IB is officially unpredictable | 17.11.2017

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Okay can I just say something?


IB is officially unpredictable. in the past 12 hours we have got the sizzling hot teaser that made us lose every bit of sanity of our mind, followed by an episode today that just touched the sky in terms of Shivika's relationship, compatibility, understanding and respect they have for each other. I mean, what is this mission they are on to, can anyone please tell me?


I would have probably NEVER realized to what degree Shivay has managed understand Anika , if I hadn't watched today's episode. I wouldn't have known he had managed to crawl into her skin slowly and quietly in this less than one year journey until he was able to read her every insecurity and agony like an open book.



"When she used to take a step forward, her self respect and dignity would stop her while I would always back off due to my pride and priority in name, blood and lineage"


"When I did understand what she means to me, destiny parted our ways and when I got her back, I realized Anika has always been alone, fought for her right on her own, stood up on her own feet without anyone's help. She fought all her life by herself..."


That pain for her sufferings, yet that pride that reflected in his eyes for the independent woman she is and for the fact that this lady belongs to him and only him...I swear to god I felt a tug in my stomach


"And I decided, before becoming her husband, I'll be her friend first..."


"I didn't want to win Anika...I wanted to win that heart she possesses"


Gawd!!! Please tell me they are not real, cause I don't see any bloody way this guy could be so flawless in depicting his emotions. How did he become so articulate and expressive from a man of few words who used to suppress every kind of sentiment within himself unless it was his brothers in question? How did he become so open? How did he start having so much emotions piled up within himself for this woman that he literally poured out in those few minutes today?



"I don't get why fingers are always pointed at women in such issues..."


"No, there's no 'kami' in my Anika. She's perfect!"


" Marriage is not always about physical relationship or intimacy...


Indeed it is not!! You can spend your entire life without even having the physical intimacy if you have an understanding better half who can just read your unspoken torment with that one look at your face, who puts you on the top in his priority list and goes out of his way to make you smile and turn the world upside down if he sees a single tear in your eyes - THAT is Shivay... or rather, ANIKA'S Shivay! LITERALLY! I can't believe GulNeet handled such a crucial and sensitive social norm so delicately within a matter of 7 minutes of conversation by merging it to Shivay's character and setting him as an example of how ANY husband in such situation should behave and take a stand for his wife.


It seemed slightly random to me yesterday when the pregnancy issue was introduced. I didn't find any heads or tail to the track. But why do we always make the same mistake of doubting the CVs? Such a smooth blend of this very common social issue that even the most educated people raises, to the powerful bond Shivika shares which nothing but strengthened their relationship today. GulNeet always had and will always have a way to introduce and pull off the tracks.


"So you do feel secure with me?"


"Bilkul..."


She didn't even take a moment to answer that question. Might not seem like a great deal to many to you but I have always seen an Anika who would shy away from confessing such sensitive factors about herself, mostly because she didn't want to make herself feel vulnerable. From that phase the stage she is in today, her steady way to open up to her husband has been so SO beautiful, I don't think I can find proper words to express how beautifully both Shivay's and Anika's characters evolved...I just can't!!!


A 20 minutes episode and we have seen them raising a social issue, witnessed a protective and possessive husband who by far had the most ideal way of taking a stand for his wife, followed by some teasing and adorable romance and stomach-hurting comedy



Hands down, one of the BEST episodes till date!


P.S. Had a two hours break and the first thing I did was to run into the washroom and watch that 'laal ishq' teaser for the zillionth and followed by today's episode. And dare I say, I do NOT regret not utilizing my time into studying...sorry but yeah I don't!!!😎


P.P.S. Now that I'm done pouring my heart out, I'll be more focused on my studies. Back to work, bye guys!!🤗


Love,
Mushfika


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ithihaas thumbnail
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I absolutely adore you for the post...
Was about to ask you on how did you find time to watch the episode, saw your P.S.

Will come back tomorrow to comment...
Until then enjoy your lectures...😉


Edited by ithihaas - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Beautiful post and very nicely put in words (as usual). I agree to all of it. Indeed, the way Shivaay explained his, her and their journey (related to their intimacy) was beautifully said by him. Both had their own issues which refrained them to take that step. Phir, the separation and then once they finally got together, he made her his priority. Matlab to take care of her in order to let her forget all the sadness that uses be in her life.

Two things I loved the most:
1) he wanted to become her friend first. Shows that getting intimate with her was not his priority. It was first about understanding each other and to reach a certain comfort level.

2) he asked her if she feels secure with him. Most important thing! For Anika it was an obvious answer because little did she knew he was asking it in regard of something else. Her affirmation to his question brought him to cloud nine.
This one question is very important for a husband to ask and the wife's answer is even more important because if she replies in negative then there is NO WAY a husband can take it to the next level.

