Basic Natures... 31.7

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Posted: 8 years ago
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A person's basic nature doesn't change. Whatever changes interim, the core doesn't change, unless something very momentous happens.

Annika was never the conniving calculating money minded person, See her sitting and scratching her head over small expenses, missing zeroes between hundreds and thousands, how will she calculate the crores her husband is worth? She won't have a clue. She isn't that person, and Shivaay isn't recalling all the positives, being stuck at the one big Scarlet A she wore for that day.

But see, during the date, he predicted exactly what she would say and do, and why she did things. He KNOWS her, subconsciously he's remembering all the things about her that he liked, and even disliked.

(While I was cringing at Annika's table manners, Shivaay didn't. In fact, he wanted to go and get that piece of rice stuck by her lips. Daydreaming! Waah. He was actually enjoying the date. Until he started asking for explanation)

Shivaay, is someone who forgives loved ones' mistakes easily. OmRu pointed out that they made mistakes too, and he never kicked them out, then why Annika? WHy is it that Annika can't make a single mistake? Why has she to be the ideal everything to him, the perfect everything, and always stays in that box. Or is it a small pedestal a little too high for her?

This is not about what she did to the family at all. Those were the circumstances that occurred facilitating his heartbreak.

That day, he had built hopes , he thought she was in love with him, and he wanted to tell her he was too. He had opened a vulnerability to her, and she stabbed him. He's angry with her , so angry and hurt, and kicked her out of his life so cruelly.

How could he right? He never did that to OmRu , or his mother, why to Annika? That he claimed to love?

Because he put her MUCH closer to his heart than his family. He expects a little too much of her, because she made herself into what he wanted throughout their short marriage. Extremely understanding, very trusting, very loyal, knows what he wants before he even says it, supports his siblings, forgives easily, says sorry even if she didn't do anything. She had moulded herself into his perfect companion that he couldn't take it when she broke character.

Yes, Annika is MUCH closer to Shivaay's heart than even his family. Which is why he carries his hurt like a wounded predator. Om is right, only Annika can fix what she broke.

OmRu try hard to get through to Shivaay's brain but it doesn't break through the shell. Rudra realizes that Shivaay needs the truth, no games will work. So he thinks up a plan to lead Shivaay up to the truth by himself.

"Who has the moon in their hands, but sees only its imperfections is the unluckiest person. Mistakes can be forgiven"

Omkara changed when his mother tried to kill herself over Tej's indiscretions. He became hard and seething with animosity. But after Pari came and left, his soft sentimental side has woken up, and found that he was starving the the joy he derived from his art. (Perspiration vs INspiration..😆) His nature is not one that is drowning in anger and resentment, but a peaceful one who sees good in people. The problem his mother is in worries me, hope it doesn't affect him anymore.

Gauri , poor thing is an innocent selfless soul. She saw Omkara's pain with his lack of inspiration, and is trying to help him. Mixing words perspiration with inspiration, was really cute, but she didn't even understand why they were laughing. And then, her dressing up and posing looked really enticing and all, but it is so not Om to draw inspiration from this. (I will see scene play out first before deciding)


Waking up Smart Singh Oberoi.

Evidently, SSO feels that HIS WIFE should be the best and only the best should be his wife. What to say, what not to say, what and when to do something correctly is paramount, and he can't see past that one mistake. He blames her for everything. Not bothering to even investigate first.

Shivaay finds a sullen Annika failing at managing finances and money. She is really bad at math, and knows she can't even count to the nearest crore. How can she be a gold digger? Why would she care about who got a share of the Oberoi wealth? She finds running one house overwhelming. This woman wanted to split the house?

Pinky walking in and behaving suspicious was really fun to watch. She arrogantly announced that she knows EVERYTHING that goes on the house. So he casually asks about Annika, because something is bugging him about her now. Watching Pinky swallow and look like a culprit was mildly satisfying...

Why is the question you should have asked all along Shivaay. It's about time...

And that slam bang precap: TIA'S words . Annika loves you. Such a big step. Sacrificed for you.

can't wait !!

