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I usually don't make posts but lately i've had enough with the amount of stupid arguments and justifications happening and how Anika is being given the clean chit in regards to everything that she did. I kept shut because many of my friends have said what i mostly felt in regards to the mess that Anika is Now But today i saw a few posts and couldn't help but make this post because some of the arguments here just left me like this
Sab Bhool Jayein: So this is what anika once again said basically what a huge chunk of fandom wants shivaay to do too but my question is Why? and Is it that easy? How can you rebuild a relationship on a jhoot ki buniyaaad or on forgetting everything .Let's imagine for a sec he actually does end up forgetting it and starts over but then how will he ever put the same trust in her ever again. I fail to understand how Shivaay asking for truth is bullying as said by some people in the fandom. He deserves to know the truth how can she just say bhool jao Hain? Is it that easy. Haan bhool jao the mess and start over uhmm no relationships don't work like that how about him saying bhool jao to her after forced marriage will the fandom have been so chill and be on his side then No? I felt for him when he said he bloody still doesn't know why they broke up all he is asking for is truth and they can get back together but no. He needs to know it so he can trust her again she broke his trust as rightfully pointed by him today. You can't just brush something so big under the carpet caz then it will always remain an issue between them a Daraar he will never be able to trust her again the same way and the then the relationship isn't even worth it. Then came the argument he didn't let her say the truth Umm Pehle you tell me was she actually going to say the truth standing in that lobby? uhmm i don't think so if that was her intention she would've told him in the room the moment he gave her the chance again adn went you tell me the truth and i will put a stop to all this. NOTICE: he once again asked her to tell the truth. she asked him to trust he said i did but To do it again gimme a reason why should i again trust you and i did blindly which he did. Now people are like he lied he never trusted her and i am Like really We must've been watching a different show then just going to use some evidence (thank BW)
Pre-shaadi - Go check how Om is doing - I'm worried about him.. He called Anika - trusted Anika... not anyone else in his family.. LOL.. But Anika ne gadbad kar di thi.. 😆
Pre-Lohri scene - Kanch scene.. Mujhe Anika pe VISHWAAS hai.. even when all the evidences were against her... even Pinky was against her... LOL.. but then he was blackmailed and he flipped...😆
Pre-separation scene.. when Anika's drama had just started.. When she started talking against OmRu.. He did not react then.. he was upset rightfully so.. he wanted to talk..gave her a chance to clarify.. But then Anika had already given in to Pinky's blackmail... Oh and of course we all have forgotten again main janta hoon tum bhi omru se utna hi Pyar karti ho jitna main. If this is not him taking her as his family than what is
abhi bhi he is asking for that reason to trust her again it's is not like he doesn't now Remember the khada scene recently anika kabhi kuch galat nahi degi to ragini that is after he's being cheated. Had he not trusted her he wouldn't shut pInky ab the moment she starts talking shit about anika and GO
and this is not just one instance How many times Had he told pinky to shut up as politely as he can before the separation too anika ke khilaf he won't hear things so don't gimme this bullshit that he never stood for her yes there were instances where he didn't said anything in front of all but even then those instances are equally balanced with when he did. it baffles me when they say he never trusted her yeah sure Yeh Yaad hai ke Sahil got insulted that day but forgot how he stood with anika that day and when anika questioned him he went caz vishwaas hai and humara rishta is only vishwaas. Yeh Yaad hai ke he didn't believed her but yeh bhool gaye ke he didn't even blinked twice when she said she did it caz of pinky just last Wednesday and apologized for his actions that is throwing those divorce papers . Has she done any of that? No. Selective memory of People ka kya kehna . it's funny hwo the sahil insult and him standing up for anika is literally the same scene but logo ko sirf one part yaad hai
There is also the argument He didn't believe her when she told him of Pinky. Sorry to Burst you bubble but No MAN in this world will Believe it if it comes like this & is against your mother. I challenge you to go and just playfully tell your partners ke their mom did something wrong and see how in stride they take it without any evidence. kehna bohat aasan hai ke he should've But aise nahi chalta na har cheez ka time hota hai. Contrast it with him last wednesday as said he didn't blinked twice believed every single word she said and broke down caz this time he had a reason to believe in her words too. bharosa tha in her words toh he did believe it na no matter how ugly it was
Lil more on this caz everyone likes to use the Prinku kI shaadi door incident as lack of his faith hmm ofcourse you have again successfully forgotten him shushing pinky in middle of her cheekhna chillana and asking anika you tell me I want to hear it from you did you go out or no. I agree that after her yes he didn't let her speak and clarify that is his fault and his weakness that he believes his eyes but not lack of trust caz he only believed it and yelled at her after she said yes and then apologized in pool for that too that he overreacted caz mom was screaming.
