Why are u blaming anjali?? - Page 2

i don't blame anjali, 'cause i don't think it makes sense to blame a fictional character! 😆

jokes apart, here's where i fault anjali's actions today: she really did the announcement of marriage to yug purely to hit back at kavya. this is the most selfish thing that anjali has ever done, imho.

the way that i saw it, upto that point, she was fully contemplating having yug as a friend, playing father figure to her child, with herself being an independant woman supporting her child in every other way. that's why i thought yesterday's episode was so cool! despite yug having "proposed" to her, she made a statement of independance. and i loved that!

then, in a fit of hurt and mad rage, she chucked a marriage into kavya's face. not only that, she carried it forward to save face. she could've always later chatted with yug about it and cancelled the engagement. but now she appears to want to get married to yug.

given that she's in love with kavya, given that she knows that yug is crazy about her, there are only two explanations: one she's going to use yug's love to do a payback to kavya. everyone else who matters to her is going to approve of her marriage to yug. it's only kavya who gets hurt, really. 😛 or, two anjali is a nut. which i don't think she is. 😆

and btw, i don't feel any sorrow on yug's behalf in this. he's in love with her. he's the smartest guy in the show along with nitya and anjali. he's walking into this with his eyes wide open. i trust his character. go yug.

i actually only feel sorry about anjali's character. until now, after she got off the mad track of trying to drive poor kavya insane, she has been deliciously strong and sane. now this character is a little tarnished if only in my eyes.

going forward, here's what can happen. one she does settle down with yug, and she makes him happy for the rest of his life, that'd be a good thing. two she does settle down with yug, and then gets a divorce to go back to kavya-with-a-brain, that'd be a really bad thing. three she breaks off her engagement to go back to kavya-with-a-brain, that'd be a bad thing. four she breaks off her engagement and settles down to yug-father and anjali-independant-mother, that'd be a cool thing. 😆

gee, i think that i've made my preferences clear. 😆 -esther

😆 😆 estee!.. ok lol i was p*****d of last night with anjali, though it didnt last long 😆 a part of me feels that she is just marrying yug to prove a point, is she is doin this then why make the mistake kavya did, this will only ruin four ppls lives.

but then a part of me feels maybe she realises that yug indeed is someone who will always support her and her child.
he is so in love with her that he wont queston the motives as to why she has taken this step.he is such an intelligent and savvy indidvidual that he knows that a part of anjali is doing this because of what kavya said to her at the hospital. anjali proved ydy that she is only human. for too long she has been willing to sacrifice her own self-respect. i think she will no longer do this now.

what intrigues he is that anjali hasnt been shown once to recall the scence in which yug tells her he loves her.. firstoff maybe she wants to block it out but i think from her reaction she already knew. maybe not the depth of his feelings for her but she was acutely aware that he held quite deep feelings for her.

in terms of love.. i honestly believe if she gave yug a chance he would shower her with his love. and even if she doesnt accept him in the "form" of a husband as a friend he will always stand by her. thats what i love most about their relationship. its based on friendship and in this friendship they already have a strong foundation trust. somethng which unforutnately unable to flourish with her and kavya..

ok lol my essay is done 😆

Uzi *im a believer not a dreamer* mittal

Estee and Uzi i agree with your sentiments totally.

Well KA could never had trust in thier relationship as it started on lies and then when the truth came out, K was not ready for it. C'mon K's mental state is fragile, even before he was being given the crazy meds, Nitiya's upbringing made him emotionally vulnerable to life events. He does not handle bad situations well.

Anju was such a role model when she was an independent woman but i guess societal pressure and K's taunts won out so she gave in to what ppl expected, a lawful relationship with Yug. Notice she said she could no longer tolerate K so yeh, she only human so she doing it to make K suffer. He needs to learn the hard way he was wrong!

Realistically, however much you love someone i dont think you would go back to them having experienced how much they can hurt you and seen them at their lowest, mean side. If you do and actually had a successful relationship the 2nd time round then that is some deep deep love.