Feeling of Being Unwelcome

From coming on this forum, it is clear that more people support Avni and Aditi.

I always considered this forum as neutral with both leads than others forums where I was before. But I think this forum is no more like before.Lol hence my participation is also very less here now a days. I don't know in present track why ppl of here aren't satisfied with neil. Why avni is presented completely flawless here by ppl? where both have flaws in characterization? Is it due to off screen reason or not ppl are still in trauma of juhi n bacchi track? If it's reason of off screen then it'll be highly an immaturity. It's not only zain but also with aditi there was also huge off drama between she n fans. Why we are mixing off screen with on screen?

I'm sorry dear but I don't exactly understand what you mean. I have never sensed a moment where people on the forum defend neil or avni, or aditi or zain more than another. It's only been recent where there have been posts in regards to how the fandom on social media is being immature and bashing zain for no reason, with many people agreeing that the fandom is being immature, and zain and his friends are not at fault, then there are a few people who blamed nalini, zain and co equally for baiting fans.

I wouldn't say you are being unwelcome. No one is! Trust me I have seen worst forums and I would still say this forum is still very open to hear and not attack you personally and I hope it stays this way.

I like both of them equally , they are the reason I became hooked to Naamkaran and looking forward to the track progressing and waiting for them to meet. Regarding their private life that is up to them and Zain has been amazing as Neil and his onscreen chemistry with Aditi is one of the best I have seen on Indian tv shows . I am sure their are still a lot of people on this forum who like both characters .

Lol I think you missed the phase when Aditi was bashed left, right and centre and constantly questioned regarding her aloofness with the rest of the cast. It was prevalent everywhere, though in diluted form on this forum. It's just that the fans disagree with Zain's lifestyle more now so they're bashing him. :/

I think people are entitled to their opinion and more than welcome to post it here but obviously there may be people who disagree and reply to your post. I feel like as a forum the discussion I have seen has been mostly healthy. We have more often than not been unanimous like with the chuhi track. Right now with this track we have a lot of expectations and I hope that we are not disappointed. Personally for me I love both avni and Neil and I watch the show only for Avneil scenes. But like I've said before in the current scenario if I were forced to pick a side it'd be avni. I feel most for her character. I can't wait to watch Avneil find the way back to each other. Offscreen actors have their own lives which I don't think we should discuss too much. Obviously we love them and we are interested in their lives which is natural but we need to remember that they have a private life. I personally have and will never participate in a discussion on their personal lives. I hope that other people could do that as well so that the forum is only about the show. We all agree that there is no one better than Aditi and Zain for these roles and they both are doing a fantastic job too. So let's hope that they continue to shine!

I don't think Neil's supporters are unwelcome, I read many posts explaining Neil's point of view, in Avengers (Ri) post there are many who explained his point of view and some AvNeil's, so Neil and Zain are loved, there are only few who have a problem with Zain (I suppose) but honestly I prefer to avoid the real life things, as these are none of my business, personally I feel Zain is a good guy at heart and his personal life is his, the way he handles his fans is his call.

As far as Neil is concerned, I feel majority have sympathy for Avni because of her past and the pain she went through and is still going through hence her actions are not severly judged as Neil's. I reiterate I hate the word judge, but that's what people mainly do. I'm all with understanding Avni and feeling for her pain, I feel for her a lot and I used to make posts in the EDT showing both points of view, but there was a time where people started bashing Neil heavily and since then every single action of his is being judged and I feel in wanting to do justice to Avni and feeling for her people started being unfair to Neil, and maybe that's one of the reasons which made me make some few Neil oriented posts, not because I don't understand Avni, I understand her and I feel for her but because Neil is being judged and people hold him answerable and feel he should even suffer while when it comes to Avni, some of her biggest mistakes are kind of overlooked stating her past, her pain and a huge number of fans ignore her contribution to the current situation or to other situations in AvNeil's life, I doubt the character Avni itself is aware of that, if it's about intentions then Neil's intentions weren't bad either, so that's my bone of contention.

I reiterate that I feel and I know that no matter what Avni does given her past heartbreaks and experiences, it's understandable, overcoming this is easier said than done, we should be in her shoes to feel the amount of pain and the origin of her insecurity but that doesn't mean I would be unfair to Neil or say that he only did mistakes, I feel a huge part of AvNeil's problems are because of Avni's past baggage and her impulsive trait, I know her intentions are good, she is a wonderful woman but she did costy mistakes, so if we will ignore her contribution to the situation because of her past, let's not make Neil carry the burden and the entire responsibility of this (he ends up carrying a lot anyways whether he is at fault or not), because honestly I feel in this particular situation, Avni is more responsible. People will argue that Mishti, Juhi and Vidyut are in their lives because of Neil, then DVM and Amol were also in their lives because of Avni, your problems are ur partner's problems and his problems are yours.

Hence I say look at them as AvNeil and stop doing the hisab kitab

P.S: many times I feel like expressing something about Avni, because of what I genuinely feel but then I come here and I find not only many people did that at length but they are bashing Neil and making him responsible for everything!
I like posts which present both points of view with no double standards

Relax dear and just take it easy I am considerably a new member and have never been part of any forum before nor I ever comment on social media so I don't know how they work but here I feel quite welcomed and a lot of criticism has come Neil's way and many are supporting avni bcoz till now after leap we have only seems her part of the story once we see what Neil did in this 6 months and what he went through I am sure the views will change and I think you're kinda mixing onscreen and offscreen situation that's why may be you felt that way

And if you're referring to all the funny posts about Neil I guess those are just for fun

This is the first forum where I have seen where nobody will personally attack you if you support a particular character even if the character is negative unlike other forums where one will have to think multiple times before posting anything.