Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
Yes this is a bit off? They are trying to make Neil a regular SP hero who just gives attitude to the Heroine be she right or wrong? That is pretty much everyone on the block? Neil was different! So why change him? People love him for standing up to the truth always!
That is why it's grating me that he expects Avni to live with Bebe and Shweta who insult her? Even Prakash who is much more old fashioned doesn't expect this? He even said that Avni will only come when everyone apologises to her?So what happened! From the pooja scenes it is clear that there has been no apology? Bebe didn't even give Avni a blessing? How much more insulting can you be?
Anyways, the fact that Neil won't talk to Avni as if she has done some crime and acting normal with his family is just so not Neil and so off putting? If they want to make AvNeil into Gopi Bahu and Ahem Dikara then I am so done! I love AvNeil. Please don't ruin them CV's!!
@ BOLD: Exactly!!
Neil is so different and thats why we all love him, dont want him to be yet another egotistical, moody SP hero who has different standards for heroine and his family.
How can Neil be harsh/angry at Avni after what happened, how can he again make her go through pain and frustration!! Avni was so badly humiliated and bad-mouthed & all Neil said was "ghar chalo"... pehle wala neil would have simply pulled her into a hug and would have said "sab theek ho jayega, I am there with you". Be he just expected her to tag along... knowing she would be again called "besharam" & what not if she simply goes like this!! He is acting as if this is just another small fight, it looks as if he doesnt even know all the things but only a gist of what Neela told him. Wonder if knows about the letter, Prakash saying Avni will only return when they apologize & what all names they called her.
Neil knows how much Avni loves his family but also how much she hates being a burden on anyone, she is too strong for that!! He should know how broken she must have been to hear all that & now has no strength left to fight again. She tried to make them happy but that clearly didn't work! She is not okay to end everything easily, but she doesn't see his family ever accepting her with full heart and thus she does not want to make it even more difficult for Neil!! Why should she.. She doesn't even know if Neil is with her as husband for life or a friend who would not let any harm befall her...In her view easiest way that Neil or no one else gets hurt is that she stays away!!
Neil practically giving her an ultimatum, accusing her of breaking off so easily & saying he wouldn't ever call her again did not set right with Neil's character. He is a guy who tries to understand perspectives, but here is just reacting like any other SP Heroes. he should rather get mad at his family, for being so disgusting, using such cheap words for Avni, for making a tamasha of her in his absence.. he cant just right things by forcing avni to enter their home... they also need to accept her & for that they need to be shown mirror, that how wrong they are, otherwise she would be again accused of turning son against mom!
If he was angry with Avni but at the same time double angry with shweta-bebe then I would hv been fine, Coz then its clear he is angry at Avni only coz he misses her, cant be away from her, & coz he cant solve much till she is with him fighting for their relation together. But he cant be super normal with those who are behind this disaster but angry at Avni who is the real victim here!!
Edited by aditi07 - 8 years ago
Bigg Boss 19
