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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shradha I agree with almost everything u have said... I love Annika... Yes shivika is love... But It's annika I love... If not for shivika I wudnt give a damn about Shivaay though he now gives husband goals only for reason that Shivaay takes everything for granted... He has always got what he wants... Remember the ganapati Visarjan episode... Shivaay questioned bappa that we did everything yet u dint keep ur part of deal... Shivaay truly believes just coz he is an Oberoi even God must give him that benefit... Anika told him then that from where God sees all r equal to him... God doesn't differentiate... Yet we see Shivaay has prejudices...
Annika has always had a hard life...

Well the treatment they r giving to Annika is very understandable... Coz story is from oberoi family poverty... Think about it... When something happens in our house we r worried but when something similar happens in our domestic help /driver etc family we chuckle that Oh OK.. U will take a leave... First thing we think is now how will we manage our work... First thing isn't empathy... That's how most ppl behave... How many of us give a holiday to our domestic help on women's day? While we expect our family n offices to give us something nice... We differentiate... All of us do... SSO Only speaks about what we all do... There is a very very very large class difference between Annika and Oberois... So even after Shivaay forcefully married her... They like all extremely filthy rich ppl think it is ok coz she is from a very low strata of society... Use paise denge toh sab theek ho jayega... Anyway She wud b in need of it... That's the attitude... So even now when Shivaay has accepted her as wife... Somewhr That extreme class diff pays a role... I know lot of families whr this happens in real... A girl who was working as a nanny to my child got married to someone who was working in an office...this was a rishta thru matrimonial n the guy knew everything about her before marriage... But Post marriage she isn't even allowed to sit on sofa... Or bed.. She is treated worse than what u wud treat a dirty begged who comes home... She is made to sit in floor n is all the time taunted that tu kaamwali hai u don't deserve to sit on sofa or bed...u See Shivaay too had said something similar to Annika once.. That she is an employee... Maalik ke saath nahi baithte... That's The attitude... Even after the girl has done more than enuf for him n family... She is still a low class girl who is married into the family... Do u think if Shivaay knew bout her being an orphan wud he hv married her or wud his parents hv let him marry her? Answer is no no no... So yes legally she is his wife now but is she the wanted bahu or wanted wife which Shivaay had planned? Nahi... So She will always get that treatment... Till Shivaay accepts that he loves her n can't live without her this is how she is going to be treated. With Om he lives his brother from childhood... N Love for 28/30 yrs for ur sibling can't be equated to a live for an orphan girl who came in ur life just 6 months ago... Ur ideologies can change easily for ur siblings hut jot for an outsider... Annika Is still that outsider... If mahi truly is his twin n both of them r Oberois... It will b Shivaay's test... NKK In that sense will go off in a whiff coz finally Mahi is oberoi khoon... His lineage will be known... Shivaay may ko hv emotional connect with him but Mahi will b all that his blood lineage rant talks about...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

Shradha I agree with almost everything u have said... I love Annika... Yes shivika is love... But It's annika I love... If not for shivika I wudnt give a damn about Shivaay though he now gives husband goals only for reason that Shivaay takes everything for granted... He has always got what he wants... Remember the ganapati Visarjan episode... Shivaay questioned bappa that we did everything yet u dint keep ur part of deal... Shivaay truly believes just coz he is an Oberoi even God must give him that benefit... Anika told him then that from where God sees all r equal to him... God doesn't differentiate... Yet we see Shivaay has prejudices...

Annika has always had a hard life...

Well the treatment they r giving to Annika is very understandable... Coz story is from oberoi family poverty... Think about it... When something happens in our house we r worried but when something similar happens in our domestic help /driver etc family we chuckle that Oh OK.. U will take a leave... First thing we think is now how will we manage our work... First thing isn't empathy... That's how most ppl behave... How many of us give a holiday to our domestic help on women's day? While we expect our family n offices to give us something nice... We differentiate... All of us do... SSO Only speaks about what we all do... There is a very very very large class difference between Annika and Oberois... So even after Shivaay forcefully married her... They like all extremely filthy rich ppl think it is ok coz she is from a very low strata of society... Use paise denge toh sab theek ho jayega... Anyway She wud b in need of it... That's the attitude... So even now when Shivaay has accepted her as wife... Somewhr That extreme class diff pays a role... I know lot of families whr this happens in real... A girl who was working as a nanny to my child got married to someone who was working in an office...this was a rishta thru matrimonial n the guy knew everything about her before marriage... But Post marriage she isn't even allowed to sit on sofa... Or bed.. She is treated worse than what u wud treat a dirty begged who comes home... She is made to sit in floor n is all the time taunted that tu kaamwali hai u don't deserve to sit on sofa or bed...u See Shivaay too had said something similar to Annika once.. That she is an employee... Maalik ke saath nahi baithte... That's The attitude... Even after the girl has done more than enuf for him n family... She is still a low class girl who is married into the family... Do u think if Shivaay knew bout her being an orphan wud he hv married her or wud his parents hv let him marry her? Answer is no no no... So yes legally she is his wife now but is she the wanted bahu or wanted wife which Shivaay had planned? Nahi... So She will always get that treatment... Till Shivaay accepts that he loves her n can't live without her this is how she is going to be treated. With Om he lives his brother from childhood... N Love for 28/30 yrs for ur sibling can't be equated to a live for an orphan girl who came in ur life just 6 months ago... Ur ideologies can change easily for ur siblings hut jot for an outsider... Annika Is still that outsider... If mahi truly is his twin n both of them r Oberois... It will b Shivaay's test... NKK In that sense will go off in a whiff coz finally Mahi is oberoi khoon... His lineage will be known... Shivaay may ko hv emotional connect with him but Mahi will b all that his blood lineage rant talks about...


Wow never thought about it from this perspective . Yes i agree we do differentiate intentionally , unintentionally , giving importance to our family and loved ones. But here i am unhappy with how annika's dreams , aspirations , hurt , emotions are trivialized to an extent where it is not shown to us . Her character deserves equal importance . We love annika for her bindaas attitude, her nonchalance to the oberoi khandaan , her pride , her strength . She has so many layers to herself . She is this scared little girl inside that still harbours deep fears with hard metal outside . I would be happy if the cv's could reveal her nature layer by layer giving us a glimpse of her beautiful soul . There were so many things that were swooshed over . I want shivaay to understand her and her grief himself .. I am okay if it takes time .. But i dont want him to be forced to be accepting her just coz she is his wife and he has no options . Annika doesnt deserve this . What really keeps me hooked on to the show is the hope that eventually annika will find happiness . The hope that she will and can be loved unconditionally for who she is . Yes shivaay is trying .. But i always see him struggling ( okay i get it lol thats his character sketch !)) oh my gawwwddd its all too confusing and like i said too hard to choose . But deep down i want annika to get a chance to choose , and decide . Nobody nas ever asked her what she wants . She has always been the one sacrificing . And that is something very hard for me to take down my throat #feminist 😆

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