I wouldnt lock myself in a room and isolate myself..I would just want to be kept on my own and let me do my own healing..If I was in that situation I can totally see my whole family on my tail and my friends..>I know it would be because they love me but at a time like this I would want to do my own healing..I Know they are there for support but its something i need to take up on my own..After I get over this shock state then I would love to be surrounded and distracted..First for me, it would be getting over the shock..if I take can handle getting over the shock and what hit me then I would go out in the open...
True, I understand wht your sayin, bascially coming with the terms with life by yourself, making your mentally prepared. I do the same as well, i'm not those melodramatic type, but prefer to deal woth confidence.
But the Only problem is Shika doesnt have that level of confiendence, sometime when i watch the show, i think she;s not mentally stable.... And on top of that, to make matters worse, she's get easily influenced by others, and become veryyy stubborn.
Just watch, she's goin to come back as a superior villian against sam later on, in the show.