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Posted: 7 years ago
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From the spoilers it is clear Abhay ends up ditching Diya at the altar. (As expected my most of us)

While making this plan, Abhay and his sister had one plan. It was to hurt and humiliate Diya. Make sure she has no face in the society.

I see a few problems with this plan.

They have not really understood what Diya has become in all these years.

In real life, even in villages, they will loose the social sympathy which they received when Diya left.

Diya at least had a good and noble reason to leave, while they are being petty, vindictive and selfish.

It is true that women with broken marriages are treated badly by society but the kind of social circle they are from, what are the odds someone else will be ready to make an alliance with them.

No girl's father will trust them. It is not just girl but her whole family is dishonoured by them. And what they did will be considered not Kshtra dharma. They back stabbed.

And the worse blow to their plans is the Ace up Diya's sleeve which no one (even herself) knows of. Ratan!

I do not think Abhay and his sister accounted for Ratan stepping up to marry Diya as they dismissed him as a 21 year old kid who is just being enthusiastic about this wedding.




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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: C0raline

From the spoilers it is clear Abhay ends up ditching Diya at the altar. (As expected my most of us)

While making this plan, Abhay and his sister had one plan. It was to hurt and humiliate Diya. Make sure she has no face in the society.

I see a few problems with this plan.

They have not really understood what Diya has become in all these years.

In real life, even in villages, they will loose the social sympathy which they received when Diya left.

Diya at least had a good and noble reason to leave, while they are being petty, vindictive and selfish.

It is true that women with broken marriages are treated badly by society but the kind of social circle they are from, what are the odds someone else will be ready to make an alliance with them.

No girl's father will trust them. It is not just girl but her whole family is dishonoured by them. And what they did will be considered not Kshtra dharma. They back stabbed.

And the worse blow to their plans is the Ace up Diya's sleeve which no one (even herself) knows of. Ratan!

I do not think Abhay and his sister accounted for Ratan stepping up to marry Diya as they dismissed him as a 21 year old kid who is just being enthusiastic about this wedding.







Moreover after marring Ratan ,diya will become Thakarani saa...so now people will not only respect her but her each and every word will have much more importance.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Moreover after marring Ratan ,diya will become Thakarani saa...so now people will not only respect her but her each and every word will have much more importance.



Exactly! I do not think they would have planned this if they even had an inkling about this.

Imagine, they could have married her and either send her back soon or tried to (Note the use of tried to 😳) torture her.

But they choose to run away instead. Did not even come there and broke the alliance.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: C0raline



Exactly! I do not think they would have planned this if they even had an inkling about this.

Imagine, they could have married her and either send her back soon or tried to (Note the use of tried to 😳) torture her.

But they choose to run away instead. Did not even come there and broke the alliance.



I still believe Abhay will come along with his sister that too in dress which he wears in day to day life thus shocking everyone and after that he will start abusing diya and pointing figures at diya's character and thus initiating strong impulsive reaction from ratan and then DIRA marriage will happen.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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But they choose to run away instead. Did not even come there and broke the alliance.


I still believe Abhay will come along with his sister that too in dress which he wears in day to day life thus shocking everyone and after that he will start abusing diya and pointing figures at diya's character and thus initiating strong impulsive reaction from ratan and then DIRA marriage will happen.



Actually he DOES have something he can use.

I am sure the news that Diya and Ratan faked an engagement must have reached her parents, but it was be easily dismissed for a tactic to catch the culprit but Diya staying in his room IS a big deal and I do not think her parents or anyone else apart from the Thakur family knows this.

And thanks to Sakshi's baai sa's lack of filter, Abhay knows it too. That will be a big deal even in most urban settings forget a conservative rural one.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Actually he DOES have something he can use.

I am sure the news that Diya and Ratan faked an engagement must have reached her parents, but it was be easily dismissed for a tactic to catch the culprit but Diya staying in his room IS a big deal and I do not think her parents or anyone else apart from the Thakur family knows this.

And thanks to Sakshi's baai sa's lack of filter, Abhay knows it too. That will be a big deal even in most urban settings forget a conservative rural one.



i knew it from that day only this Diya staying in Ratan's room will create some bawal one day or the other😆...i dont blame Abhay at all if he takes this issue as any woman/girl staying in any man's room without any relation is wrong by any standard.
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i knew it from that day only this Diya staying in Ratan's room will create some bawal one day or the other😆...i dont blame Abhay at all if he takes this issue as any woman/girl staying in any man's room without any relation is wrong by any standard.



I choose to disagree. I will say it is looked down upon in society.

I will prefer to not judge someone based on their living arrangements.

His having an issue is justified as Sakshi bai sa insinuated that they were in a live-in relationship (which means something different than just sharing an accommodation) and not that they were just sharing a room.

Diya (interestingly enough) is rather stoic about things in life and never bothered much about accidental (or fake) marriage rituals or such living arrangement.

It seems Ratan might have lived in a liberated place (while to be honest, Brits are the prudes of the European continent), but it is Diya who is more so in her thoughts and behaviour both.


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Originally posted by: C0raline



I choose to disagree. I will say it is looked down upon in society.

I think i choose wrong sentence and you framed it right.

I will prefer to not judge someone based on their living arrangements.

His having an issue is justified as Sakshi bai sa insinuated that they were in a live-in relationship (which means something different than just sharing an accommodation) and not that they were just sharing a room.

Diya (interestingly enough) is rather stoic about things in life and never bothered much about accidental (or fake) marriage rituals or such living arrangement.

It seems Ratan might have lived in a liberated place (while to be honest, Brits are the prudes of the European continent), but it is Diya who is more so in her thoughts and behaviour both.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Then I understood your point. Abhay has a legit reason to have problem with it. Just his trying to get revenge is a bad (and not to mention stupid) thing to do.

I mean logically if you think a girl has loose character (by your standard) and instead of refusing to marry her, you choose to agree to marry her and THEN leave altar. What does that makes you?

But again we both are rational beings (like Diya) and people in serials (and sometimes even in life) do not behave rationally.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Whatever the reason and whatever the manner so long as Abhay and Diya don't get married the show will be interesting.

But yes I agree that Abhay is behaving in a vindictive manner, probably wound up by his sister. And Ratan sa stepping into Abhay's shows and marrying Diya to protect her reputation and honour will be the best thing that could happen.

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