Overreaction Much....

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Posted: 8 years ago
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*Fary wears her protective gear before Typing anything Further. I don't want to hurt anyone's sentiments with this Post But


Why so Much Overreaction from the otherwise Understanding and samjhdar Anika esp when Shivaay did not even say anything in the context she took it in. Infact he was quite Calm when he discussed the NKK thing with his brothers and without demeaning her in anyway just said that he wants to know about her Bg? Isme kia galat hai?

He didn't say ke yeh sab info ke baad hi he will come to a decision nope that he is firm at and he told her ke yeh sach koi nahi badal sakta ke she is his wife like mins ago toh itna hyper hone ki kya zaroorat thi anika and he kept saying he can explain but nah yeh andhi toofan ki tarah bhaag gayi ( happy ke no planning of fake acting was involved in this )

it is a normal thing to know about your wife just basic details since looks like she never tried to ask the questions herself and was content with just anika so kya hai if he is going to go to orphanage and wants to know basic info .for all you know anika might need it tomorrow for one thing or other . Her anger would've made sense if he was ranking NKK above what they share but no he didn't and that is where it makes all the difference. Still she faltu main accused him at the end before her rudaali act ke he is giving preference to NKK over her Behan Kisne kaha tujhe yeh? Kyonki shivaay ne jo bola ya jo kia ya jaiseemote kia mujhe toh nahi laga aisa kisi bhi angle se .

I really feel anika needs to understand here ke he has accepted her as his biwi wholeheartedly without her NKK even if he doesn't end up finding anything he is cool but agar kuch info mil Gaya toh it will just make things better kyonki kal phir koi usse taunt nahi kar payega regarding this so he is not trying to dig into it caz his heart is unable to accept her but as an added bonus he is doing that besides it is zaroori for him to give it a try as NKK Still defines him he can make an exception but cannot give up just like that and fair enough .

Today she behaved like a bacha jo zid par adh gaya hai ke bas ab NKK disappear ho jaye and which is so unlike anika. In the past he has done far worse things and said so muchshit to her and she has reacted quite normally then aaj aadhi baat sunke itna full fledge ansoo bahana kis liye?

Today int eh last scene i really didn't get her crying caz i couldn't make out what was the actual reason for her being so extra and then haar gayi dialogue was so W*F as i mentioned above behan kab usne NKK ko tujhse uppar rakha hai tujhe khwab main hi dikha hoga kyonki aisa toh hai nahi.


these were the questions going in my head seeing her rona at the end before she started her story telling kis baat ke liye ro rahi thi ? Is liye ke NKK nahi hai? Is liye ke shivaay wants to know about her bg? Is liye ke he isn't letting go of his NKK ?is liye ke he accepted her despite her not having NKK ? Bhai samasya kya hai tumhari ?*babu bhai style*


While her crying and breaking down yesterday made sense and made me feel terrible for her too caz she was hanging in mid air not knowing where she stands today it didn't come across as sad at all and just zid. Caz ab Kia problem hai he cleared his stand toh kyon itna nautanki? he came and brought you back now what?sure tell him your experience that is more than welcome but roye bina bhi ho sakta hai yeh .

I just wished shivaay called her out on her Rona and mujhe ek dum woh hospital ke baad wala scene yaad aa Gaya where she was also crying way too much and he yelled at her for crying so much I wish he did today too ke rone ki zaroorat nahi hai


aaj isme kasam se mahi ki aatma ghuss gayi thi and that is not good news TBH

and if that was not enough the editing was so choppy made understanding anything even worse.

I know I am asking for too much but I wouldn't mind continuation of today's scene tomorrow where he actually says sorry or just thinks about the shit he said to her once upon a time and feels bad .not that he wasn't feeling bad today listening to her tear jerking story he was sad and quiet and just letting her be while he held her but still I would like the continuation joke milega nahi I am 1000%sure about it.


but visually the scene was Stunning and I loved it.

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LordLuminous thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think Annika was expressing her emotions to Shivaay. She was explaining her point of view and how tough it's been for her, and how she hated herself because she found someone who loves her for who she is, and she doesn't want to lose that person.

