Some Points To Ponder From Reviews on Yesterday Epi
1. Aru's point was right bt method and behavior was wrong.
2. Mukhi was duffod. Jst bcoz his conscience is clear regarding Saanvi, he assumed Aru wud understand his equation with Saanvi.
3. Mukhi is blind deaf and mute to the glaring changes happening to Aru.. (may b age is catching on.. duffod kahin ka)
4. Emotional outburst and logical arguments dont go hand in hand. Inadvertantly, one is overshadowed by the other and valid points are overlooked under emotionally charged words, tears, and mental distress. Mukhi did say "hum HAMARA janmdin ek saath manate hai" I m sure most of us didnt hear this "fact."
5. Mukhi expected a mature wife.. Aru expected an understanding husband.. and thy fought over it. Classic case of when two fight, the third wins.
Aise ladenge to kisi ko kuch nahi milega.. aur inki ladayi mein Raami baazi maar le jayegi
6. Mukhi has such gentle tender and subtle romantic ways to pacify his wifey. Makes it so hard for us to hate this man!
7. Saanvi track might b to highlight Aru's strength by redemption and elevate her to role of a mature lady instead of a cranky kid in Mukhi's eyes..
8. Saanvi is wise enuf to not to make thm see the path.. she will just push thm towards each other.. and let thm take thr own course..
This we summarized from yest epi.. par aaj Mukhiman chaa gaye hai.. ab tak..
aage dekthe hai..
Now coming to the today's epi..
Today's epi is a perfect example of y and how a shaki patni destroys her own hara bhara sukhi sansaar.. 😆
So here's a song dedication for Aru:
aankh dhooka hai kya bharosa hai suno
dosto shak dosti ka dushman hai
apne dil me ise ghar banane na do
kal tadapna pade yaad me Jin ki
rok lo roothkar unko jaane na do
baad me pyaar ke chahe bhejo hazaroon salaam
woh phir nahi aate
zindagi ke safar mein guzar jate hain jo makam,
woh phir nahin aate,
Like I said in yesterday on Tia's thread..
1. Wen we are emotional our brain completely shuts down to any logic, reasoning or common sense.
2. In an emotional outburst, the actual point to b made is lost in translation
Today Aru gave perfect demonstration of both these facts..
Though Mukhi explained clearly how and why he thought Saanvi deserved the first piece of cake, patched up with her in sweet way, and also raised a question abt her judgment of his character.. Aru didn't get the gist.. which is a huge red flag for thr mismatched persona and the way this rship shapes up in future..
Aru's point abt why she wants him to b in abad with her was again not understood or rather misconstrued by Mukhi..
the logical and mature thing to say was..
1. Her mom had already told thr relatives abt thr damaad coming home.
2. Bt as she cudnt explain thr situation to her mom-dad on phone, he wud need to accompany her to abad to clear things out. And she wud b grateful if he did tht.
Instead what Aru said was:
1. Thy r expecting thr "damaad."
2. U "have" to come with me to abad as we have created this mess together and u cannot ditch me when i helped u to handle ur situation in Mishri's case.🤔
What Mukhi understood was:
1. Aru wants to tag him along as damaad. So he says he is done with this fake tag and doesn't want to give unnecessary hopes. He doesn't want to clip her wings of ambitions with this unnecessary burden of thr (unrecognized) rship..
2. He categorically denied to accompany her.
And this jealousy driven emotional outburst happened bcoz Aru saw Mukhi taking care of Saanvi..🤔
And To make the situation worse, Mukhi was busy (probably searching for medical file of Saanvi) tht he didn't pay enuf attention to Aru telling him abt her leaving for Abad..
So yes Aru is in a bad soup.. 😆
And this Saanvi-Saga is surely gonna bring a hailstorm in thr lives..
Bt i am gonna enjoy it.. 😆 coz i become sadist and enjoy immensely wen two sane ppl go ahead and ruin thr own lives inspite of all the sound advices given to thm.. 😈
Thr patch up scene was v. v. sweet.. bt the epi overall will leave a bitter taste esp the precap...
