today teni outshined shorvori in goodness

Today and from about last 2 or 3 episode I am loving teni and shorvori Amanda and parth
Because they are showing everything close to reality
Their character is very much real to the situation
They all are nice human beings with flaw
Shorvori -shorvori is in her character not too good not bad and selfish which is basic human nature and especially Mather is and should be selfish for their child that shorvori is perfectly and I loved it when she not like other daily soap heroine started to become mahan
Parth -i simply love him because he is very much treating teni rightly the friendship the goodness and trust and honesty which he show for teni I love it I love parth and teni relationship the way they talk and keep secrets and are very much honest
For teni first I want to tell that I am not against surrogacy but I don't love it concept and for me shorvori are only those type of woman who have reduced a girl and woman to a baby producing machine because I strongly feel that there is need to fight with such type of in laws and especially if you have support of your husband and in my view a girl or anyone should think every baby same but the baby which you give birth is not yours or should give birth for hier they should give birth to enjoy the god gifted pregnancy period the feeling of 9 month which is amazing for every woman but the world is not so straight as there are many harmful effects of adoption even surrogacy is just a way to demaean a woman to a baby producing machine but it is fovourable and have more good outcomes then adoption
Anyway leave all those topic as this show is on surrogacy and how everyone deal with it and what everyone face due to it
NOW I WANTTO ENLIGHTEN TENI AND AMAN AS A CHARACTER
Teni- I love her character and especially from last two three episodes they are portraying very much real as it is known from teni- inner mind talks that everyone has always given her deceit her mother and father and after that when she trusted a friend but she also confirmed her thoughts so she is basically a girl who is full of humanity but the society and her relatives has changed her thought and this is the reason not easily trust anyone and she is a girl who survived with all her hardship alone but never done wrong thing she would have done wrong but never done such type of act which would demean her or harm others
And then came shorvori and parth n her life and as money was everything for her she doesn't know the meaning of love so she agreed but when she came into the family she came to know the meaning and parth and shorvori treated her like a baby but she enjoyed the love INSPITE of knowing that the love is for the baby and just she lost in their love but recently she got reality check of many thing and stood on crossroads and she was in deliema money more money baby love and many more we can see how she everytime asking AMAN that you are fooling me because she is very much afraid of any discion any deciet but today again she came to conclusion to keep her words but then Bharat Kumar came and given her a new lesson that money is nothing and love and family is everything and again she will be in dilliema as she is a girl who is searching for happiness in the world of selfish people and people full of deceit
Aman- as I said above there are some disadvantages of adoption like we can see the case of aman although aman is not some adopted kid but he was like that he got all love but there was emptiness somewhere as he said to shorvori and this is faced by every adopted child in a family only parent who adopted them love them or if they have their own child and adopted for humanity then they even ignore and whole family never consider them a part of family and I am loving aman character graph and the pain which he is portraying although he got everything and has everything but there is some emptiness which noone can fill
In my view noone is wrong
FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE SAYING WHO IS TENI TO SHORVORI
ya this is the same thought of every parent who hire surrogate they only consider them a machine which they will use and then whatever happen although in case of shorvori it is not the case she would happily after getting her child will try to give nice life to her and respect her and everyone should do as it's a big sacrifice being a girl or woman noone can understand it better than us that how much it is difficult it is to give a child whom you keep 9 month in your womb although they do such thing for money but they don't know the importance but the person who hire surrogate knows this as she has pain of not carrying a child and more to that they are rich person and educated
Because the woman who are not educatd or middle class I don't see them giving such importance to a child in womb if they would give such importance they would not dare to do abortion after sex test when they have carried baby for 3 or 4 months as I have seen in my house my cousin sisters would have aborted about 3 or 4 time to get a baby boy or my own uncle has aborted 2 baby to get a baby girl
But I am loving character graph of teni and I even love shorvori character graph for the way the character is designed as surrogacy itself is a weak topic s
Sorry if you will think I am teni fan then it's not the case as I am always a neutral fan and what I love and what my opinion I only like to give those
Today teni or teni is outshining shorvori as shorvori has parth by her side who strongly support him although she is showing insecurity and teni who has nothing is trying to come out of her insecurity and taking descion by keeping her words
Although both are good as I love telesoap which portray good character as extra maar kaat or planning plotting to kill somebody is very unreal
Ya in some serial like naamkaran it is somewhat real case
And that's why I am watching naamkaran or ek shringar Swabhiman or dil se dil tak and naagin which isonly a story without logic for me as it not deal with some social issue
Anyway I am loving this show so today I given my introduction post
And aman is not leaving as that diya scene was very symbolic that how he will help i coming the new guest

Could we ever refrain ourselves from comparing one human to the other. This world would have been a better place to live in.

Hi. Welcome to the forum and wonderful analysis about the characters.