RUDRA is so funny..😆 His 50 shades and innocence was super adorable. Love this guy..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi as usual khidkitod :-) ...love the way you analyze emotions n characters . I agree with you about Gauri n Om ... the old Om's inspirations were a little different ...but with Shivika reunion I guess we will get to see Rikara story build up and they are laying the foundation in their own crazy way( only they can understand what kind of arcs in store)...

I only wish that they keep Rudy the cute little brother/ playboy for a little longer and let his story shape up well instead of the patch work marriage track ( if the spoilers are to be believed) they are coming up with.

Let's just wish Shivika will be restored to former glory ...with out any arcs and curveballs henceforth
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yash2010

Hi as usual khidkitod :-) ...love the way you analyze emotions n characters . I agree with you about Gauri n Om ... the old Om's inspirations were a little different ...but with Shivika reunion I guess we will get to see Rikara story build up and they are laying the foundation in their own crazy way( only they can understand what kind of arcs in store)...

I only wish that they keep Rudy the cute little brother/ playboy for a little longer and let his story shape up well instead of the patch work marriage track ( if the spoilers are to be believed) they are coming up with.

Let's just wish Shivika will be restored to former glory ...with out any arcs and curveballs henceforth


Hi Yash,

They'd be foolish if they take comedy away from Rudy. Let's see what they have in store. I have a feeling, all this while Bhavya is the one protecting him, something happens that makes Rudra give his name to her for protection. Remember spoiler writers don't know how to write the story, leave that to the writers.

Having watched Shivika so far, from the start, I'm pretty sure it will be good.😉

Jhanvi and Svetlana though...

And what is in that darned thumb drive?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Anisa.
As usual a bang on post!😊
" waqt badal jata hai par insaan ki fitrat kabhi nahi badalti"😊

So true we all have flaws but our basic nature's don't change and even if the nature change there has to be something big to happen for it. Finally dimaag ki batti jali.😆that last seen was so beautiful.no great lighting ,the same newyork background bedroom of theirs,similar colour combinations of the unfateful day but these two absolutely LIT! The way he say "upar dekho" n holds her chin,uff such a simply breathtakingly beautiful scene. The beauty is added to it when he explains to his brothers that they r no longer together n in the 2 min he is asking his ex-wife wife what u said means something right. Mind Vs Heart!!

In the last scene I cudnt help but to notice,Om and Ru almost gave it all but Shivaay was adamant! He me ruined she should have know what to speak,when to speak n how to speak as she was his wife. But exactly Shivaay shouldn't that ring bells in your ears that yes she exactly knew what she had to do to get out of your life.she dropped too many hints u have not even picked up.

I do disagree to the fact that Shivaay mistake of forced marriage was to be forgiven. That was mistake that can be never forgiven! The way he forced her into it still makes me shiver. Even such bad words he mentioned during daksh mu can be we be forgiven so he saying I can't forgive her coz she broke my heart, but dude u broke her as a women! So u better find out what's going on before hell breaks loose😛 on you n your lady love!

Everybody basic nature's are coming back after all the turmoil they have been through.loved rikara.i m not over yet on's laugh yet.it was good to see him laugh like that. In hundred episodes of DBO he hasn't laughed like that!

Rudy! I so wanted to see 50 shades of Rudy more to please tell Shivaay n In please move into your relationships to this level too😉 I can't fail to look n laugh how similar is Rudy to his anika bhabhi.they way he said Anikas most patent dialouge in the mail version, "yeh aap kya kar rahi hai😛😉"similar nature n basic nature of these two!

The week looks lovelysl,so looking fwd toTia for the first time.even if Shivaay forgets everything after the bhaan sequence he will remember what Tia said in his fully conscious state.I m wishing Shivaay get the fake fiance n anika can eat her words! I can't wait to see the smirk at shivaays face for this one.😉

As far as Nagini I wonder what is she staying here for if there is no NDE! I want Anikas NDE n then I want Anika angry at Shivaay for not listening to her n she can say I don't want to be with you everytime I have to keep protecting u from stupid girls..i have had Enuf! and Shivaay be like you have had enough?! I have had enuf😆

Haha...so much of wishful thinking these days courtesy yesterdays episode!

