I got glass instead of a diamond 5.26.17

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Evil has always been present since the beginning that is present in all of us. An evil man should shock us as much as an evil woman and when that woman is a mother, it is even more shocking and unpalatable. Does the role of a nurturer blunt the wickedness of the deed committed by Pinky Singh Oberoi? Not by one whit. Today she let it all out, that was bottled up inside of her. She had enough of the pretense, of accepting Anika as her bahu. She was so consumed by her own insecurities where Shivaay was concerned that she could not bear the disappointment of choosing her son's bride. It was more about her dreams that lay shattered at her feet than calling Anika a mere plain glass, instead of choosing a diamond of the first water. Pinky in her blind hatred, forgot that the diamond shines brilliantly, has many facets, cuts the glass but the glass lets light through, is transparent and plain. The diamond has a history of its cut and color but the glass has no such thing. Anika is a rarity in that she speaks her mind, does not lie, transparent as a glass, does not have the pedigree or cut/clarity of a diamond. A diamond has flaws too only they are not visible to the naked eye whereas the glass is flawless, clean and pure. A diamond is very hard and has a blue glow unlike glass that is plain or transparent. Anika is soft hearted, has a big heart, self made entirely like glass that is man made. She has defined her worth, her morals despite her lack of guidance from her parents. She maybe just glass but worth more than a diamond any day.


Pinky though from a village must come from money for her to speak with so much pride. That and the Oberoi surname has gone to her head. As Tej pointed out her whole life revolved around her son, making him the perfect show piece and built her dreams around him. When Shivaay proudly acknowledged that Anika was his strength and inspiration, Pinky's hatred and fear of rejection grew manifold. The thought of losing her son to this Woman' with no NKK is hard to digest who easily overlooked the fact that Tia was pregnant before the wedding. She was willing to forgive and forget all that Tia said and wanted a beautiful doll to proudly display and pat on the head.


The story of Putana who came to breast feed baby Krishna with her breasts smeared with poison is too horrendous to imagine. Who would want to murder an innocent baby this way? The very precious bond that is nurtured during the breast feeding of the baby is tarnished by Putana forever. Yet this deceptively simple story defines the role of evil innate in our minds and heart, magnified by society. That with good exists evil, that to achieve good, evil has a role to play.


For Shivika to work over the huge obstacle called NKK, evil Pinky has to play her role, for Shivaay to win over his NKK and to become a better person. This is a singular argument running in the battle between evil and good: that for good to win, evil has to lose but not without accepting the presence of evil in us and the world we live in. Shivaay has to accept the fact that his mother is evil and overcome his NKK that has been drilled into him since his birth by the woman who gave birth to him, nurtured him.


Pinky as a mother and villain and a woman is a fascinating juxtaposition. for children especially, the most influential person is the mother. When this mother figure is split into the evil (like Kaikeyi) and the good (Kaushalya), the benevolent always win. Pinky was alternately expressing her disgust of Anika to pleading with her, accusing her of trying to separate her from her son. Nitika Anand was too good here, she shone in her scenes difficult though it was to watch her degrade and blame her bahu. Calling her cheap and worthless.


Anika has been made to feel like a worm by both mother and son. Shivaay said the same to her not too long ago and now his mother is repeating his words and more. Shivaay has grown as a responsible caring husband while his mother is yet to grow as a loving mother in law. She conveniently forgot the times that Anika saved Shivaay, especially during the fake Shivaay period. A woman who is desperate to have the son attached to her pallu, has her shades of emotions and grey as well as giving rise to some fascinating narratives. I am All for it as Shivika move forward in their marriage. The vile women from our mythologies like Surpanakha, Kaikeyi, Putana etc are tarnished in irredeemable black though the ages and serve as harsh reminders of our follies and fallacies as humans.


Pinky has crossed all limits today or is there more to come? Only the coming days will tell and then begins her tale of accepting Shivika and how wrong she was.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow, interesting take.
Making the coming episodes exciting.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: bworm

Wow, interesting take.

Making the coming episodes exciting.


HS has been building up Pinky's dislike of Anika slowly from the time Daksh said all those things about her. She was only upset with Shivaay when the video expose was done and her pride in her heera beta was broken. She never really cared for Anika other than a hired help, even during the shaadi of Shitia during the ML. She treated her like a servant and never though twice about it. I think her dislike has peaked now.