Originally posted by: _goofyCat_

Hi. Welcome to the forum and wonderful analysis about the characters.

Yes, the show is about surrogacy and if Parth and Shorvori had decided to adopt a baby instead of going through surrogacy, there would have been no Dil Se Dil Tak😆So there is no point in discussing on that now as you said. Also they have never shown that it was Parth and Shorvori's wish to have biological kid only, it was just the circumstances that they were in, which made them choose surrogacy path. If there was no constant pressure from Indu and fear of getting rejected by the family again, they might have taken their own time to settle from the mishap and might have thought of adopting a baby in future.

Agree with most of your analysis except that Shorvori is among those kind of woman who thinks of woman as a baby producing machine only. She is kinda progressive in her thoughts unlike usual telly bahus, it is just that she is very much like any other married woman with family values who does everything possible to keep the family intact. It was her guilt of separating Parth from his family, that made her desperate for giving that child to the family.

Shorvori is more apersondriven byemotions. She got drivenby Aman's request to prove his love for Teni the other day, while today she is worried for her unborn child and the fact that the secret that they have kept hidden from family is at stake of being exposed through Aman's marriage proposal for Teni. On the other side, Teni is a more practical, straight forward person who is very clear on what she wants in life, at the same time she is very good at heart and can choose between right and wrong. Absolutely agree with you that both of them are very realistic though!!

Coming to Parth and Teni, they had interesting relationship graph. Parth was the one who met Teni first, felt she will be perfect candidate for being a surrogate to his child, was able to create the trust and confidence in Teni that he and his wife will never cheat her like others did. He created a relationship based on trust and goodwill with Teni, and Teni reciprocated the same at every stage. Once Shorvori and Teni developed the similar bond with each other, Parth totally left it to his wife to take care of Teni and the couple's relationship with her further, knowing Shorvori will be the best person to do that. Today he still believes in Teni and his belief that Teni will always keep her promise, and he makes sure to build the same belief in Shorvori from time to time.

You got me wrong dear as I didn't say that shorvori think woman as baby producing machine in real sense I wanted to only say that due to these type of woman their situation that they can't fight with family as that would create tension and wanting to lead to normal life INSPITE of having problem not like to raise voice has reduced woman into baby producing machine
Like for dadaji or other person they have accepted her as she was going to give birth and thus their notion doesn't changed
And I am in total favour of surrogacy as everyone in this world want one child atleaset of their own to know what quality they would acquire how they will be able to take care so surrogacy is boon to couple as i have said i have seen only harmful effects of adoption so after seeing the adopted child condition around me i prefer they are ookay being orphan only because in family theu go through alot although of being getting a parent they go through alot trauma in family and society because their identity is always questioned not by the parent if then then by family or society but surrogate child are never quotioned on that ground
And I am loving all character as they are all good but have human emotions not like other serial completely maahan all have their flaws
Even I like sejal mohini dadu or all other as they are very real as this the truth of society
And now you can see people also have stated to accept character which are real they have also gone from the thought of seeing some patiprata patni whoops only love their sindoor more than themselves

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

You got me wrong dear as I didn't say that shorvori think woman as baby producing machine in real sense I wanted to only say that due to these type of woman their situation that they can't fight with family as that would create tension and wanting to lead to normal life INSPITE of having problem not like to raise voice has reduced woman into baby producing machine
Like for dadaji or other person they have accepted her as she was going to give birth and thus their notion doesn't changed
And I am in total favour of surrogacy as everyone in this world want one child atleaset of their own to know what quality they would acquire how they will be able to take care so surrogacy is boon to couple as i have said i have seen only harmful effects of adoption so after seeing the adopted child condition around me i prefer they are ookay being orphan only because in family theu go through alot although of being getting a parent they go through alot trauma in family and society because their identity is always questioned not by the parent if then then by family or society but surrogate child are never quotioned on that ground
And I am loving all character as they are all good but have human emotions not like other serial completely maahan all have their flaws
Even I like sejal mohini dadu or all other as they are very real as this the truth of society
And now you can see people also have stated to accept character which are real they have also gone from the thought of seeing some patiprata patni whoops only love their sindoor more than themselves

Individual experiences cannot be a yardstick in determining what should be beneficial for the society and people at large.

hope to read more of your post on this forum. its always treat to read pov of neutral fan who write sensibly without attacking other characters.
i like who you replied to what teni' is to shrovori point. because yeah she agreed to surrogacy but that doesn't mean she is denied of other's love for nine months. if anything somehow linked to her life she has every right to be part of decision making related that.

and indeed its good to watch female lead showing human nature instead of mahanta as mother is selfish for her child so i understand shorvori doing- but doesn't mean i like it because i am loving aman-teni as much as parth-shorvori.

and you know you are gem for writing last line as it gives me hope for aman not leaving show. i was sad after reading about his leave.