To be honest, I see nothing wrong with the attitude.
Before marriage and kids, career women are asked when they will marry or have kids and what role family has in their career. After marriage and kids, career women are asked what it is like to be a mom and how it affects their career.
Men do not have to answer as many questions about marriage and kids. Of course, they do get asked about wife and kids. Some rare exceptions like Salman get badgered about marriage. But their public image does not get reduced to a parent. Their films, their career are still important.
Take Saif, through this kid and previous his interviews never became focused all about being a dad. They ask about his films, his opinions, even politics in which he has no role. Take Shahid, all the focus is on stay at home mom Mira. No one is asking Shahid about how being a dad is changing his career or how much time he should be spending at home as a dad.
So whoever this celebrity is, Kareena or anyone else. They have a primary career. They may be a mom, but the reason the world knows them is because they are an actor. Unless SRK, Saif, Aamir, Hrithik, Shahid and all Bollywood dads get rebranded as dads who are also actors, it is completely fair of this celebrity to be treated as an actor first and mom secondary/
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