure.
We admire them- let's be happy in their happiness and I strongly believe in the power of positive thinking

😃


i was just about to request you to post it..😆..thanks for this positive outlook ...yes we tend to over analyze and over think and over fret and over react and in the end nothing would be the matter 😆

that was a valuable lesson ,so big thanks to your daughter ..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Congratulations for new adda..guys..😛
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@jaysp.. plz post the quote which u posted in last page of previous adda..what u said is so true..when u become family member u dont feel like liking their pictures ...that's why she is not liking shaheer pic has well..😆
Ginger also posted her previous page quote..
People will feel positive after reading it..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Congrats everyone :) Hope something positive happens on this adda at least. Could be anything. Shaheer coming back to India for example 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Congratulations guys for new thread 🤗
Happy to see the positivity here
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ginger2010

I had posted this in the last adda but realised that we have to move to a new one - hence reposting it

Live and let live is a great principle to follow in life - what is to happen will happen no matter what - so why lose our sleep over something we know nothing about ???

At times like this, the best thing to do, according to me that is, is to look at things as they are - and not delve deep into a matter which probably doesn't have any depth to speak of.

Sometimes children show us how easy it is to deal with certain situations- I will share something from my personal experience. Today my daughter had her maths exam- on our way back home I asked her how did her paper go ( as maths is a subject no one dares to take lightly 😆 ) and she said that it went well and I again asked her - are you sure it went very well ??? - she said yes - and then I said - hope your marks would be really good in maths - and then she burst out - she was tired after sitting for an exam for two and a half hrs - hungry and feeling the afternoon heat and really not in a mood to answer questions which really had no specific answer - she said to me - I have given my exam well, checked all the sums very carefully and minutely and the answers seem correct- now I am not going to correct the papers, so how would I knew what marks I would get ??? The examiner would and I am not an examiner mamma -

And at that moment I realised how I was unnecessarily breathing down her neck - the exam is over - there's no point in discussing all these now. And I learnt a very valuable lesson today. So thought of sharing it with you all.
Wrt to Sharica, we have no clue about what the situation is actually between them - we only form ideas from what we have observed and from what they have shared with their fans - even if we have conviction and faith in them, that should not give us the liberty to pass judgements on them and advise them on such personal matters.
If we put ourselves in their place,it would not really be a happy experience, of that I am absolutely sure.
We admire them- let's be happy in their happiness and I strongly believe in the power of positive thinking

😃


Ginger, love way you connect wisdom with shipping. And the exchange you had with your daughter is akin to the ones I had mith my mother not so long ago :). I've retorted in the exact same way as her and usually our psyche at the time of a parent questioning is self doubt- Have I really done well to state with enthusiasm that the paper was great? The answers I got seemed correct and I wrote clearly but are they all right? And due to the afternoon heat and tiredness, we begin forgetting what we actually wrote half an hour earlier. So when a parent wants to hear something about acing an exam, you'd hear the ans she gave you. But do be assured that she is wise to not get your hopes sky high before results but also has some self belief that her efforts will pay off even if she is worried about the exact outcome. All the best to her for all her exams and hope she makes herself and you very proud 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: MichiganGal

Congrats everyone :) Hope something positive happens on this adda at least. Could be anything. Shaheer coming back to India for example 😆


Amen to what u said. Congratulations for the new adda, with the ray of hope for the good starting and positive thinking. 😛
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Shaheer is also doing a photoshoot with Pooja. And he is shooting for some song with a Thai singer. Phooti kismat 😆

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