Aru really needs some serious "right" counselling from someone near and dear to her.. she lacks a true friend like Saanvi in her life.. who can guide her correctly.. I miss Mishri in her life..
She needs to understand surely Raami is not the person to take advice from.
And i don't really blame Raami here.. vo kehte hai na.. saap apna mul svabhav kabhi nahi badalta.. vo to tedha hi chalega.. par samjhana hamen chahiye.. ke is it wise for us to follow the same route..
par nahi Aru ko itni jaldi akal nahi ayegi.. her foundations of faith itself r shaky thn y shud Raami not take the advantage of it..
I loved Raami here.. she does what she want to in a very very clever way.. such ppl do exist in real life.. and ppl shud learn to b wary of such ppl's intent behind thr sweet words..
Thrs a Quote:
Discontent, blaming, complaining, self-pity cannot serve as a foundation for a good future, no matter how much effort you make.
Aise sukhi sansaar aur solid rship form nahi hotey..
We all know Mukhi is going to go out of his way to help his friend in need.. thts his nature.. bt if Aru really loves him.. she will understand his large and kind hearted ways.. it was one of the virtues she fell for..
Her shak is gonna shake foundations of thr relationship... and thy will need to start afresh..
bt vo kehte hai na.. every good thing has to pass thru tuff test to make it better.. koyla Bhatti mein pak ke hi sona banta hai..
this will b super test of thr rship.. and i m sure thy r gonna sail thru it..with thr trust, love, hope and redemption.. bcoz both of thm r very good ppl at heart.. and can never c others in pain.. thy will go out of thr way to help the needy ones out..
Good hearted ppl always come out winners in the end.. and Mukhi Aru r gem of ppl we know.. bas Aru thoda rasta bhatak gayi hai..she will surely come back on track..soon enuf...
So yes..Saanvi's track is for Aru's redemption.. once in abad and in Naamkaran fns she will surely understand plight of pregger Saanvi and Mukhi's protective conduct towards her..
and she will return on her path to redemption...
So lets wait for this track to fully play out before passing our early judgements..😳
oh yes.. I forgot abt the Mukhi ka diary girl wala part.. It was jst in the back of mind tht we needed to throw brick bats at Mukhi.. by kyun.. vo remember nahi hua.. Haan to Mukhi to needs to get some sense in his head its high time he starts to learn to decipher his lady love... and comes out of his fantasy world with dairy girl..
Here's my views on mukhi that I wrote on wonderful post of vidi
will come back with further points to ponder/my observations..
till thn njoy the epi.. and do hit the chaska meter.. even if u didn't like the epi.. pretty please.. 😆
thank u..
And oh yeah..
please observe a 2-min silence for Aru's Nasht ho chuki buddhi... 😃
p.s.
---Jst wat i said to someone on this thread to assuage and my personal take on current plot
i feel life is not so sugary sweet and straightforward all the time.. thr r ups and downs.. it gets hell lot of bumpy.. and we act super nasty some times and feel super guilty for it later on.. ..
and no Aru is not malicious or utterly selfish like her sister.. she is very kind and generous.. i m sure she wud immediately feel extremely guilty abt her words to Saanvi.. and will try her level best to make it up for it.. I still have faith in her golden heart..
Also this show is jst showing the journey of the couple..
and storywise, thr love story wise, its going jst fine..
I love such stories which explores all khatta meetha bitter sweet moments in a couple's life..
as long as the tracks/plot doesn't turn into utter rubbish and starts giving us headache..
any twist in story line if portrayed as finely as it is done now... i m happy with the show..
bt i understand many have different views expectations and anticipations from the show..
so take a break if u want from the show.. bt do come back..
bcoz thr reconciliation will b a lot sweeter thn thr bitter separation...
A lot of romance awaits us on the other side.
so hang on if u can.. or else take a short break..😳
thank u.