CHANGE IS LIFE AND LIFE IS FULL OF IT ...6/9/17 - Page 2

Originally posted by: DikshaN

amazing episode
finally some decent Convo between ishra and I loved it
the episode was very sensible and nice
I'm shocked CVS gave us such an episode
I also liked the alia ishu scene and toshiji scenes
very beautiful

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Viji for you... Hope I'm not giving you a headache..

Raji..no you are not...😊

The reason the episode was beautiful, because the missing piece of the relationship between Raman and Ishita happened. Which is communication. Talk and listen the key parts of a successful relationship.

True communication is the key...talk and listening...raman lacks listening skills...but today he listened which made it even more beautiful... the casual communication.like normal couples have was lacking in their relationship...we were desperate for it..and today we got it..they promised ..she promised to stand by him and support him,,be his rock no matter what...the whole comvo was so amazing...brilliantly written...

Raman has finally understood what it feels like to be sidelined and how it feels. And miracle of miracles he understood what Ishita was feeling. All the feelings of being left out was sort of nullified for Ishita by having Raman in her clinic. No matter what, He can have his meals cooked by someone or things taken care by someone but when it comes to sharing his pain or insecurity he had to come to his wife. No one can replace her place in his life. The fear of her leaving him, the insecurity once again showed up in Raman as he suddenly felt inadequate. I guess these two will have their insecurities come up whenever they are at their vulnerable lows.

Oh yeah he realized It and realized what ishuta might be going thru...that was a phenomenal change in his characterization...ability to think and be in others shoes ..he had it today. Yes ishuta felt so good to see her patidev in her office..the smile when she saw him..after the depressed stiff aged feeling at home ...him being there waiting for her in her cabin changed her. I'm again seeing his insecurities resurfacing again and told her not to leave him as only she can accept him just the way he is...don't know if something is being planned but I have strange feeling something is coming up. He was always the insecure person always felt not good enough ..lets c...raji I think ishita's insecurities were always on since first leap...it never went away...it used to be dormant but time to,time it resurfaced and became active until yesterday. But raman ...I'm seeing this insecurity after a very long time..as you said they are vulnerable right now ...in this new phase ...it will be beautiful to see their journey in e again...without ott twist and turns.

The difference between Ishita handling Raman was gentle, where as he was accusatory towards her yesterday. Though it may be true to their character but Raman needs to tone down his irritation to listen to Ishita. She is not a complainer and takes in a lot. If she is showing pain then it's real. Loved their outing as they are needed for any healthy relationships.

Ishuta always knew how to handle people and situations...without hurting others... @ hold very true...agree...we want that sensitive RKB back..@ red...an absolute must...just them..having their private time...romancing over lunch...nice...

Alia fumbled and fell, which is very normal for any new person taking on a new role. What Ishita told Raman about one should be little nervous while accepting the new challenge applies here. Alia showed typical impatient and greed to grab the best bahu title along with I can do anything better than you syndrome, but today she learned a valuable lesson about family. How by being honest and open the family can come together and pull everything. The whole prashad is a lesson in "US how all contribute to make a happy outcome. The talk between Ishita and Alia was excellent in my opinion. A very much needed talk. And I liked how Ishita told Alia what hurts the relationships. Honesty and being open is the only way to have a happy relationship. And her point of good saas makes good bahu and good bahu makes good saas only works if both are willing to share the mutual respect and love. Toshiji is a best saas because Ishita is a best bahu and after seeing how Ishita is as a person Toshiji also accepted her whole heartedly. The best scene between these two bonding was when Ishita kept the vrath for Raman. That is when Toshiji realized that Ishita will not hurt Raman like Shagun did.

Aaliya wanted a drive thru achievement ...wants that place very fast ..whuch took months to years for ishita..very ambitious...nothing wrong...but lacked reality. Yes I too liked the "US" talk...how family comes together fir everyone and everything... @ green..oh I remover that scene..varalakshmi vrat...where toshiji will tell her..." oh why didn't you come into my sons life earlier?"...with tears in her eyes...beautiful scene..

Finally, this all worked because Alia's mamma is out of the country. Once she makes an entry I'm not sure how long the "US tag will stick with Alia.

Raji enjoy till it lasts ...she's definitely going to create a mess...

Roshni is transforming and she looks beautiful. I really liked her dedication to fix her life.

Yes roshni looked beautiful..simple

Hopefully we get meaningful episodes like this even if Shagun tries to break the relationship. Keep the communication open between Raman and Ishita and not making Raman dance to Shagun tunes is the way to make this go forward. Drama is part and parcel of life and more for the shows. But after all these years, and having some understanding if husband keeps on running after ex and insults his wife who is his pillar of strength makes it ugly and not watchable. Hope CVS pay attention to story line.

Well said agree

Originally posted by: DikshaN

seems CVS actually paid attention to the story of the show and also AHs absence played a role in us getting such good episodes after ages

Originally posted by: mayasun

Hi Viji

First and foremost the episode was good because Shagun was not there. It is not like CV don't know to write subtle episode like yhm starting they proved it today they still got their writing skills but as soon as they revolve the story around Shagun scree space then they throw their writing in dustbin.

It is not personal to AH but I wish she stays in Indonesia so we don't get Shagun in the episodes and we get good episode.

Second thing Even though IshRa talk was good and much needed I could not connect to IshRa I felt all the scene were more like KP/DT and their friendship showing on screen rather than IshRa as husband and wife.

Third thing Raman realized are they once again changing Raman characteristic to the sensitive man when he was introduced than I am up for this change

It was a typical new dil syndorme for Aliya she wants to be accepted by everyone and it was good to see Mani being a sensible father once again

You know once again I have a weird feeling seeing Aliya talking on the phone to Mani. Mani would have only listened to Ishita fake anger and would have said the same to Shagun and Shagun will trying to use this against Ishita. Viji this is solely my prediction it may or may not happen but whenever I get these weird feelings watching a scene whatever I say has always happened in YHM

Family helping Aliya was good. Aliya giving credit to everyone was also nice.

The small bindi makes such a difference in DT she looks even more gorgeous