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Points to Ponder:
Thy really showcased some real #relationship goals..
1. When two ppl r so much in love, really no words r needed. Thr gestures, thr eyes, thr smiles, thr looks, thr silence speak louder thn words. In tht hut scene, ArMu displayed how much in love thy were without actually confessing to anything.
2. The foot scene highlight a very imp thing in my POV. When u really love someone deeply, u really accept thm with all thr vices, flaws, unclean and sometimes gross habits and things tht come along with all romance, love, and mush in a relationship. U so much empathize with the person tht other things become redundant..too trivial to matter.. thts what growing old with someone is all about..when u r not at ur prime age.. and everything tht u once touched, felt, and fantasized abt is all gone.. and all tht remains betn u two is tht pure love, committment, and helping each other out in ur grossest of moments.. (the things tht an elderly couple never tells u)..
3. Passion shudnt b defined by age. Passion/desire is as much as real as love and no one can stash it/supress it under moral compulsions. When it wants a let out, it will find its ways and u better b in a unembarrased position at tht moment. Here in the naughty matka-bhigaoning scene and wound-cleansing scene, we saw how the pent-up passion of Mukhi unleased for a brief second. Passion fuels love and it remains true at all age, the intensity might vary bt emotions will remain same.
4. Love is complete devotion. If a person really wanna love a person completely, he/she must love each and every "roop" of thr loved ones. Mukhi's love is like devotion to his wife bt he doesnt want to cross certain limits to safegaurd her from him, bt thts not the way to do it Mukhiji.. true love needs complete devotion. One needs to fulfill every wish and desire of the person and every Mukhi rekha must b crossed to achieve this.
5. Love is not jst passion. Obviously love is not jst a fleeting moment of passion, it encompasses sensibility, wisdom, sacrifice, and restraint at right time in right measure. Bt will Aru-Mukhi understand when's the right time and whats the right measure? Generally, its not the matter of intention, its matter of lack of correct timing tht many a relationships go awry and misunderstanding builds up on this.
6. The importance of confession, communication, and concession in love.
While the importance of communication has been stressed many times here, ArMu r still not thr yet. The episode highlights tht when thrs trust even a brief communication can do the trick bt is it all enuf? It depends on the individuals involved. If it was Saanvi, it wud've been okay. Bt its Aru, and the brief talk is jst not enuf for ArMu.
The confession shud b not left to fate or luck. But sometimes it happens tht the other person is jst not ready to hear or is in fear of losing the relationship if confessed, thn shud it b done or is it wise tht it is left to fate? What i feel is its better to get things cleared and move on if it goes other way rather thn leaving it on fate to happen and suffer in a prolonged state of confusion and uncertainty. It wud b interesting to see whose side we wud take in Aru-Mukhi's tussle over confession.
Concession or grant. Generally we think tht one shud grant every wish of one's loved ones bt i know parents wud know better tht not every wish of thr kids can b granted. Things are to be thought out carefully, long term repercussions need to be taken into account so Mukhi is not wrong when he is hesitant and reluctant to take the plunge and take his Gaurani with him. If u think 10 years down the road, things in thr life wud definitely b lot different and not so rosy thn thy seem now. Bt tht doesnt mean one shud not take the plunge, unless and until u take the plunge, the leap of faith, u wud never knew what treasure u cud find.
Chip in with ur discussions.. meanwhile I will go and search for tht U Me Tv segment tht I missed owing to getting engrossed in this post.. 😊
Thy really showcased some real #relationship goals..
1. When two ppl r so much in love, really no words r needed. Thr gestures, thr eyes, thr smiles, thr looks, thr silence speak louder thn words. In tht hut scene, ArMu displayed how much in love thy were without actually confessing to anything.
2. The foot scene highlight a very imp thing in my POV. When u really love someone deeply, u really accept thm with all thr vices, flaws, unclean and sometimes gross habits and things tht come along with all romance, love, and mush in a relationship. U so much empathize with the person tht other things become redundant..too trivial to matter.. thts what growing old with someone is all about..when u r not at ur prime age.. and everything tht u once touched, felt, and fantasized abt is all gone.. and all tht remains betn u two is tht pure love, committment, and helping each other out in ur grossest of moments.. (the things tht an elderly couple never tells u)..
3. Passion shudnt b defined by age. Passion/desire is as much as real as love and no one can stash it/supress it under moral compulsions. When it wants a let out, it will find its ways and u better b in a unembarrased position at tht moment. Here in the naughty matka-bhigaoning scene and wound-cleansing scene, we saw how the pent-up passion of Mukhi unleased for a brief second. Passion fuels love and it remains true at all age, the intensity might vary bt emotions will remain same.
4. Love is complete devotion. If a person really wanna love a person completely, he/she must love each and every "roop" of thr loved ones. Mukhi's love is like devotion to his wife bt he doesnt want to cross certain limits to safegaurd her from him, bt thts not the way to do it Mukhiji.. true love needs complete devotion. One needs to fulfill every wish and desire of the person and every Mukhi rekha must b crossed to achieve this.
5. Love is not jst passion. Obviously love is not jst a fleeting moment of passion, it encompasses sensibility, wisdom, sacrifice, and restraint at right time in right measure. Bt will Aru-Mukhi understand when's the right time and whats the right measure? Generally, its not the matter of intention, its matter of lack of correct timing tht many a relationships go awry and misunderstanding builds up on this.
6. The importance of confession, communication, and concession in love.
While the importance of communication has been stressed many times here, ArMu r still not thr yet. The episode highlights tht when thrs trust even a brief communication can do the trick bt is it all enuf? It depends on the individuals involved. If it was Saanvi, it wud've been okay. Bt its Aru, and the brief talk is jst not enuf for ArMu.
The confession shud b not left to fate or luck. But sometimes it happens tht the other person is jst not ready to hear or is in fear of losing the relationship if confessed, thn shud it b done or is it wise tht it is left to fate? What i feel is its better to get things cleared and move on if it goes other way rather thn leaving it on fate to happen and suffer in a prolonged state of confusion and uncertainty. It wud b interesting to see whose side we wud take in Aru-Mukhi's tussle over confession.
Concession or grant. Generally we think tht one shud grant every wish of one's loved ones bt i know parents wud know better tht not every wish of thr kids can b granted. Things are to be thought out carefully, long term repercussions need to be taken into account so Mukhi is not wrong when he is hesitant and reluctant to take the plunge and take his Gaurani with him. If u think 10 years down the road, things in thr life wud definitely b lot different and not so rosy thn thy seem now. Bt tht doesnt mean one shud not take the plunge, unless and until u take the plunge, the leap of faith, u wud never knew what treasure u cud find.
Chip in with ur discussions.. meanwhile I will go and search for tht U Me Tv segment tht I missed owing to getting engrossed in this post.. 😊
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