Dev or Sonakshi-who is wrong - Page 4

Payal ... long time... do good to see you bk.

Originally posted by: melliflous

I liked all that you have mentioned in your post!
I find this track totally messy. There are these 2 individuals who realized that they can't stay apart from each other and want to spend lives together after 7 years. Looking at Dev and sonakshi currently who can my previous statement was true?
Normally couple should have liked to give each other and their child more time instead of giving solving everyone's issues and suddenly bombarding oneself with work. I still fail to understand what is saurav's contribution in running business. I find it disturbing that everything is made to feminism or women's right as you have pointed out. The makers completely messed with what they probably wanted to convey.
I feel Dev and sonakshi were in a very good position while they were coparenting suhana. They gave time to her as a family... dropping to school , picking up, visiting Bose house together ... it was so much more couple ish than what they are right now ...to be honest I don't even identify if they are the same individuals. This track and its message is completely convoluted
Thanks for the post.

Originally posted by: havima

Payal ... long time... do good to see you bk.

In my opinion... both are wrong. Both are taking the wrong route to reach each other. I strongly disagree with sona one day nd with dev the nxt.

If dev is ambushing her with his ott care thn sona is aggravating it by giving him feeling as if she is slipping out of his hands like sand... and he ends up clutching her hard. At the end of the day both are exhibiting equal nd opposite reaction to each other. Both need to let the dust settle for sometime nd take it frm there.

There was a beautiful lyric in the film KOCHADAIYAAN.. ( a rajnikanth movie)... and it goes like this

YOU CAN EVEN GATHER WATER IN A STRAINER IF YOU CAN WAIT UNTIL IT FREEZES TO BECOME ICE.

Originally posted by: preethik

Hi Payal nice to see a post from you after a long time.

I don't want to do too much analysis about either dev & sona as their character arcs have become too skewed. I still don't understand what the cvs want to convey.

Dev is paranoid & sona because of her irritation & frustration with his actions is unable to see that he does have a psychological problem. I know she's not trained to spot this but when the person who you love to bits is acting weird all of a sudden she should be concerned. This is the same lady who knew Nikki was calling despite not hearing anybody on the phone!

I have a problem with this sona (btw I love her still) who has time & empathy for everybody except dev. That is something which is not sitting well with me & for this I blame the cvs not the character.

Originally posted by: SammP

I so much agree with you. In my opinion, every person deals with one or another psychological problem and its not something that we can see person and can say that he/she needs psychiatrist. So to say that Sona is not understanding him is wrong. She knows form where all this is coming and is trying hard to explain and understand him. But as we (viewers) know that he won't understand as he is not in his correct state of mind.
I won't say either that Dev is wrong, again as we(viewer) all know that he is not well or in proper state of mind.

Originally posted by: cscs

I agree with both of u that just by observing anyone can understand a problem. N Dev's issues are rooted very deeply and unlike majority here i will not call him psycho or second maya. As i said earlier that both Dev n Sona are just reacting n not understanding the situation. She knows (through Ishu) that Dev is scared after bus incident n he has started behaving weirdly after that. But it was not addressed at all. Similarly instead of telling her the main problem Dev is trying to build a castle around Sona n keep her into it. They both need to understand the issue.

I totally agree...You cannot compare Dev with Maya..There cannot be any comparison. There is a difference between FEAR and INSECURITY...You can over come your FEAR but with your INSECURITY-I doubt and Maya is a insecure person.
CVs are always forgetting their previous tracks. Just a 1 month ago in Khatri/Ishwari/Dev Track- Sona was so mature and handled situation calmly as well patiently. I wonder how CVs can steal those skills from Sona like that 😡 . She has this capability to sit and analyze situation and then try to handle Dev. I guess she is going with flow and no woman can have this much of patience to tackle such situation. She surely will realize later. I fully trust her.

What I want to say here is

Sonakshi just sit take deep breath and rewind past few days and think what has cropped up this reaction of his..Was he like this ever before ..Did he ever tried to instruct you pushed you for anything before..If he is emotionally sensitive ATM then you have to take the lead and handle circumstances..Instead of revolting why dont you try and find out the reason of it..Assure him of what is he scared of..bring him out of the fear he had developed in his heart and head..Your repelling is having adverse effect on him sighh

Payal lovely post and I understand and agree to what you are saying here except if the fact that Dev is having depression I am sorry to say but I dont agree on this pint ..Coz according to me he isnt

Rest well written and explained post

Hope to see you in analysis thread too :)

I don't think they are wrong, as you said it's their background that shapes them...
Yes, they do have issues that need to be sorted out...
Dev needs to understand Sona and her drive to work and Sona needs to be more expressive
Thanks for sharing

Originally posted by: sp12

Nice post, I am firm believer in the proverb "It takes two hands to clap" or "it takes two to tango" and same holds good for a relationship as well, if the success of the relationship rests on the two then the failure of it also rests on the two as well. I guess the problem between the two is both of taken there relationship for granted and expect the other to understand their decision without any question, a simple mature conversation can end the fight but then if that happens what will the makers show 😆

Yes, I also believe that 'it takes two to tango'

Hi. V nice post. Feel like track is half baked and messed up. Feels like writers have lost interest in show. No depth. We cant figure out what they intend to show. Devs and Sonakshi character has changed so much that it is inconsistent and I can't relate to them anymore. sonakshi is really insensitive with Dev. It is bringing me to a point that I don't care about them anymore which is sad.