Its okay we all do it differently that doesn't mean you're wrong .

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Just remember that while some peope will rise to concur the world they are still people still others behind the scene

Not everyone was burn a hero , that's what I always say , we all have our strengths and weaknesses, person the girl that gets saved doesn't make you less of a person of a human being than the person who saved you ...


This is a woman who is a prostitute , not by choice but by force maybe just maybe in the beginning there was a fighting spirit in her but its been five years she is now dead according to the world and the people that should be fighting to get her back ...and am guessing she was dead to herself too sexual slavery/rape( let's not sugar coat it having sex with someone while knowing they don't want it and while knowing they have no choice in the matter is rape ) is not something to be taken lightly its can change any person it changes people when it happens once but imagine continuously for five year ...

She said no one escapes this hell , she most have tried at some point and learnt from her mistake and others too most have been an example and it most have taken a lot more to tried again


She might have been that person Neil keeps on yapping about , she might have been that amazing human being but being violated in the most cruel way man can think of can change a person
and maybe neil is right they WERE thesame ( she and Anvi) , but just maybe while others would have fought to the dead or build a thick skin , this girl retreated into her self and became the shell of the woman neil knew because we all survive in different ways we all protect our selves in different ways ...

While neil knew the girl who might have been happy , had normal every day problems , families , blood lines , heirs , money etc ... This is a girl whose only fight am guessing is to own her own BODY ...

She is not asking for marriage rights , and name but her BODY something that is the basics of all human rights, the right to ones' own body the right to be treated not as property but as human ... The right to be human ... So neil is seeing a flying bird and seeing a half dead caged bird that doesn't know its still alive


Many people would have killed themselves , many people would have tried hell and sure she has tried , but she is still alive and to me just being alive and have that hope of seeing another day is amazing on its own because everything is replaceable , they could always kill her and traffic another woman from some Where to go through the same pain ...

My only regret is that like all tv shows her story instead to be dealt with sensitivity would be made as an excuse to glorify others and then swept under the table as if it never happened and she will become this whole new person( probably the bitch from he'll who was born to separate the OTP) because women/men who go through such ordeals don't need counseling years of help and therapy ...


Am sorry this was a comment that turned into a rant and then a post ... And its mostly inspired by a show called "the hand maiden's tale" its about a group of women who are kidnapped trained and forced into being surrogates (through the natural way) to the new rulers of a post apoplectic america ... The show is not for the faint hearted and its only 12 episodes. , and you realise that human cruelty disguised religion , politics and money does rule the world

Ps: can't say anything about the acting cause sometimes terrible acting just makes you want to hit your head repeatedly on the world and I myself can't act to say my life which is why I don't try and some people should follow my example 😉

So dear juhi while the whole will judge you am just here to say Its okay , we all do it differently that doesn't mean you are wrong just survive ❤️ , cause the inevitability of you losing this fight, of you losing this game of so call love was always a fact and some one else was always meant to win ... When you do turn evil be good at it 😃...


Forgot to introduce myself , kel , kelz kells here ( take a pick , just 50cents a name ) I come and go as the wind cause my mom would have named me procrastination I she had known ... 😵
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Beautiful post and have been guilty of judging. But I guess you are right. I wish and sincerely wish that Naamkarann CVS shoe for once that such women also have right to dignity and lead life with the society. I want them to show reintegration and show ex need not be bitchy. I somehow have faith that they will do so. They kept true to Ali's character. Let us see what they do
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dsupriya

Beautiful post and have been guilty of judging. But I guess you are right. I wish and sincerely wish that Naamkarann CVS shoe for once that such women also have right to dignity and lead life with the society. I want them to show reintegration and show ex need not be bitchy. I somehow have faith that they will do so. They kept true to Ali's character. Let us see what they do



Thanks , I feel people forgot that while anvi had support from neela and is now living past her past , juhi is still stuck in her present where all she has is her self and survival ...

What if she trusts these random people and it ends up being a trap? ...

Me too I wish for the re integration and for once a fair treatment to what a woman goes through ... But then again I have come to notice mostly in love triangles with two guys one girl ... But guys always end up as good both trying to win the girl but the other way around with two girls the SFL is always the undignified bitch who has no purpose in life ...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Welcome to the forum dear.😊
Beautifully written post.For the first time some one have penned down the thoughts regarding Juhi so beautifully
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Very beautiful post TM and I agree with almost everything that you wrote .
I wanted to express my thoughts on Juhi too and your post echoes my sentiments completely .

I really hope that they dont turn her into a vamp but instead sensitively show her building up a new life once free from that hell.These victims go through hell and need all the support from others so that they can integrate back into society and lead a respectful life.