So, basically, abandonment issues? That's probably why she was crying in the last few minutes of the episode. I mean, as much as we love khidkitod, tadibaaz Annika, we have to acknowledge a weak Annika exists. I'd be weird if Annika wasn't affected by her past after claiming she had hardships, right? Everyone has their weakness that leave them powerless. This is Annika's.

But that's just my perspective.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Trps ke liye baby! Samjha karo 😉

Also in the last scene when she started howling, I was like ok bas karo baba! When she started explaining it was much more bearable
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Posted: 8 years ago
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My thoughts exactly. I didn't get it at all.
The tears and her dialogues seemed so misplaced and over-the-top. For a character that endured so much it seems odd to see her breaking down over literally nothing. The weird part is that he didn't even say anything to warrant her reaction. He said and did so much worse to her which got no response. The writers are taking the whole "love makes you weak" way too seriously.

If it was for TRPs then he would have had a harder time finding her and she wouldn't be back the next day 😆 There was absolutely no point to this entire episode. There was absolutely no build-up (that made sense) and she was back the next morning only to start crying over god knows what. There is never any logic and I wasn't expecting any, but it was more random than usual.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Watching it a second time I still think she overreacted. The writers were trying to bring her insecurities to the foreground, but the execution was bad as usual.
And also sad FL= TRPs 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oh my god! Word on all the points there!

See, I liked the episode overall... I mean we all know how bad some episodes can be... so I guess this is gold in comparison... but I still prefer yesterday's to today's...it was way more poignant story-wise!


The confusing parts:

1. Why the hell is Annika crying so much? (First walahug time it was all good...in fact I kind of empathised with all her insecurities being rushed and overwhelming her but second part when she cried so loudly... I was like - Hain? 😕😕) And she decided to leave NOW? 😕
SSO has done WAAY worse after her love realisation! Remember Sahil/thief before Lohri? She cried so much then but not really left the house?


2. O Bro's in the kitchen and they didn't have an O Bro moment? 😲😆
Jokes aside, I just felt something was off with their chemistry then... all serious is okay obviously but I was sort of waiting for Om to say something really wise (sirf iske liye they brought him from the DBO set? Like not for one random shot in HIS sister's wedding but for this? 😆)

- not that I mind..actually it would have been a little weird for ShivRu to talk about this so maturely (I guess 😕) but gaaah...this whole SSO 2 version that they are forcing upon Om's character is seriously off putting...


3. Putting aside the fact that Shivaay looks gorgeous in pink there, what was the actual point of the honking? He wanted to annoy her? 😕😆




The obvious goods:

1. SSO looks dreamy in pink ❤️😳
2. Shivaay - Sahil scene was adorable... hahahaha to Sahil making SSO put aiside his tadi so easily 😆
3. The hug looked natural... though the angles got me a little confused though...randomly their height shifts in hugs? 😕😆 Anyway, SC's expressions there were literally too beautiful!
4. Oh I totally loved it when SSO literally picked her up at Chanda's house - that really was cute!!! 😳😳
5. The way Shivaay held Annika at the end of the episode... thee was a lot of emotions there... I thought I saw real pain and maybe some guilt over what she had already had to go through in life...
I never thought I would say this but Shivaay really can be #husbandgoals sometimes 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bahut sochne ke baad I have concluded that Anika felt a tantrum was long overdue, so just went with it🤣...you can call it a delayed reaction, a sudden compilation of all previous humiliations with interest and she decided it's about time she throws a fit for the purpose of paisa vasooling...lol

It is a kind of hilarious irony that all this time she has brushed off all the other humiliations she's received along the way and until yesterday was quite chill with the status quo but all of a sudden when confronted with the NKK issue, is making wild extrapolations, presumptions and is so wildly insecure about her place in Shivaay's life no matter what he says or does...lol on one hand, she openly and confidently declares that her life is his life and on the other end, she almost desperately wants him to keep reassuring her that she still has the label of being his wife...it's kinda sad what a sorry figure they've made of her in the name of love.


Anyways yes, the visuals were nice😆





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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LordLuminous

I think Annika was expressing her emotions to Shivaay. She was explaining her point of view and how tough it's been for her, and how she hated herself because she found someone who loves her for who she is, and she doesn't want to lose that person.


