Neela - the ideal mother

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know from past few episodes Neela has been praised just too many times. But it seems just not enough. In each new episode we are seeing just another side of her, & it's leaving me speechless each time. From trick master to strong independent single mother to broken person. In each phase she is a mother.
She was Avni's mother when she outsmarted Neel & tricked everyone on the marriage day. She was a strong independent single mother when she confronted Neel & Nanno. She was a mother when she went to Ayesha's kabr & said humari Avni ko wo pyaar zaroor milega jise paane ke liye hum dono taraste rahe.

Such a selfless person, she was ready to leave Ashish her only true love just so Avni can get her family & normal parenting & upbringing. In everything, all of us forget that she is as broken (if not more) as Ayesha was.

But today, it just tore my heart the way she talked about Avni's happiness & life at Ayesha's kabr & then a helpless mother who pushed her daughter away just for her own good to how she said bandook thi uske haath me Neel. Apni bachhi ko bachana farz hai mera. Main use Dayawanti nahi banne de sakti. Again amazing confrontation between Neela & Neel.

With each dialogue, expression & act she is just giving a mother goal. I know this time she didn't win best mother's award in SPA but after these episodes if she don't win next year's SPA best mother's award, I will lose my cool.

She is an ideal mother, who knows what is best for her daughter & will go to any extent just so her daughter receives the best. Even if that best means pushing your daughter away from your side. Words are just not enough to describe how beautiful Neela's character is & how wonderful mother she is. She is a smart mother & not a foolish one who wants best for her child but don't know what that is. ( yes, last line is a jab to Ayesha & Nanno both.)

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes Neela made me cry today.
She's just a perfect mother.
Love sayantani as neela.
Brilliant performance by her.
Nice post.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Amazing post...
Very true indeed. Who says you need be biologically related? Soul connection is of utmost importance. Avni and Neela prove it again n again...

Just love the actress playing Neela. She is just fab... Glad to see such strong and flawed characters on screen.

Hope the makers maintain it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Technically neela saved three lives that is riya avni and neel.
Even ayesha wouldnt have done this much for avni.
Neela is a mother to avni in true sense.
She is making neel realise his feelings for avni.
not only ideal mother she is even ideal saas.lol
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I m totally agree with you...each word aapki post me neela ke character KO aur nikhar ke le aaya hai...such a wonderful mom...neela bahot hi strong aur smart hai...avni kitni lucky hai Ki usko itna pyaar karje vali Mom milli hai Jo koi samaj nahi skata ke uske ye decision s Avni Ki kitni life bahetar hogi...usse peace, love same time respect and light milege...wonderful post
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dbmscost

Technically neela saved three lives that is riya avni and neel.
Even ayesha wouldnt have done this much for avni.
Neela is a mother to avni in true sense.
She is making neel realise his feelings for avni.
not only ideal mother she is even ideal saas.lol


When you put it that way, then she is actually an ideal person. She gives the best reactions, response to every situation.
Right now, feminism is a trend & many shows tried to show their female leads as feminists, but honestly at one point or another every show failed. Those leads are either excessively aggressive in their approach or excessively sanskaari, which is hard to digest after some time.

But for me, Neela is the best example of the feminist character. She is a balanced character. She knows when to strike, retreat, react & when to be wise. Her wisdom makes her the most feminist character. & she don't annoy us with her over smartness & wisdom, where she keeps on preaches & everyone follows her. As I said she is a balanced character, one of the best character right now on the indian television. & her balanced character makes her the best feminist character.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashi345678

Yes Neela made me cry today.
She's just a perfect mother.
Love sayantani as neela.
Brilliant performance by her.
Nice post.


Yes, you are right. Neela's character is a beautifully crafted character. But the reason why it touched so many hearts is bcz of her brilliant performance & acting.


Sayantani deserves all the appreciation.👏

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: preetz0110

Amazing post...

Very true indeed. Who says you need be biologically related? Soul connection is of utmost importance. Avni and Neela prove it again n again...

Just love the actress playing Neela. She is just fab... Glad to see such strong and flawed characters on screen.

Hope the makers maintain it.


Me too. We have seen many good characters going to trash for dragging a show or another reason.

But I too hope, Neela's character remains intact.😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kasaf

I m totally agree with you...each word aapki post me neela ke character KO aur nikhar ke le aaya hai...such a wonderful mom...neela bahot hi strong aur smart hai...avni kitni lucky hai Ki usko itna pyaar karje vali Mom milli hai Jo koi samaj nahi skata ke uske ye decision s Avni Ki kitni life bahetar hogi...usse peace, love same time respect and light milege...wonderful post


Thank you.😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dbmscost

Technically neela saved three lives that is riya avni and neel.
Even ayesha wouldnt have done this much for avni.
Neela is a mother to avni in true sense.
She is making neel realise his feelings for avni.
not only ideal mother she is even ideal saas.lol


Neela has the courage to bite the bullet.

Ayesha never had the courage. She was the child in the house not the parent...

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