Y Aru didnt tell Mukhi real reason for her going ahead with marraige?

This question has bothered me a lot.. 😆

since Mukhi kept on accusing his gaurani and our gaurani was too confused, bewildered to think straight and answer back to make his big mouth shut tht.. it was due to ur and ur assurance only that she wiped off the tears of her lost ambition and confidently stepped back into the mandap, leading the way...

kyun yaad nahi dilaya ke.. mukhiji.. aapne wada kiya hai.. mere piche piche chalne ka.. 😆 mere saare sapne pure karne ka..

she can demand her rights with all the haq and Mukhi wudnt b able to utter a single word.. uske principles jo bich mein aa jaate hai... like Aru once said.. he is pran-jaaye-par-vachaan-na-jaaye types guy... 😆

I m soo looking forward to the day this confrontation happens.. so what if Mukhi thought it was Dharmi, Aru ne to khud ke liye hi samza tha na...

Mukhi has to answer her soon enough.. and stop this whole Go-Back-To-Ahemdabad nautanki..

I guess he still thinks she doesn't want to b here in village. Actually Aru doesn't want to b in village but I think she considers this marriage legit and takes responsibility of it as she took that decision herself being well aware of the consequences but bolstered by Mukhi's reassurances and promise.

I think she wants to give this marriage a chance but Mukhi's anger and blame game is shirking her away from owning it up.

For now, let them decide whether they are husband-wife or not. 😆

Although they keep telling each other not to behave like husband or wife but at the same time deep down they want the other person to behave the same..so whenever they behave like a typical wifey or hubby the opposite one gets happy inside.. that's what I feel..they already accepted this marriage but for the sake of their partner denying it esp. Mukhi thinking of Aru's future with him...even if Aru confesses she is happy with him Mukhi wont believe it..Aru's young age and not wanting to stay in village thing will stay in Mukhi's mind for a long time. Mukhi actually likes her much. In fact both have respect for each other.

yes rightly you say aru bechari ka kya dosh mukhi ji ne bahut bade bade sabhd kahe the ab woh dharmi samajh kar de rahe the and we was like yay dharmi ke sapney🤣we know what are they

Mukhi needs to stop thinking ...that would be a start...any woman that married him was giving up a life they were used to, so what difference does it make if it is Aru? We all have dreams and ambitions but fate takes us on another path ...if He really cares that much about her dreams ...let her chase them and be a wife also. Either way Aru was gonna end up married to someone one day BUT BUT the point u are all missing as to why Mukhi is angry is because he was ...betrayed and lied to...even Aru played a part in that whether Mishri duper her or not and deep down that is why Mukhi is mad...

All this letting people be free to chase their dreams is utter bull**** ...and jus an excuse ...breaking up with someone so they can concentrate on their career is bull****...still that person dates or gets married and has a family eventually...it's a cowards way out of commitment by using the " Career and Dream card " ...

I was married and a mom of 5, I have dreams and still I chase them ...being a Mom won't stop me

Originally posted by: sanakan15

Mukhi needs to stop thinking ...that would be a start...any woman that married him was giving up a life they were used to, so what difference does it make if it is Aru? We all have dreams and ambitions but fate takes us on another path ...if He really cares that much about her dreams ...let her chase them and be a wife also. Either way Aru was gonna end up married to someone one day BUT BUT the point u are all missing as to why Mukhi is angry is because he was ...betrayed and lied to...even Aru played a part in that whether Mishri duper her or not and deep down that is why Mukhi is mad...

All this letting people be free to chase their dreams is utter bull**** ...and jus an excuse ...breaking up with someone so they can concentrate on their career is bull****...still that person dates or gets married and has a family eventually...it's a cowards way out of commitment by using the " Career and Dream card " ...

I was married and a mom of 5, I have dreams and still I chase them ...being a Mom won't stop me

Originally posted by: Mihrimah

Although they keep telling each other not to behave like husband or wife but at the same time deep down they want the other person to behave the same..so whenever they behave like a typical wifey or hubby the opposite one gets happy inside.. that's what I feel..they already accepted this marriage but for the sake of their partner denying it esp. Mukhi thinking of Aru's future with him...even if Aru confesses she is happy with him Mukhi wont believe it..Aru's young age and not wanting to stay in village thing will stay in Mukhi's mind for a long time. Mukhi actually likes her much. In fact both have respect for each other.

I agree Mukhi likes her definitely. He is just annoyed with her sometimes. 😆

Yes, The fact that Aru is a lot younger than him and the belief that she sacrificed herself and compromised her ambitions and desires for their sisters' foolishness irks Mukhi a lot. He will not let Aru become the sacrificial lamb 😆 and is hell bent on shooing her off. Lets c if Aru is able to throw some sense in his big head. 😆

But first we need to know what exactly Aru thinks abt this marriage. 😳

Is she willing to be a mother to Mukhi's bachas.. 🤣

Originally posted by: mannu100

you said it all😊

Mukhi is a man who can look after himself in ways of cooking etc, that was shown when he did a simple thing like making tea for everyone...he isn't one of those guys who likes to be waited on and be spoon fed by his wife...so after housework is done ( they probably have servants anyway ) what does Aru really have to give up by marrying ? How she gonna spend the hours when everything is done...sit down and watch tv serials all day 😆

