Are we moral police? KP-AC-JS

Hey All,

For once I would really want people to respond please.......especially those who spent time and effort commenting (sometimes on different forums😆) on Karan's supposed affairs and misdemeanors and Amita and Jatin's supposed greatness.😆

I like Karan Patel......no doubts there. I like him 90% as an actor 👏and10% as the personality we saw on NB3. And I believe his personal life is no business of mine. Period. .........Also, I think Amita is a gorgeous looking lady. 👏And she carried herself with great grace just as Karan did in NB3.........Similarly, I like Jatin......though mostly to look at 👏and I think he has a great potential.........But once again what Amita and Jatin do in their personal lifes is none of my business. Period.

So then how come, based on purely newspaper reports, half of which are timed to match a TV show's release and with the intention to get publicity for a paper😆, can the negative remarks about him be so important that we cast moral comments and doubts on Karan. And why.... because enuf people didnt write good things about him. What about the fact that almost every couple on NB3 got along with him. Would men who are from the same television industry trust their wives and girlfriends with a guy who is a flirt? What about the fact that Karan's best friends are Hiten-Gauri, a couple known for their dignity. What about Star TV Network...Will an internationally seen channel, put its new show in the hands of a guy who is not professional enuf and doesn't respect its women guests?

For all you know the truth may be that Amita was the bad one. Similarly, its nice to compare Robbie and Raunak..Though why one would do that has always puzzled me. 😆...But to subtely compare Karan and Jatin...come on friends😆...how much do we know them...For all you know Jatin may turn out to be a wife beater and Karan a hen pecked husband.😆

Now some of you may dispute the above...right?....Well that is precisely my point. How much of what I have written above is really the truth. Please think. So, why are we being the moral police....insulting a man left right and centre just because he is outspoken and fun-loving and alternatively, praising a woman and another man just because they appear quiet?

Past few days I saw so many posts on Karan in the Kasturi, KNYH and NB3 forum....and largely people criticizing him left right and centre. 😆And at the same time I saw a few posts appreciating Amita's virtues and Jatin's niceties to no end.😆....

My question is how many of you know the "real" Karan, Amita and Jatin?

How many of you are actually employed by these press houses, newspapers or magazines and therefore know the real story?

How many of you have never seen a guy-woman relationship go wrong?

How many of you are reading about a celebrity having an affair for the first time in your life?

And most importanty, are all of you such great examples of human virtues that you have a right to comment on the morality of Karan Patel?

So whether woh Amita ke saath pyaar kare, Sai se kare, Sheeba se kare, Jatin se kare, Manav se kare ...ya kisi aur se.....How should it matter to us. 😆And even if he did all of that ...so what....is he God?...that he will be the paragon of virtue and good behaviour....

Have fun people and instead of getting upset or estatic over the personal lives of telly stars....think about the real girlfriends, boyfriends and spouses in your lives...Now if these guys have an affair then its coz for worry.😆......not Karan Patel.

Haiiiiiiiiiii I have never bashed KP or any other actor personally but I do say this "bashing" comes with the package😛 so be it Jatin or Karan or shubhangi they are all gonna get it coz that's the median they have chosen for themselves and it simply cannot be helped😊 However, I do feel we should not speculate about an actor's "personal" life unless we know them personally. Objective crticism is welcome but the left-right-centre bashing is a bit too much and should be stopped ASAP😛

Originally posted by: JK_5

Haiiiiiiiiiii I have never bashed KP or any other actor personally but I do say this "bashing" comes with the package😛 so be it Jatin or Karan or shubhangi they are all gonna get it coz that's the median they have chosen for themselves and it simply cannot be helped😊 However, I do feel we should not speculate about an actor's "personal" life unless we know them personally. Objective crticism is welcome but the left-right-centre bashing is a bit too much and should be stopped ASAP😛

I agree with ju..I always do 😛 U always steal whatever I wanna say 😆

Originally posted by: JK_5

Haiiiiiiiiiii I have never bashed KP or any other actor personally but I do say this "bashing" comes with the package😛 so be it Jatin or Karan or shubhangi they are all gonna get it coz that's the median they have chosen for themselves and it simply cannot be helped😊 However, I do feel we should not speculate about an actor's "personal" life unless we know them personally. Objective crticism is welcome but the left-right-centre bashing is a bit too much and should be stopped ASAP😛

agree wid u😆

very true, jw, policing telly stars life is a very pathetic way to make one feel more morally ethical and more righteous... and perhaps like fari said, who hasnt messed up a relationship at one point and time, i know i cant say that i havent. it happens. that being said, i did go on record and said that there was no need for karan to come out after NB3 and say amita and i we're never a couple espeically since it involved her as well, infact had he and her both made that comment i wouldnt have felt anything wrong with it. The he said she said part of it makes the whole business stink, I'd have rather preferred that KP and Amita stay silent and let their relationship die a natural death, but i feel this breakup was more publicity stunt for him and his new show for in the entertainment world good or bad publicity doesnt matter its just as long as you are the news that matters.for ratings... but here's where i feel one should be more concerned with how and what you say, especially if that person is a popular public figure. and KP is a popular public figure so he needs to be more weary of what he says for the entertainment industry is forever under the microscope. for me as an adult any bashing of actors is uncalled for. but for many of their fans be it Jatin, Shubangi, KP, sheeba I feel they should feel morally obligated to try to conduct themselves appropriately...now the questions is every one has a different standard of moral conduct and that is where all this negative or postive bashing (sorry lack of a better word) comes from..now jw i'm wondering if i made any sense..😳

robziii

"Haiiiiiiiiiii I have never bashed KP or any other actor personally but I do say this "bashing" comes with the package😛 so be it Jatin or Karan or shubhangi they are all gonna get it coz that's the median they have chosen for themselves and it simply cannot be helped😊 However, I do feel we should not speculate about an actor's "personal" life unless we know them personally. Objective crticism is welcome but the left-right-centre bashing is a bit too much and should be stopped ASAP😛"

exactly!😊

Originally posted by: storyteller

I personally feel that stars and their private lives shld be left to them...
Me too
I mean give the guy a break... he is putting his utmost effort to entertain us and that shld be enuff for us... since we dont like ppl prying in our lives .. I dont think we have any right to start slinging mud on them..
Spot on and well said 👏 👏 ...And that too when none of us has any access to him 😆 😆
as far as relationships are concerned .. come on.. even if they have broken up or they never were a couple.. give the guys a break.. how many of us can seriously put a hand across our heart and say that look we didnt mess up any of our relationships
Excellent Fari just my sentiments. Thats what I meant....that have the people who have commented never seen a break up in their lives 😆

Fari