Y Aru didnt tell Mukhi real reason for her going ahead with marraige? - Page 2

Originally posted by: violette

yaar, the very thing that it is Aru and not any other girl makes a difference to Mukhi. He has seen her ambitions her desires, her responsibility as a daughter, and her views abt village from close quarters. If it was any other girl, it wudnt make any difference to Mukhi bcoz thn the mrg wud've happened with girl's complete consent and he was ready to fulfil his responsibility towards her.

Agreed the betrayal and lying has hit him hard. For Gandhi-Bhakt Mukhi its difficult to digest.😆 I understand his stance towards Mishri. but his constant pushing away of Aru is something that I m not able to understand completely. Saanvi gave a different picture to Aru's situation and that has mellowed him down a bit. But he still doesn't want to have that all-out conversation with ARu and instead is shoving down his decisions on Aru, but Aru is not his "praja" 😆 She has a brain that works in a different way than that of Mukhijis. 😆

Hmm.. agreed letting ppl go free is a letting a commitmentphobic have an excuse to have his/her way! 😆 One who has ambitions and dreams and clear priorities abt family and career will never bogged down by anything, even by parenthood. 😳

Aru is such a girl. She didn't want to marry jst yet coz she wanted to serve her parents and fulfil her ambitions first bt when Mukhi assured her that he would help her fulfil her dreams even in village she was ready to take the plunge. I am sure soon enuf Aru is going to start her own business in village. Being a Mukhiyani, she will have greater influence than she already has by her charm. 😆

Originally posted by: violette

I agree Mukhi likes her definitely. He is just annoyed with her sometimes. 😆

Yes, The fact that Aru is a lot younger than him and the belief that she sacrificed herself and compromised her ambitions and desires for their sisters' foolishness irks Mukhi a lot. He will not let Aru become the sacrificial lamb 😆 and is hell bent on shooing her off. Lets c if Aru is able to throw some sense in his big head. 😆

But first we need to know what exactly Aru thinks abt this marriage. 😳

Is she willing to be a mother to Mukhi's bachas.. 🤣

Originally posted by: Mihrimah

OMG u reached to baccha!!😆😆 usske liye kafi waqt hai!! Dimaag ke ghode ko aur na daudao😆

Yes u r right! He is angry coz Aru had to sacrifice herself for his own sister's foolishness..remember the confrontation that happened between ArMu the 2nd day of marriage? Mukhi was very sharp and logical with his argument..He knows Aru is quick wit and solves issues just like that..how could the same Aru thinks of a solution like this? That is what he cannot buy..koi aur hoti toh maan leta par Aru kaise..he said just bcz I nodded my head u thought I said yes to u? Why didnt u come and ask me personally? Why sending Mishri? After all u were not the dulhan so u could have easily come to me to explain the whole situation..he was so right with his point..that is why he is angry with her...he is not angry coz Aru is his wife but he is angry coz he is her husband... didn't he tell Saanvi that a 22yr old marrying a 42yr old is an accident not marriage? he nvr wanted her to sacrifice for him that too this kinda sacrifice..he just loathes the thought of it..

In one episode a random village guy said shaadi badi wali ke saath tay hui hai lekin jab dekho Mukhi ji chhoti wali ke saath ghumte rehte hai..bcz Mukhi was always comfortable with Aru more than any other girl..did u see him this comfy with Dharmi? No he wasnt..in fact he was always hesitant.

Let him shoo away the thought of Aru's sacrifice for him..he will be alright..by the time of Mishri's marriage (if it ever happens) he will have this realization hopefully.