Not sure if I liked the fact that he said in front of the whole family. Kuch cheezein private hone bhi chahiye and this was a very very very personal matter. Shivaay even mentioned but both he and Anika could have made it clear, in a rather stronger way, that no she can't be pregnant now. Kam se kam, Dadi and Pinky should have understood the hint.

Khair, all said and done, both are finally at that level we all have been waiting for kabse. Toh nek kaam mein, deri kyun 😉
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Simply beautiful post like episode & this episode is on my FAV epi list ❤️
Loved d fact that instead of taking wrong routes by telling his family that they do not want a baby for now or they did try but didn't happen yet or anything else he told family in straight and beautiful way.
If taken other routes then surely today or tomorrow questions would have been raised at annika or she would have been blamed like today dinky didn;t take even a second to jump on annika that annika might have some issue in conceiving. Sadly this is d truth of indian society that fingers are pointed only at women & not at men in such situations. Also if not blame or taunts then also dadi or pinky or family would have started asking them again & again putting them specially annika in pressure to fulfill family demands for family happiness. This also happens so much in indian society that women agree to take relation to next level because of family pressure where as husband fail to understand or they also feel pressure so agree but then where is girls consent here? she should agree with all her heart & not because of any pressure so this is d best way to tone down family expectations or any further questions thrown at annika her in spot. So I loved it when Shivaay explained all of them beautiful that how their relation formed and how it was important for him to become her friend first before intimacy


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yes today SSO as a husband stumped me completely. How straight and calm he was while explaining everything.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Great post!!😃
Indeed they have come a long way!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Why do you always make me so emotional with your posts? How do you always come up with such incredible posts? And how do you voice out every single emotion of the actors as well as the feelings of the fans so perfectly??? WHY and HOW are you so good at it?


I felt like pulling shivay into a bear hug for setting an example of an ideal husband today ...Just like you, I was awestruck at his speech. I just could not believe the path he has walked down to reach to this point. I can NOT help comparing him with the old shivay either. it's just such a big big big wala change yet such a beautiful and steady one. i can not get over it mushfika. so nice. as you said in your post, he really did "crawl" into her skin without even her knowledge and she and the fans realized it only when he said it in words today ... yes we knew he understood her and she meant a lot to him but like you said, it never struck us so hard until he said it in words.


First few minutes i couldn't believe how she just went on and said "MY anika is perfect... and then the next couple of sentence left me breathless.

That pain in his eyes for her sufferings, yet that pride that reflected in his eyes for the independent woman she is and for the fact that this lady belongs to him and only him...


See this is I mean when i say your posts contain something that just make me stick till i finish reading the whole thing , no matter how big it is. I just LOVE your description and you way to see through the depth of the characters. The way you described shivay in this bit is so accurate. When i watched the episode again after reading you post, i couldd really see it.

She didn't even take a moment to answer that question. Might not seem like a great deal to many to you but I have always seen an Anika who would shy away from confessing such sensitive factors about herself, mostly because she didn't want to make herself feel vulnerable. From that phase the stage she is in today, her steady way to open up to her husband has been so SO beautiful, I don't think I can find proper words to express how beautifully both Shivay's and Anika's characters evolved...I just can't!!!

underline: exactly. anika had feelings for shivay even before shivay did for her. yet she was just as hard to crack and see through because of her insecurities and because she always thought she would become vulnerable if she loses her heart to him... she just never wanted to admit it to herself that she has feeling for him. remember when she first realized her feelings for him...those bells that she used to hear? she had broken down in his arms saying she was scared...that something that's not supposed to happen is happening. from that stage to today's anika, i just can not stop admiring the way she has opened up...SO MUCH!!! 😳

I can forget all my grudges for gulneet for sometime for giving us this episode. Who knew, after the disaster with piya track, they would really take this sudden turn withi a few hours and make us jump like crazy people😆




Edited by Maisha123 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Beaitiful.post
What Shivaye said today to both his family and to Annilka in private shows how much he kniws Annika

He wanted to wait till she felt secure

This is the amswer for all those who were asking why nothing has happened yet
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Posted: 7 years ago
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mein mar gai aaj ka episode dekh kar mush. pooore pagal ho gayi. SSO ne yeh kya kar dala. I was already not in the proper condition after i watched that video, phir kalka episode dekha, aur phir teri yeh post... uff... Gul, Narbhi, Lalit ji and now you...you guys are on a mission to kill me or what.
nothing long to say. All i'm going to say is that i agree with every letter of your post Mush!!
Edited by LoveNakuulMehta - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa

Beaitiful.post

What Shivaye said today to both his family and to Annilka in private shows how much he kniws Annika

He wanted to wait till she felt secure

This is the amswer for all those who were asking why nothing has happened yet


@bold 👏

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