So, basically, abandonment issues? That's probably why she was crying in the last few minutes of the episode. I mean, as much as we love khidkitod, tadibaaz Annika, we have to acknowledge a weak Annika exists. I'd be weird if Annika wasn't affected by her past after claiming she had hardships, right? Everyone has their weakness that leave them powerless. This is Annika's.

But that's just my perspective.


Emotions express karna is fine and i am okay with her telling him her hardships infact i wanted such kind of scene and liked it too but bhai usse pehle that harna dialogue and legs main sar de ke phoot phoot ke rona is beyond my understanding & Shivaay ko lose karne ka sawal kahan se aaya ??He had made is darn clear ke he isn't leaving her NO matter what. Tum meri Biwi ho aur yehi Sach hai tum aur kuch mat socho were his words . agar usko chodna hota toh itna assurance kyon deta and if that wasn't enough for her than why the hell would he go crazy to get her back and then get mad at her for leaving him. Yahan pe agar kisi ko kisi ko lose karne ka fear hai toh shivaay ko zyada hai.

it's even more weird keeping in mind that This is the Anika who told sahil last thursday ke she knows he will leave her the day he finds out about her orphanage truth so she was mentally prepared for that beforehand But then reality main sab opposite hua toh jhel na paayi aur ainvayi hi rone lag padi 😆😆

abandonment issues is fine but uske liye reason bhi toh hona chahiye na i would've understood it if he didn't cleared his stand but he did. as i said yesterday when she felt that it made sense but him coming back assuring her ke aisa nahi hoga uske baad it's not making sense to me personally. & phir usse bhi zyada chawl se waapis aane ke baad bhi abandonment issue plz who are we kidding here

she has talked about her past to him before too dropped hints at him and very emotional stories emotional bhi hui hai recount karte hue but itna bhan bhan mode main jamta nahi hai. and the scene did got better from there where she controlled her crying and started telling him the bachpan ka story usse pehle ka wailing is pointless






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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NYCForever

Trps ke liye baby! Samjha karo 😉 Trp's aayein na aayein loyal viewers zaroor bhaag jayeinge

Also in the last scene when she started howling, I was like ok bas karo baba! When she started explaining it was much more bearable


i know and SC is usually very very convincing in crying scenes but aaj she was so off probably she was also going W*F in her head and iska rona dekh dekh ke mujhe headache ho gaya and i felt suffocated you know the feeling after you cry a lot sirf dekhne se it was too much . agree when she started telling him about her hardships it became better and i really really hope the point in that is him recalling stuff he has said to her caz asking for forgiveness is too much for them aur milega nahi but at least show him recalling it and feeling terrible about it. chota nahi ho jayega Shivaay ek sorry bolne se
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yellomellow

My thoughts exactly. I didn't get it at all.

The tears and her dialogues seemed so misplaced and over-the-top. For a character that endured so much it seems odd to see her breaking down over literally nothing. The weird part is that he didn't even say anything to warrant her reaction. He said and did so much worse to her which got no response. The writers are taking the whole "love makes you weak" way too seriously. i even get it loves makes you weak but itna rotlu and tantrum throwing No. Anika might be weak in love in pyar but yeh zid kahan se aayi ke NKK ko bhool jao bas keep calling me your biwi 2 billion times in a day . her last dialogue about not being able to fight shivaay kinda made it obvious that she is weak in love but phir woh toh without crying bhi keh sakti thi na. & that is the point she has gone through so much and worse than this i mean this was the girl who he manhandled badly during the shaadi still she had the guts to run away and not indulge into this level of rona dhona royi toh tab bhi thi but is level pe nahi. how is him saying i wanna know about my biwi ka Bg worse than him calling her footpath pe rehne wale/ sadak ka kooda/ ganda khoon etc etc etc. tab toh she gave very mild reactions and that was the real Anika. aaj toh koi Mahi hybrid this zamane ki satayi hui( in her mind) when really she wasn't caz he did NOTHING to get that reaction

If it was for TRPs then he would have had a harder time finding her and she wouldn't be back the next day 😆 There was absolutely no point to this entire episode. There was absolutely no build-up (that made sense) and she was back the next morning only to start crying over god knows what. There is never any logic and I wasn't expecting any, but it was more random than usual.



i wouldn't call the entire episode pointless caz he showed his conflict took a decision and is sticking to it but from her POV yeah very very pointless

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