Thank you Anisa once again!sorry for a long one.

Love
Thwisha

Edited by maan-chahatgeet - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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This was such a lovely read. I have always refrained myself from your posts because I havent been watching the show at all but recently have been catching up over bits. I happened to watch yesterday's entire episode and cannot deny the fact that I loved the very first scene or say day before yesterday's trip and catch scene. I know many find such scenes cheesy now a days, but cannot help adoring the duo with the absolutely beautiful background song. The date was again, a well thought scene to build up Shivaay's later reaction. My favorite part from yesterday's episode has to be the one where she blurts out a thing that makes him stop processing everything else in his mind and think over her words. Holding her wrist, pulling her back at her place, demanding an answer - 'It did mean something, right?'

'Look at me.'

She denies and he makes her look at him. That was the most beautiful scene for me.

Separation track was never justified for me but reading your review, I somewhere feel it was but then again, a part of me refuses to understand him... (especially after watching ONS MU episode. I can't believe he called her 'baazaru' ... That was... just way too much to let sink in ]
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Loved the analysis as always.
I was laughing throughout that whole date. These two really know each other down to the tiniest detail in their personality and if Shivaay wasn't so hurt he would have realized the inconsistencies earlier. I loved Shivaay's monologue cuz it gave us that peek that was needed into his emotions. He did put her on a pedestal and so the fall had a much greater impact. But, better late than never I guess. Pinky's nervous and anxious face gave me a lot of satisfaction!

I always love Rudy! He is the jaan of the show and the rumour is that his marriage is going to be like Shivika's marriage only with him in Annika's position and Bhavya in Shivaay's position. This probably is connected to that pendrive.

As much as I loved that perspiration scene I felt very bad. If I was in Gauri's place I would have felt very bad if my husband laughs at me when I try to help him!

Looking forward to seeing Shivaay's reaction tomorrow after Tia blurts out the truth partially and eagerly awaiting the rest of this week's episodes and the soon approaching and much anticipated ShivIka reunion
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As usual an awesome post Anisa :-)

The title, (Basic nature) is what CVs have tried to establish through out the episode today.

The dinner date was planned for that reason. To establish the very fact that the basic nature of a person never changes. That was what Shivaay was able to guess the actions that Annika would do and vice versa through out. He actually enjoyed the date, because she behaved exactly how he had anticipated and I think he was happy about it because he knew her. He even told OmRu that he,for sometime forgot about the fact that they were divorced. Because that was the Annika he knew and loved.

During his conversation with OmRu he accepted that she never behaved before and after that one single day in an unacceptable manner. Even after she came back to OM, she never showed that nature again. That should have made him think but I can to some extent understand why he didn't want to forgive her for that one day.

It was not only about him, but she talked about his family, separating him from his brothers etc. Even Pinky did say it many times to him but he was never angry with her because he knew his mother's nature and that's why it is easy for him to accept her that way. During the initial episodes, Shivaay and Om had lot of difference of opinions but never thought of separating because he knew Om and his nature. That is why I feel that he was okay with his mother & brothers.

But in case of Annika, he had never seen that nature of hers and not even in his wildest dreams he would have imagined her doing that. And I think that is what is not allowing him to accept her mistake. He did say that she was an ideal wife, ideal bahu, ideal bhabhi. See that is what he has always known. The word 'ideal' is important. What she did that day was not at all being ideal and he just couldn't accept that. And I think it also happened on the day he was going to propose and rectify his mistake of forced marriage. That guy was so happy in love, wanted to surprise her with wedding, proposed her, also thought that she was also in love and then Annika pulled off that stunt.
He did say that she did broke his heart and Om was right that only Annika can now heal him.

I think I am loving this journey. Everything cannot happen in a single day. He is now slowing realizing things and trying to find out and that journey of re-discovering love will be beautiful as well.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Anisa,
Brilliant Analysis! And here i was thinking Shivaay doesn't consider Anika part of his family! You have laid it out so well.
So the real culprit here are Expectations!
When it fails, the walls keep tumbling down creating a massive barrier which Shivaay did not even want to try to break out of!