Waiting to see how it goes from here.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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very interesting post and i loved reading it. Of Course, there is much more to come now she is moving to level 2 till now it was all emotional harm emotional pain from behind a mask. Today she openly challenged Anika and has moved onto The physical Harm aspect with the whole mehendi and chemical thing. i have a feeling that it will end up hurting shivaay only that it will eb him that will have his hands burnt somehow and actually for a change i would like that and then i would want to see Pinky ka face that how in her selfishness and blindness she is hurting her son caz right now she isn't even thinking about the emotional pain she is causing shivaay in the process too maybe seeing him physically hurt she would understand but i guess that is too much to expect from her. She will somehow end up blaming anika for that too.
I also feel anika should back off now and let him figure out the sach on his own and see the truth on his own it will take time as he denied today that ankhon dekha jhooth ho sakta hai & i am not blaming either of them today they were in a bad situation and they behaved accordingly both were wrong and right in their own ways so i am not picking one side over other. I am just glad that they did introspect and accepted their mistakes both of them again a slight progress in their bond today it didn't took them more than few mins to come and apologize and the trust as solid as ever. Shovaay not for a sec doubted anika even after NT allegations it's not even in his head and taht si Fab Fab Fab stuff. For him it was NT the evil and nothing she said held any meaning. IN pinky's truth again his reaction as a son was super natural and realistic No kid in the world would accept anything like this against their parent unless they see it with their own eyes and even then it takes a lot of conviction and courage to actually come to terms of it, doesn't matter how much he loves and respects his wife his mother also is as important to him .

I also have a feeling that this is all connected to the rest of what anika wanted to hear the khidkitod khoobsurat thok ke bahvv main speech which ended up with tumne mujhe Ishqbaaaz bana dia

so we have our first point already checked off that list which is you look khidkitod khoobsurat really really khoobsurat done

now i don't remember the order but it was something like tum saath na ho toh sansein rukne lagti hai tum paas aati ho toh meri dhadkanein tez ho jaati hai so i feel we might have a separation or another Near death experience caused by Pinky that will really shake him up to say this and in all that he will be left alone to figure it out and see the truth and will end up confessing this and the cliched i love you that i don't personally think we need caz he has done way more and said way more than that but anyway for the rest of the fandom and that will be the Finale tumne mujhe ishqbaaaz bana dia



also, someone mentioned in one post that what was the point of darna matt well he is still rocksteady by her side yes he exploded in his anger and shivaay knows it and anika knows it and that is very much in his character he himself has admitted and told anika way back in old jungle episodes during NB time jab gussa aata hai toh mera dimaag band ho jata hai that is his character trait he did explode on her in room but valid reason and he noticed her tears and went right back into sorry mode and actually said it too without hesitating so yes he might explode but the saath the partnership is steady as ever he ain't leaving her alone whatsoever as of now so really no need to worry as she is afraid that he will back off from their rishta and i am super duper happy that she heard that ANika ka NKK just doesn't matter anymore that she is the exception to the rule. that it bothers him still but not in anika's case that he isn't giving it up just yet it is hard and for now the NKK and Anika are coexisting both things that identify him
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Posted: 8 years ago
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amazing, so true, never thought of it all this way
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Posted: 8 years ago
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OMG! This is superb and so far the best take . I read it again and again and literally fell in love with the way you differentiate between diamond and glass, never ever i read something as pure as this. To be very honest you are amazing. 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow! I like your point of view. Really interesting.

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Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

very interesting post and i loved reading it. Thanks fary (hope I got it right)

Loved your points.

Of Course, there is much more to come now she is moving to level 2 till now it was all emotional harm emotional pain from behind a mask. Today she openly challenged Anika and has moved onto The physical Harm aspect with the whole mehendi and chemical thing.yes, emotional done, now physically maiming Anika and next is her life...think she will go that far to hire someone to take her life. Seems like the women know the hitmen just as Mrs.Kapoor knew where to get one sniper for Lohri Special. 😆
i have a feeling that it will end up hurting shivaay only that it will eb him that will have his hands burnt somehow and actually for a change i would like that and then i would want to see Pinky ka face that how in her selfishness and blindness she is hurting her son caz right now she isn't even thinking about the emotional pain she is causing shivaay in the process too maybe seeing him physically hurt she would understand but i guess that is too much to expect from her. She will somehow end up blaming anika for that too.
This could happen, that Shivaay's hands are burnt with the mehendi and Pinky blames Anika for this. I doubt if Pinky will realize her son is in pain and turn on Anika, screaming at her. Even today, she shrieked that her son never got a moment's peace ever since she got married to him. Is she for real? Her son has never been more happier or at peace than ever before. The fact it is Anika and not her (for his happiness) is what is making her lash out on Anika. Gandhari atlas had a patti around her eyes but Pinky is blind even without one, in her hatred for Anika.
I also feel anika should back off now and let him figure out the sach on his own and see the truth on his own it will take time as he denied today that ankhon dekha jhooth ho sakta hai & i am not blaming either of them today they were in a bad situation and they behaved accordingly both were wrong and right in their own ways so i am not picking one side over other. I am just glad that they did introspect and accepted their mistakes both of them again a slight progress in their bond today it didn't took them more than few mins to come and apologize and the trust as solid as ever.
I think Anika will back off and Shivaay will try to come even closer, not caring who sees him. He will have to put the puzzle together. He will see or hear something that will set off the BULB hopefully. Loved how he said sorry to her and ofc the tadi...that she said it too... he expects it from her. These moments are what makes watching IB a treat for me.
Shovaay not for a sec doubted anika even after NT allegations it's not even in his head and taht si Fab Fab Fab stuff. For him it was NT the evil and nothing she said held any meaning. IN pinky's truth again his reaction as a son was super natural and realistic No kid in the world would accept anything like this against their parent unless they see it with their own eyes and even then it takes a lot of conviction and courage to actually come to terms of it, doesn't matter how much he loves and respects his wife his mother also is as important to him . He has said it enough that they are the 2 most imp women in his life, his mother and his mom as is true for any husband/man, until a daughter arrives. 😉 He trusted Anika with his mom with the leb and let them be.. he knows that Anika will not disrespect his mother and care for her. That is the amount of trust he has on Anika.

