Only educated and modern females have strong characters?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I've been reading way too many post on this forum as how Gauri being not educated or Modern are her biggest flaws and one of the main reason she isn't a strong character.

Her treating her husband as devotion is another flaw according to some

I totally agree that Education is very important and that each and every human irrespective of being male or female should complete it.

But just having degrees don't make you superior as a person than anyone! And same goes for wearing 'modern clothes' lol

Everywhere in world there is new phenomenon among the millennials to take pride of your own culture and ethnicity so I don't know why only here its looked down upon and worse is people are using it as judgement over as a character.

And as far as education is concerned though it's important it's surely doesnt define your character or what kind of human being are or what you're achievements going to be in life.

Dhirubhai Ambani, Sachin Tendulkar, Sindutai Sakpal, Smriti Irani etc don't have any degrees but they are still known for their work and mainly because of the kind of people they are.

So this constant oh comparison just because some one is 5th pass and other is ACP or something makes the later superior and stronger character ? Umm no

Yes Gauri is no saint and she is sometimes hypocrite also at times annoying with her Dabang drama but always judging the character over their clothes and accent and education is bit unfair

Please excuse my writing though I'm not good with words and making my point across. Hope you'll understand it.

And now if y'all still reading I also want to add something off topic that Omkara is just going through a phase. So comparing him with cat and dogs and Tej is so unfair like give that guy little time to sort his mind and this mess out. There is no need for outrage over every little thing.

Yeah I'm done 😆
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ChannaMereya thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No education and strong attitude are poles apart and many infact most successful people in world are without degress and are even 10 or 12 pass .
Gauri I think ppl need to.cut slack if educated women in real world eg Hillary clinton amd many more stuck to their marriages inspite of many scandals and betrayal .Here gauri is only stickong to her belief which she had in god nothing wrong and here is where as I feel Om could help later and built her confidense that shw is no less than him .
And Om is no wjere outa character as peopleake here out .Circumstances are biggest teacher noone react in same way when life has been cruel and if u look at om pov he saw his mom near death and then death of another lady bec of outsider how can he forgive such person .Easier said then done .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yst I said if Rudra's girl ACP or whatever this not mean she will not be mahan ya will not have rain season. Yes she is brave...But then lets look at Annika...She also brave...Gauri? She also brave. Bhavya - fighter. Okay...Annika also fighter. Gauri also fighter.


The difference just because Bhavya don't have strange language and she is educated doesnt make her strong heroine. Just because Gauri uneducated and dont have modern style doesnt make her weak and stupid heroine.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very well said...yaa even I dnt like her way of eating candy and crying in front of omkara ...but yes I agree wid u jst becoz she is less educated and speak differently dsnt make her less thn any other FL...she is strong in her own way...and it proves everytime...during KT track also and even yesterday when she was drunk she didnt allow him to touch her...I like tht scene...it was not tht highlighted but it was important. ...even omkara was shocked for a second when she shouted on him for touching her...I like anika and gauri...cant say anything abt 3rd girl ...its 2 early to say anything. ...but yes gauri do has some flaws
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well Said Nivedita 👏

And you know most of the TV vierwers fantasise characters and like to see what they want to see onscreen suited booted in skirt , high heels 😆 appearance is importatn for most the tv viewers

Gauri s not perfect , no one is perfect in this world ..but she has more moral value than anyone high class educated girl ...this was shown very well in DBO So far

She is taking stand, she saved herself twice from Kali... now she has to take stand from Omkara arrogant behaviour and leave the house..


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Educated & moden grls r only made villains or dumb in d serials not leads. It's ur attitude matter not education.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't mind her being like that but I desperately want her to take a stand for herself and walk away from Om. It doesn't mean I want to see her being all sad etc. - she can very well continue her belief in go- in fact- that's what should give her the strength and even love Om but give more importance to her self respect and walk away from him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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If degrees defined one's strength, jhaanvi should have been the strongest one in DBO world.
And I'm among the one's who don't take crying as weakness, masking one's emotions doesn't make one strong.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChannaMereya

Here gauri is only stickong to her belief which she had in god nothing wrong and here is where as I feel Om could help later and built her confidense that shw is no less than him .

And Om is no wjere outa character as peopleake here out .Circumstances are biggest teacher no one react in same way when life has been cruel and if u look at om pov he saw his mom near death and then death of another lady bec of outsider how can he forgive such person .Easier said then done .


Exactly!!

And @ second para... I know right!! I feel so bad for Omkara. After his every scene everyone gets so outraged and open so many posts against him.

Matlab he is no god. End main toh insaan hain. People change and learn according to circumstances and mistakes in life.

Now he is not going to change suddenly in next episode. In real life main bhi no one changes so easily toh yaha toh they have to make a daily soap.

If he never changes and stays like this then yes the outrage and disappointment is justified.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lovely post Nivedita...totally support you 😊
Recently this forum has become a place where female leads and vamps are being compared...and constant bashing is being carried out.

Knowledge and Education are two different aspects and we confuse them.

Gauri is not formally educated...that doesnt make her down market..or ...low standard. Unfortunately, this constant bashing of Gauri and comparison with vamps or other female leads is creating unnecessary negativity.

But there is no point in saying anything...this bashing will continue

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