Enjoyed today's episode a lot! Love the precap too! What in the world is going on with Tej-Jhan-Svet team?

Yes, loved seeing OMM squirm and give herself away a little!

One thing that i see from day one is - there is no love lost between son and mom! Sometimes it feels as though Shivaay could be more Tej-Jhanvi's son than Shakthi-InkyPinkyPonky's!

Ru was a delight and Gauri resembled Svet in her choice of a duppatta over tights and T shirt!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post as always.

The writing always leaves me confused, but your posts provide some interesting insight. I might be in the minority, but I didn't like the dinner date. I know exactly what the writers were going for, but I felt like the bedroom scene did a better job.

I feel like the writers and the viewers (me included) give too much credit to Shivaay for her behavior and predicament. She wouldn't have allowed his behavior or apologize to avoid a fight if she didn't want to. Personally, I never felt like she molded herself to be the perfect anything. She was always too kind and sacrificing by nature based on her behavior prior to meeting him, which irritated me throughout the show lol. She even let Sahil's Bua back into her life and house without hesitation. This probably stems from her insecurities and her fear of abandonment that obviously runs deep. She is afraid to lose everything at any moment so she bends and caves in any situation to minimize any damage it might cause her. She is an escapist by heart and willingly looks the other way to make unpleasant situations go away. He certainly does take her for granted and it works to his benefit if they are one-unit same in thought and action. He rarely keeps his promises and flips constantly so its understandable why she has trust issues. He reacts badly in anger especially when its related to her because she is always supposed to be different from everyone else. That is who he was interested in the first place not the shell of herself that she willingly became.

This is completely random, but it bothers me when the characters trivialize their actions. Again, I might be in the minority, but I don't think he redeemed himself for the forced marriage. I feel the same way about her stunt to get thrown out. Everyone painting this as a grand sacrifice is unfair considering what happened to him as a result. Yes, its ridiculously unfair to judge someone over one incident, but it's also unfair to set someone up knowing exactly what buttons to push to elicit a particular reaction then be upset that it worked. Anika forgives too easily while Shivaay holds grudges because they are different people. She forgave him because she wanted while he chooses not to forgive, but it wouldn't hurt if they took a page from each other's book. I prefer them meeting half-way instead one person shouldering all the blame when both of them are responsible for this mess. If their actions (under blackmail or in hurt) are whitewashed for the sake of a reunion and TRPs that will be shame. If the characters don't evolve and learn then what's the point of all this drama. Sigh, I might be expecting too much again 😆

Edited by yellomellow - 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yellomellow

This is completely random, but it bothers me when the characters trivialize their actions. Again, I might be in the minority, but I don't think he redeemed himself for the forced marriage. I feel the same way about her stunt to get thrown out. Everyone painting this as a grand sacrifice is unfair considering what happened to him as a result. Yes, its ridiculously unfair to judge someone over one incident, but it's also unfair to set someone up knowing exactly what buttons to push to elicit a particular reaction then be upset that it worked. Anika forgives too easily while Shivaay holds grudges, but it wouldn't hurt if they took a page from each other's book. I prefer them meeting half-way instead one person shouldering the blame when both of them are responsible for the mess. If their actions are whitewashed for the sake of a reunion and TRPs that will be shame. If the characters don't evolve then what's the point of all this drama. Sigh, I might be expecting too much again 😆


@bold.. LOL.. Not completely random... I cribbed about exactly this 'randomness'(whitewashing of their actions and no evolution for Anika's character) a few minutes ago in a different thread! 😆 And yup we are expectating too much.. Remember...Don't ask why... just say Shivaay..😆

I'll be very surprised if I even get a token scene where these characters who emotionally manipulated Shivaay even realize their mistake and if all is not forgiven as they sacrificed for him in this current or next track! Maybe they will revisit this arc 3-4 months from now! 😆
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