I also have a feeling that this is all connected to the rest of what anika wanted to hear the khidkitod khoobsurat thok ke bahvv main speech which ended up with tumne mujhe Ishqbaaaz bana dia I have not thought of this, but yes it makes sense.

so we have our first point already checked off that list which is you look khidkitod khoobsurat really really khoobsurat done How beautiful was this, loved Narbhi to bits in this scene.

now i don't remember the order but it was something like tum saath na ho toh sansein rukne lagti hai tum paas aati ho toh meri dhadkanein tez ho jaati hai so i feel we might have a separation or another Near death experience caused by Pinky that will really shake him up to say this
NDE will be phase 3 of Pinky's move after the chemical mehendi. agar tum mujhse baat nahi karti to mera din bekaar hai (don't recall the words exactly) and in all that he will be left alone to figure it out and see the truth and will end up confessing this and the cliched i love you that i don't personally think we need caz he has done way more and said way more than that but anyway for the rest of the fandom and that will be the Finale tumne mujhe ishqbaaaz bana dia
I read some spoiler that the sets are being ready for the grand consummation...now dunno if this is going to be true...maybe Pinky will get more mad if this is true and put a target on Anika's back.


also, someone mentioned in one post that what was the point of darna matt well he is still rocksteady by her side yes he exploded in his anger and shivaay knows it and anika knows it and that is very much in his character he himself has admitted and told anika way back in old jungle episodes during NB time jab gussa aata hai toh mera dimaag band ho jata hai that is his character trait he did explode on her in room but valid reason and he noticed her tears and went right back into sorry mode and actually said it too without hesitating so yes he might explode but the saath the partnership is steady as ever he ain't leaving her alone whatsoever as of now so really no need to worry as she is afraid that he will back off from their rishta and i am super duper happy that she heard that ANika ka NKK just doesn't matter anymore that she is the exception to the rule. that it bothers him still but not in anika's case that he isn't giving it up just yet it is hard and for now the NKK and Anika are coexisting both things that identify him Agree, he regretted it the second it came out of his mouth and did not know what to say to her, to blunt the effect of the words. Both the bros running away from the issues, avoiding them especially Om who neatly side stepped Shivaay's question on Gauri. Om was always his conscience just as he pointed out that what Shivaay did to Anika when he married her. when they were talking about the dream a girl has of her marriage. So happy that all of them hard Shivaay say that Anika's NKK does not matter but he can't brush that away from his soul, it is etched too deeply in him. He has made peace with it, NKK and Anika kind of like getting to keep and eat the cake. 😆😆


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Posted: 8 years ago
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yup Nim you got it right :)) fary it is:))
also babe i was so rolling my eyes at how conveniently pinky forgot the fact that anika also took a bullet for Shivaay i was like really when she said shivaay took it for her . i was liek she returned the favor pinky by doing the exact same thing but then pinky thinks that was nothing caz woh bhi le sakti thi apne bete ke liye as she herself said in those episodes which every time makes me say phir liya kyon nahi Pinks??

the double standard on this is just so appalling if the beta does it it is some grand gesture but if the girl did it it means nothing and just a daily casual thing

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Stunning write up Nim! Forum is filled with fabulous opinions today, it's obvious the episode struck a raw nerve and jumped thoughts.
i loved your write up with the mythology , it always fascinates me.

Shivaay is so lucky to get someone like Annika. He should value her more.

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