Anika is Not family :
First how many of you have the exact same set of expectations from every member of your family? Everybody has different set of expectations from everybody.why do people forget the times he told her she is his family he twice told her she is family remember the holi scene you are my family anika.remember the photo scene before biwi declaration stand here caz you are part of this family. Remember the visarjan epi she is my family but even then you cannot have one member of family hurting the other which she did and the fact that she doesn't even want to tell him the reason for that. It's so easy to say he didn't respect her or consider her family but even in regular families people have different expectations from every member everyone falls under separate brackets and anika was in her own special one hence more expectations from her caz he placed her on that pedestal he knew his anika can do no wrong and hence it pinches more too and hard to forget or forgive for him caz he had expectations esp with all the promises she made that she will never hurt his family that she will protect them just like he does caz she knows what importance they have in his life. he doesn't have to keep his biwi in the same bracket as his parents or siblings.People also argue ke he lets his brothers get away & forgives them and forgave tia easily i agree he did & still does but why did he do that. Caz he expects nothing from his brothers Or expected anything from tia in anyway Hence forgiving them is easy form anika he had expectations toh it is much harder. Mind you when it comes to certain expectations from his brothers toh he doesn't forgive them either like all the times om tried to commit suicide and he got mad at him caz that is an expectation he has from him to never leave him. Same with ru have we all forgotten him slapping ru when he found out about his shaadi with saumya caz he had that faith in his brother that he can flirt but not ruin kisi ki life so he ended up slapping him caz expectation failure. Same is the case with anika his expectations were too much hence the hurt is far more too.
Now comes Anika ki tyaag her maahanta and she shouldn't be held responsible for that one day
yeah sure Kyon Bhai Galti ki hai toh manane main kya jata hai?. funny how people expect so much more from shivaay in terms of his redemption for that ONE day too for which he has now asked forgiveness and shown regret countless times too and that is verbally his actions started showing his redemption long ago. Also for Daksh MU bhi he bloody said i misunderstood you and i am sorry ek baar nahi 100 baar bologna i am sorry . sahil kidnap Bro he brought sahil back in NT track to redeem himself but of course all that counts for nothing caz he is a Male while anika gets a straight chit caz abla naari & pata nahi kaunsa pyar hai jo mujhe samjh nahi aata .has anika done any of that? shown the tiniest bit of remorse Instead she is blaming him for pushing this shaadi on him like really woman. you say you will tell him the truth break down but the moment in privacy he asks you again you go no i would rather marry someone then tell you the truth
Talk about double standards .
Shivaay just wants to know the truth & he deserves To know the truth, It is not an unrealistic expectation the man has done so much to find out that truth Ab she is not answering seedhe se toh kya kare .Shivaay is using the only tactics at his disposal...woh seedhe se puchhta hai toh she doesn't tell him...not like she's walked away from the situation either...wahin padi hui hai all up in his face...and then she herself dangled the fake fiance in his face...toh he used the resources at his disposal i.e. Vikram to use over her has leverage cuz he can see she doesn't want to marry the guy...this is typical Shivaay...what character have people been watching if they think he can't be calculative . ( thank AY for this )
It broke my heart seeing him say koshish sirf main kar raha hoon koshish pe koshish and she isn't even doing any koshish to save it and I can't disagree with that since she came he is the one trying to find out to fix things. she didn't even tried it once except just coming and staying at his house and avoiding the topic.
trust is really 2 way street as he rightfully said yeh rishta sirf tumhara nahi tha bharosa karna chahiye tha. His lines were so on point aaj bhi but alas Anika aur fandom samjh hi nahi paa raha aur kisi aur hi trip main chal rahein hai to justify anika ki mahanta. what this girl needs to do is be Honest be the girl she was OUAT tell him so they can sort this out. funny how she expects him to stop this shaadi but then again he is right why should he stop her shaadi now without her telling him anything caz he has NO HAQ . if he has no haq then why is she expecting it from him . he has no haq over her na so why the f**k should he stop her shaadi she gotta problem than she can stop "Not his burden " either to fix it for her if telling the truth is Not her Burden to tell. ache expectations hai shivaay se. Funny how everyone calls anika the doormat but right now he is being used as a doormat he was duped but blame bhi ussi pe wohi baat hai ulta chor kotwal ko daante
Sorry: this is not to hurt kisi ki feelings but i just had to let it out
Edited with lil more evidence
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