Lack of Trust or Clash of Perspectives?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Kaira are considered to have trust issues whereas in my opinion situations they faced weren't due to lack of trust but due to clash of their contrasting perspectives.

When they left GV:
Karthik's perspective was he need to stay away from Mr. and Mrs. Goenka who were the cause of his mother's death. Whereas Naira's perspective was Karthik is missing his siblings, dadi, chachu-chachi even somewhere deep down his dad too which was evident so she tried to unite them. If she misunderstood her parents, Karthik also misunderstood his parents. The clash of perspective was there instead of lack of trust.

During Soumya's past Revelation Track :
According to Karthik his mom committed suicide because of Mr. Goenka and Mrs. Goenka's alleged affair. According to Naira the story wasn't as simple as it appears as a neutral person she has seen them loving him so she was capable of doing anything to make Karthik realize. Her previous attempts to endanger her life make Karthik dubious about the snake bite which had nothing to do with trust. Again clash of perspectives was there instead of lack of trust.

During Naksh's confession to Naira and Karthik watching the video recording
Naira knew his brother will keep Kirti happy whereas Karthik knew forcing his sister on anyone was wrong. Both of them were right in their perspective. It has nothing to do with trust. Karthik's words u and ur brother lied to us our family u kept us all in dark were the facts and Naira's words my brother is trying was also the fact. They didn't mistrust each other but they were trying to make their perspective right, be it by proving other's perspective wrong. More than lack of trust, clash of perspectives was there.


In these few instances it was clash of perspectives than lack of trust

Whereas in others it wasn't completely lack of trust but occurrence of complicated situation.

During Swiss track:
Naira accusing Karthik was surely due to lack of trust can't blame Naira completely here, Karthik's actions were hinting towards something going wrong but she didn't know Karthik use to talk to her father in actual.

During Akshara's death track:
More than lack of trust it was lack of clear communication or improper handling of situation by them. If in Karthik's opinion chachu told truth to Naira confirmation was must, even if, Naira requested him not to talk about past. He should have apologized from Singhanias before marriage as apart from Naira they also had the right to know the truth and if he thought Naira must have told them, than also apology was a must from his side before getting married to Naira.

Only time when it was clearly lack of trust.

During Dance academy track:
It was lack of clear perception or logical reasoning from Naira's side. Naira clearly didn't trust Karthik that time.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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A beautiful post.

I completely agree, Kaira have not had a lack of trust, rather difference of opinions or lack of communication, which is something I love about them, just because you are in love with someone it doesn't mean you should lose your individual identity or your opinions.

Dance Track also I felt was a bit of lack of communication, Karthik should have spoken to Naira about his feelings regarding Kiran, when Naira got to know what he felt, they should have talked more clearly, but still her thinking that he could tell Kiran to go away on the day of the dance leaving her alone without a partner which could cause her to loose, was wrong especially since she knows Karthik supported the Dance Academy for ever. He had been the one who bought the file with the dance academy dream that her father had in front of her on purpose, he had sneaked in the office to submit her application, he had gotten permission from Dadi.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: janvi0513

A beautiful post.


I completely agree, Kaira have not had a lack of trust, rather difference of opinions or lack of communication, which is something I love about them, just because you are in love with someone it doesn't mean you should lose your individual identity or your opinions.

Dance Track also I felt was a bit of lack of communication, Karthik should have spoken to Naira about his feelings regarding Kiran, when Naira got to know what he felt, they should have talked more clearly, but still her thinking that he could tell Kiran to go away on the day of the dance leaving her alone without a partner which could cause her to loose, was wrong especially since she knows Karthik supported the Dance Academy for ever. He had been the one who bought the file with the dance academy dream that her father had in front of her on purpose, he had sneaked in the office to submit her application, he had gotten permission from Dadi.


Thank you :) I agree its lack of communication or better understanding of situation that led to misunderstanding more particularly to accusations during dance academy track. Yes if Karthik had previously communicated with Naira and straightaway told her he doesn't like Kiran invading their personal space she would have understood it and there won't be any problem. Naira could've also tried to be a little more careful with words.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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A very well written descriptive analysis they truly never had lack of trust in true sense it was always clash of perspectives..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

A very well written descriptive analysis they truly never had lack of trust in true sense it was always clash of perspectives..


Thank you :) Lack of trust and clash of perspectives are wrongly perceived most of the times.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShadowImbue


Thank you :) I agree its lack of communication or better understanding of situation that led to misunderstanding more particularly to accusations during dance academy track. Yes if Karthik had previously communicated with Naira and straightaway told her he doesn't like Kiran invading their personal space she would have understood it and there won't be any problem. Naira could've also tried to be a little more careful with words.

Though I do understand why Karthik didn't say anything he was probably fearful that he wouldn't able to say things properly which couk lead to Naira thinking he had problems with her dance, either leading her to quit or becoming upset and not giving her 100 percent. Am also glad they didn't have Naira misunderstand for long it was short time only

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