Suraj is too much over acting?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: sumsukor

Actually a different perspective you bring

Right brain thinking

Really to poubder

You amaze really dear

Originally posted by: -shubh

your way and my way of viewing things are different.. So lets agree to disagree first.. Chakor has divorced suraj.. So she is right in calling herself ex wife and staying true to their actual relationship status.. Why she needs to save suraj's respect here when he doesn't think about hers before doing whatever he did with his partner in crime imli..? And telling the actual status of chakor in suraj's life is an insult to suraj? Then what about an husband confessing his illegitimate relationship with his "bestie" and choosing her over his wife? Is this not an insult to a wife? Is it fair to compare the context in which they called each other besharam? Suraj has done wrong by involving in an illegitimate relationship with imli from chakor's pov.. Now she finds him dancing in a not so good way with girls who claim themselves to be his wife... Be it for fun or otherwise.. She calls him besharam.. On the other hand, suraj witnessed ajay suddenly holding her hand, found her meeting him few times, saw her saying thank you to him.. And suraj calls her besharam.. I think the difference in the situations are quite apparent.. Why suraj has to test her love? What he expects from a girl who is deeply hurt with her husband's infidelity and with his idea of staying as awesome threesome in their bedroom with imli, showing physical proximity at the drop of a hat, so on and so forth? The problem here is, he is still oblivious to the gravity of the mess he created and the amount of damage it has done to chakor.. And that's why he could engage in such silly acts..

And yes.. I am not at all happy with the way chakor is handling imli.. I already wrote this too.. Imli and suraj need to be treated the same way.. But that doesn't mean that chakor isn't affected seeing imli and suraj together.. When doc was advising suraj to keep imli happy, she wasn't even able to stand there and there are many other instances too.. And moreover, she is still in love with him but is so much hurt that she doesn't want suraj to know that she still loves him.. But she is a human too.. So emotions come out at one time or the other.. The above is strictly my pov..

Originally posted by: -LumosMaxima-

@red Absolutely disagree with you. He is not the best husband. Not yet. He did quite a few things which no good husband would do, let alone best husband.

Chakor maintains a pretty decent equation with Vivaan. Nothing like what I have seen between Imli & Suraj. So if Suraj objects to that he would become a hypocrite only.

And my post was not regarding Suraj's pov on Chakor but on society rules or pov of many where limits for man & woman are different. Where we can easily accept a hero being to touchy with other girls or being a womanizer but the heroine if only shares a conversation with a male or holds a male friend's hand, she comes under scrutiny. I dont know what if they had shown Chakor had random flings or being too much cozy with Vivaan after confession then how well she would have been received by viewers.

Originally posted by: -LumosMaxima-

@Kutur He has his own double standards too. Like he wanted Chakor's unconditional support when he claimed to be the father of her sister's child but at the same time put the blame on Chakor for his misery.

Chakor has double standard too when it comes to Imli. She turns all polite with her but blames only Suraj for what they 'apparently' did to her.

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

It was too much, yes I am aware he is divorced and single but he is also someone who continues to pursue Chakor. Suraj wants to win her back but he is not going to get her by continuing these immature acts.

Originally posted by: Etna_Dia

I entirely agree with you.

No real man who loves a woman will do what Suraj has done in front of her. The dance was cheap and dirty. The girls were all over him. Some of the movements had subliminal messages. A real man who claims that he loves a woman to his last breath will die out of shame by even imagining of doing something like this with his ex-girlfriends in front of her eyes.