Indian bahu --- ghar ka na ghat ka

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Posted: 8 years ago
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i am going to rant here. and this not just about ib. ib toh ek bahana hai. this is a general rant about indian mentality to give the wife/bahu the last priority when it comes to give priority.
the language is going to be harsh here.

watched y day's ib episode. ab tak dimag kharab hai mera.

a mother is treated like god in our society. but really. every mother is treated like that?

no sir! it's only the mother of men is treated as god!

meri maa! ek maa ki barso ki tapasya against biwi ka char din ka saath!

maa kya sirf mardon ki hoti hai? aurtein aise hi paida hoke badi ho jati hai? ek beti bhi usi tarah paida hoti hai jaise ek beta! parents take same rather more efforts to raise a daughter than a son.

daughter is DONATED so why why why the mothers clutch to their sons after son's marriage?

if mother sees son loves his wife, why she gets jealous? mera beta badal gaya! muzse door ho gaya! arre what the f***! if your son has changed due to his wife, doesn''t that mean that the wife is making him happy?

just for ur fu**ing ego u try to make ur son hate his wife? u complain to him about faltu things, u do nautanki and u try ur best to turn his against his wife. don't u realize don't u understand that in making ur son to give bhaav only to u, u r making him unhappy? uski grahasti aap barbaad nahi kar rahe ho?

a girl leaves behind her parents, her all relations to be a part of her husband's family. for what? to be a slave on the wage of basic necessities? isliye ki sasuraal walo ko do waqt ki roti ke badle ek gulaam mil jaye?

the man is always like my mother my brothers, my family...what about " my wife " ? if the wife/ bahu says something to any of her in laws, she is uncultured. what about the ill treatments the in laws give her?

a wife / daughter in law like na ghar ka na ghat ka! her blood relations DONATE her and the people who she gets donated to, treat her always like an outsider. worse. like a mofat ka naukar!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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i am not saying that all in laws are bad or all wives/daughters in law are good.
but this a general mentality to treat bahu as an outsider.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes completely agree with you. In Indian system bahu is the worst creature in the house. As far as she bears all nonsense she is fine. The day she opens her mouth that to be truth she is bad. The worst scenario is that if marriage fails than husband says go from my house, as if she was living in hotel, if you are not satisfied with her behavior you can throw her out. This house belongs to her also you are no body to throw her out.

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