Originally posted by: mannu100

yes rightly you say aru bechari ka kya dosh mukhi ji ne bahut bade bade sabhd kahe the ab woh dharmi samajh kar de rahe the and we was like yay dharmi ke sapney🤣we know what are they

aru will think its for her only to uhka kaha dosh .Aru want to give this marraige a try...definetlly warna kal jab rami was provoking her he was like yeh kya bol rahi hai aap ...and kinda dukhi types exp somehow aru has accepted her faith...but mukhi thinks she cant fit in the cillage rather dont want to

aisa nahin hai mukhi kumar jara ankhon pe lagyi hiu dhul saaf karke dekheyey to apko pata lagega as saanvi said 42 ka ho gaya lekin ajj tak Aurat ke man ko samajh nahin paya tu...😆

Seriously mukhi jiii aru ka thik hai usney shadi kyun ki lekin apko kya hua hai Divorce NAAM KI bhi koi chiz hoti hai ki nahin

Men will be men no matter what😆

on a serious not somewhere in deep down heart ARU wanted to maary Mkuhi i mean my mother says that if you are not willing to do anything no matter how the situation is worse no body has the dare to do that thing by you

Aru ke man me mukhi ki chabi kab se baas chuk thi warna ..yeh shadi kabhi bhi nahin hoti no maater how much the situation was worse.

Exactly i am waiting for that dat when Aru will confront mukhi and i am sure ...that will be turning point of thier life😃😳

Infact both has accepted each other no maater how much they on no wife mode or no husband mode deep down in heart both wanted to be the same and with each other😆

Backbiting or backstabbing has never been Aru's game. Hence, whatever Rami says she is not going to believe her. She is Aru and not Dharmista. I think Rami is going to learn this lesson the hard way. 😆

Bu, I don't think Aru has developed any feelings for Mukhi just yet. It was a marriage by chance and their principles don't let them sever this tie. 😳 In spite of everything, they will fulfil their duty as a husband and wife.

but Its long way for them to fall in love. 😳

Originally posted by: sanakan15

Mukhi needs to stop thinking ...that would be a start...any woman that married him was giving up a life they were used to, so what difference does it make if it is Aru? We all have dreams and ambitions but fate takes us on another path ...if He really cares that much about her dreams ...let her chase them and be a wife also. Either way Aru was gonna end up married to someone one day BUT BUT the point u are all missing as to why Mukhi is angry is because he was ...betrayed and lied to...even Aru played a part in that whether Mishri duper her or not and deep down that is why Mukhi is mad...

All this letting people be free to chase their dreams is utter bull**** ...and jus an excuse ...breaking up with someone so they can concentrate on their career is bull****...still that person dates or gets married and has a family eventually...it's a cowards way out of commitment by using the " Career and Dream card " ...

I was married and a mom of 5, I have dreams and still I chase them ...being a Mom won't stop me

yaar, the very thing that it is Aru and not any other girl makes a difference to Mukhi. He has seen her ambitions her desires, her responsibility as a daughter, and her views abt village from close quarters. If it was any other girl, it wudnt make any difference to Mukhi bcoz thn the mrg wud've happened with girl's complete consent and he was ready to fulfil his responsibility towards her.

Agreed the betrayal and lying has hit him hard. For Gandhi-Bhakt Mukhi its difficult to digest.😆 I understand his stance towards Mishri. but his constant pushing away of Aru is something that I m not able to understand completely. Saanvi gave a different picture to Aru's situation and that has mellowed him down a bit. But he still doesn't want to have that all-out conversation with ARu and instead is shoving down his decisions on Aru, but Aru is not his "praja" 😆 She has a brain that works in a different way than that of Mukhijis. 😆

Hmm.. agreed letting ppl go free is a letting a commitmentphobic have an excuse to have his/her way! 😆 One who has ambitions and dreams and clear priorities abt family and career will never bogged down by anything, even by parenthood. 😳

Aru is such a girl. She didn't want to marry jst yet coz she wanted to serve her parents and fulfil her ambitions first bt when Mukhi assured her that he would help her fulfil her dreams even in village she was ready to take the plunge. I am sure soon enuf Aru is going to start her own business in village. Being a Mukhiyani, she will have greater influence than she already has by her charm. 😆

Originally posted by: sanakan15

Mukhi is a man who can look after himself in ways of cooking etc, that was shown when he did a simple thing like making tea for everyone...he isn't one of those guys who likes to be waited on and be spoon fed by his wife...so after housework is done ( they probably have servants anyway ) what does Aru really have to give up by marrying ? How she gonna spend the hours when everything is done...sit down and watch tv serials all day 😆

arre its independence, the fast city life that she is so used to, the things she had planned to do with her life and career for her family.

Remember her family depends on her and Mishri's one decision and Aru's submission to it, has uprooted one stable support of her family and planted her in a remote village. I think that might also b in the back of Mukhi's mind in addition to her welfare.

but yes all these issues can b worked out once thy start having some meaningful conversation.

😳

Our Aru is not a lazy bum like Adharmi. 😆 she is gonna barge into the panchayat house and poke her nose in everything concerning Mukhi 😆