Is sameer really in LOVE with naina ????

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have seen many posts regarding sameers feelings towards naina...many say that he is only guiltstricken...some say that He only likes her as a friend...but I have a different perspective ...and I have my own reasons for that too...


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Love is something which cannot be told...it should be felt...and I can every time feel that in sameers eyes...his expressions and body language clearly tells that he is in love...moreover it just takes a fraction of second for anyone to fall in love with anyone...for naina ...it was their first meet...we say that we love a person when he makes us feel those feels which we have never experienced before...


It's true that sameer was having a liking towards a naina gradually after making bet...but the whole perspective of him towards naina changed after that slap...you can very well understand the differences between the sameer before and after slap...


There were many changes like


He started to call her behenji more softly...
He started to be more friendly with her...
He started to open up his pain with her...
He started to feel proud of all her achievements...
He started to genuinely help her not like for Pooja didi....
He started to feel her pain...
He started to defend her...
He started to analyse their relationship...
He started to feel sorry for breaking her heart...
He started to knew how a good person is she...
He started to find ways to be with her...
He started to care her family and her feelings...
He started to be liberal with her...
He started to be possessive too...
He started to appreciate naina...
He started to find more of positive things in her...


If all these feelings are not for love ... then what is called love... it's defenetely only out of love if sameer does all these things ... knowing the attitude he was having for naina earlier...


I agree that it was a slow and drastic change...but sameer has defenetely started to love naina...and he too realises that naina is something special for him...but he is just not able to make it sure whether... is this love... or something else...but that day is not far when he realises it...it will happen soon...he will defenetely realise that he too loves naina ...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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You penned down my thoughts...the slap was the transition I too feel...before that he took her for granted...as of the many girls who swoon over him...n I think when you are in love, while others may be aware from your actions, you might take time to realize it yourself. First phase is denial, then the next phase is confusion...while the 3rd is acceptance...I think he is somewhere between the confusion n realization phase.
You mentioned he became possesive...I'm missing this...which instance did you mean to cite here?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I definitely agree wid your words Adhi!!
That slap was a turning point in their relationship..it changed Sameer's perspective of Naina..he started thinking of her in a completely different way!! N u've very well explained dat so I won't write it again

Even after falling in luv, realising it is another important thing..which I think will take time in Sameer's case!! But hopefully it happens in d trip itself..he has fallen for Naina, but he isn't realising it bcz he has not experienced how it feels to be luvd!! Poor guy just doesn't know what luv is
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As soon as you stop wanting something,you get it.-Andy Warhol
Thats how it is.Till he was after her for the bet he was missing on concentrating on his feelings.As e stopped doing everything for bet and started doing something out of sheer care and admiration he has been realizing---You fall in love with the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time.😳
Nice post Adhi! You really have captured the core essence and process of falling in love.

"Dil diya nahin jata ..Kho jaata hai.''😉

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Fab post...Adhi..
Sameer is confused right now ...journey of " I like Naina to I love Naina " just begin

one thing is Sameer notice abt Naina she too just like him yaroon ke yaar
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I dnt hve an inch of doubt when it comes to Sam...he has fallen for his Behenji...!!!Yes there is confusion when his mind is overshadowing his heart...Mostly he hasnt realized what Naina means to him...He knows he has that special affinity n bond with her not jus a friend but more than that n he feels that spark n attraction towards her...The peace n serenity that she brings to him is none like other.,.I can relate this to him when he came running for her in the bus...Those xpressions that he had for her...the adorable smile n those loving eyes which meant only n only for her...Who does that??? ...Pray tell me why...?.He didnt jus go there for just her happiness but he went for Himself...HE felt at PEACE when he saw her...!Tats wat love can do...Bringing about the calmness n contenttment to the restless n wandering soul that he is...!He has atlast found his HOME!


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Originally posted by: ATH_KTM_543



I have seen many posts regarding sameers feelings towards naina...many say that he is only guiltstricken...some say that He only likes her as a friend...but I have a different perspective ...and I have my own reasons for that too...


Firstly


Love is something which cannot be told...it should be felt...and I can every time feel that in sameers eyes...his expressions and body language clearly tells that he is in love...moreover it just takes a fraction of second for anyone to fall in love with anyone...for naina ...it was their first meet...we say that we love a person when he makes us feel those feels which we have never experienced before...


It's true that sameer was having a liking towards a naina gradually after making bet...but the whole perspective of him towards naina changed after that slap...you can very well understand the differences between the sameer before and after slap...


There were many changes like


He started to call her behenji more softly...
He started to be more friendly with her...
He started to open up his pain with her...
He started to feel proud of all her achievements...
He started to genuinely help her not like for Pooja didi....
He started to feel her pain...
He started to defend her...
He started to analyse their relationship...
He started to feel sorry for breaking her heart...
He started to knew how a good person is she...
He started to find ways to be with her...
He started to care her family and her feelings...
He started to be liberal with her...
He started to be possessive too...
He started to appreciate naina...
He started to find more of positive things in her...


If all these feelings are not for love ... then what is called love... it's defenetely only out of love if sameer does all these things ... knowing the attitude he was having for naina earlier...


I agree that it was a slow and drastic change...but sameer has defenetely started to love naina...and he too realises that naina is something special for him...but he is just not able to make it sure whether... is this love... or something else...but that day is not far when he realises it...it will happen soon...he will defenetely realise that he too loves naina ...


I guess after getting slapped he really did felt insulted but d ignores from her side is biggest thing which mattered him that was evident on his face n eyes which r seriously not because of bet.During d cake sequence he was very happy not because of cake but was happy to hear that she likes him most.The moment she told that she likes him a lot that what changed his actions.His anger got crushed from then.

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