Just adding my two cents to what you already wrote on Juhi . :

1. I can understand if they show her being jealous of Avni for sometime and show her in grey shades briefly . Because Avni has that life which she could have had if she wasnt taken into Rangmahal and its natural to feel bad and may be jealous too. But then , like they did with Ali , she should realize that truth and focus on rebuilding her life and finding her happiness.

2. Neil said Avni and Juhi were similar in their traits , which they probably were. But Juhi's spirit is broken due to last 5 years of misery at RM. Some may think that Avni also has had a bitter childhood and miserable life but she is still a fighter and if she were in Juhi's place she would have fought. This could be true , but one cannot under estimate the support Avni had from Neela ma when her life was miserable due to DM . Neela maa helped her fighing DM when she was a child and has helped her become the fighter that she is now too. While Juhi , who probably was a brave woman standing for whats right earlier , but during these 5 years of misery at Rang mahal she just doesnt have anyone , not to even talk to , let alone support her. She might have fought for long initially but her spirit was completely broken down by Ragini pandit and her atrocities. So I feel its unfair to expect Juhi to be any different from what she is being shown as now and compare Avni's pain and Juhi's pain .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Africanqueenkel



Thanks , I feel people forgot that while anvi had support from neela and is now living past her past , juhi is still stuck in her present where all she has is her self and survival ...

What if she trusts these random people and it ends up being a trap? ...

Me too I wish for the re integration and for once a fair treatment to what a woman goes through ... But then again I have come to notice mostly in love triangles with two guys one girl ... But guys always end up as good both trying to win the girl but the other way around with two girls the SFL is always the undignified bitch who has no purpose in life ...


TM, I did not see this reply of yours.
@ Bold - I agree with this.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Prefect post on juhi character... 👍🏼
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Originally posted by: lenageorge

Welcome to the forum dear.😊

Beautifully written post.For the first time some one have penned down the thoughts regarding Juhi so beautifully



Thank you ... And when it comes to serials I always seem to fall for the underdog (people who had the odds against them in the beginning and might never win ). Good or evil , it doesn't matter to me ...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Great post TM! Yes I agree Juhi deserves our empathy and you are right too, Indian shows like to show the Ex as a Vamp and that is why no one trusts the ex. They think she is back to ruin the lives of the OTP. Make herself a nuisance in their life. That is what every show does. I hope NK CV's go against the tide like they always have.

I also want to see a re-integration track. I want Juhi to stand up for herself and fight for herself. Not so she can be accepted by some Man, but to accept herself again. This was not her fault and I want her to rise above being a victim. This can be a good parallel track too. I hope they handle it well and not superficially. I hope they didn't make her a victim of trafficking just to glorify the leads for saving her and then to turn her into the nasty jealous Vamp dhore daaling on the Male lead.


Lets hope this track does justice to someone who has been through the plight of Juhi. Yes, she may be envious and jealous of Avni (as another member pointed out). All these years she has been living in the memories of Neil coz she had nothing else to live for. Then to see he has got married, has a wife and is happy is hard to take. Not coz he is wrong to have those things, but coz you realize how much you have lost. Your life is in a standstill. You have no future and everyone else has moved ahead. It's like you came from the past to the future to find everything and everyone changed and you are a stranger to the people who were once in your life.


I hope this sensitive subject is treated right, and she does not get to be the New member of Sapola gang as soon as she leaves Raang Mehel!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Great post TM! Yes I agree Juhi deserves our empathy and you are right too, Indian shows like to show the Ex as a Vamp and that is why no one trusts the ex. They think she is back to ruin the lives of the OTP. Make herself a nuisance in their life. That is what every show does. I hope NK CV's go against the tide like they always have.

I also want to see a re-integration track. I want Juhi to stand up for herself and fight for herself. Not so she can be accepted by some Man, but to accept herself again. This was not her fault and I want her to rise above being a victim. This can be a good parallel track too. I hope they handle it well and not superficially. I hope they didn't make her a victim of trafficking just to glorify the leads for saving her and then to turn her into the nasty jealous Vamp dhore daaling on the Male lead.


Lets hope this track just justice to someone who has been through the plight of Juhi. Yes she may be envious and jealous of Avni (as another member pointed out). All these years she has been living in the memories of Neil coz she had nothing else to live for. Then to see he has got married, has a wife and is happy is hard to take. Not coz he is wrong to have those things, but coz you realize how much you have lost. Your life is in a standstill. You have no future and everyone else has moved ahead. It's like you came from the past to the future to find everything and everyone changed and you are a stranger to the people who were once in your life.


I hope this sensitive subject is treated right, and she does not get to be the New member of Sapola gang as soon as she leaves Raang Mehel!

CVS have always surprised us and who knows they may do so now too. Seeing Avni she is also getting her fighting spirit back. She is also trying to escape. I always wanted reintegration and yes her being envious will be anything but natural.

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