Originally posted by: Mihrimah

OMG u reached to baccha!!😆😆usske liye kafi waqt hai!! Dimaag ke ghode ko aur na daudao😆

Yes u r right! He is angry coz Aru had to sacrifice herself for his own sister's foolishness..remember the confrontation that happened between ArMu the 2nd day of marriage? Mukhi was very sharp and logical with his argument..He knows Aru is quick wit and solves issues just like that..how could the same Aru thinks of a solution like this? That is what he cannot buy..koi aur hoti toh maan leta par Aru kaise..he said just bcz I nodded my head u thought I said yes to u? Why didnt u come and ask me personally? Why sending Mishri? After all u were not the dulhan so u could have easily come to me to explain the whole situation..he was so right with his point..that is why he is angry with her...he is not angry coz Aru is his wife but he is angry coz he is her husband... didn't he tell Saanvi that a 22yr old marrying a 42yr old is an accident not marriage? he nvr wanted her to sacrifice for him that too this kinda sacrifice..he just loathes the thought of it..

In one episode a random village guy said shaadi badi wali ke saath tay hui hai lekin jab dekho Mukhi ji chhoti wali ke saath ghumte rehte hai..bcz Mukhi was always comfortable with Aru more than any other girl..did u see him this comfy with Dharmi? No he wasnt..in fact he was always hesitant.

Let him shoo away the thought of Aru's sacrifice for him..he will be alright..by the time of Mishri's marriage (if it ever happens) he will have this realization hopefully.

Arre bacho se mera matlab tha.. the goat and the bike.. who Mukhi has self-proclaimed to bi his bachhas.. and who especially the goat Aru is extremely allergic to.. and the feeling is mutual.. 😆 😆

yes. Mukhi was very logical in his arguments considering he is a level-headed mukhi and has judged many such situations and has lot more experience handling such situations, but what he doesn't understand or overlooks is Aru's emotional naivity. Didn't he witness Aru and her partner's conversation, how he betrayed her and how easily she forgave him coz she was considerate abt his situation,his dire need for money for her mother's operation, and bcoz once she had considered him her brother. Also we as viewers know how forgiving she always was to Dharmi. Emotionally, she is a lot more forgiving and tolerant person when it comes to her family or closed ones. She cannot b a smart logical thinker like Mukhi. Also, she might have not accepted this marriage like Mukhi had she not made up her mind after Mukhi's assurance mid-ceremony.

Agreed, he cannot think of Aru marrying him. But as Saanvi said, he has to come in terms with this fact and stop enforcing his decisions on ARu without consulting her. Badi tedhi bandi hai Aru. INdependent hai, self sufficient hai, aur apne rights ke bare mein kaafi sajaag bhi hai.. She is like red flag for Mukhi.
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^ Agreed..abhi toh he is angry toh abhi woh sab samajh mein nahi ayega..he needs time to think over it..just let the Aru sacrifice thought fade away from his mind he will be alright..Aru agar chhoti nahi hoti na Mukhi would have been really happy with this marriage..par maine ek chiz notice ki hai..jab jab Aru tells him she returned for Mishri not for him, Mukhi gets a bit upset..and by saying it Aru too convinces herself she came back for Mishri LOL😆

Originally posted by: Mihrimah

^ Agreed..abhi toh he is angry toh abhi woh sab samajh mein nahi ayega..he needs time to think over it..just let the Aru sacrifice thought fade away from his mind he will be alright..Aru agar chhoti nahi hoti na Mukhi would have been really happy with this marriage..par maine ek chiz notice ki hai..jab jab Aru tells him she returned for Mishri not for him, Mukhi gets a bit upset..and by saying it Aru too convinces herself she came back for Mishri LOL😆

U know I feel between the two Mukhi will be the first one to fall in Love..

U know I exactly felt the same tht Mukhi is gonna first fall for Aru.

Even I noticed the way she dismisses his claims every time he tries to do something for her, it really pinches him hard and her mishri jaap is like rubbing salt over his wounds..😆 its like he is waiting for her to say ke no she wants to give this mrg a chance so that he can bombard her with his gyaan abt mrg compatibility and age issues.. 😆


Male ego jag raha hai.. duniya ke liye bhagwaan hoga.. aru ke samne to mamuli husband hi hai.. 😆 😆

He will then probably try and send her back to Amdavad. But he knows in his heart tht Aru never gives upon ppl and wud hope that she stays adamant and not listen to his gyaan. 😆