Teni's character needs some growth - Page 3

Originally posted by: NatalyMusketeer

My dear Buddy, I'm mature enough and I have enough life experience to be able to differentiate between liking for an actor/actress and genuine opinions about a character but nevertheless, thank you for your assessment...😊
Secondly, I like Teni's character and not only for me but for many Teni's fans it's not easy to read the comments like "this Teni crap" etc... besides, I've wrote nowhere that it's wrong to request for more PaRi scenes... I only shared my impression just as all of you have done it here or on Twitter and that's all but as it seems, with my impression I've hit a sore point among PaRi's fans... and the third and last, now you know how Teni fans have felt by reading comments about "this crap Teni"...

Originally posted by: Shambavishivam

The show has always been about 3 character..parth shorvari and teni
And people watch the show not only for teni but also for the other two characters as well..i only watch for PaRi...or siddharth and rashmi to be more specific
Unfortunately from the past one month the other two characters are being sidelined majorly and its like teni is the ultimate messaih for all their troubles..which many PaRi fans arent liking...PaRi had a life before as well..before Teni entered
Moreover as much as we enjoyed teni's character initially..we are beginning to get annoyed with her character..her extreme lack of maturity which doesnt seem to be improving at all is annoying..i dont blame the character..its completely the writer's fault
Yesterday's episode was like the limit for PaRi fans because we oly got a scene for 3 minutes..after which we had nothing to watch
What is more annoying is the unwanted scenes where they deliberately make parth and teni spend some time for wat ever reason ...
With the entry of 4th guy..i am sure now tat the lead couple will be taking the back seat and the story will be only focused on teni and the new guy..which we already saw yesterday...
So if we demnad more of PaRi scenes to the show makers i dont see anything wrong
I have seen people asking for parth teni scenes alone..why should parth spend time with teni alone?if they wantnto show dilchasp rishta let it be with all the three..not with the father and the surrogate mother alone...PaTe as a couple can never be accepted..PaRi are a couple..and if we fans demand PaRi scenes i dont see anything wrong in that
For me..sid and jasmin look like siblings more..and from the story perspective i would hate any rishta apart from the one that shud exist between surrogate mother-father or anything beyond friendship

Originally posted by: _goofyCat_

@bold, maybe that's what she needs to realize.. That the favor is from both sides. Not just from her side. From my perspective, welcoming her to stay in the house is a favor in itself.. The way she barged into the house was kind of intruding, and they could have easily denied her to stay in the house, they could have arranged shelter for her somewhere else (like a hostel), but they were considerate towards her. And all this is considering that they are unaware of the favor that she is doing on them, for them she is just sister of their daughter-in-law.

So far the family has been tolerating her tactics like sleeping on the table, washing clothes in the fountain, bringing in the cow dung inside the house, eating from the plate which was supposed to be for Srinathji.. Neither the strict patriarch of the family nor the elderly women of the house were really harsh on her on those occasions (barring Poyni and Sejal who anyways always have evil intentions). But I don't remember any occasion when Teni went out of the way and mended her lifestyle for adjusting in the house where she is staying in.. Maybe for her that doesn't matter at all. But then that is the change I want to see in her.. And for that she doesn't need to change her nature and become meek or docile.. She just needs to learn about little adjustments, she needs to learn about family values, which will help her survive in her future life too.

I am not saying Bhanushali family's beliefs are perfectly right, but they at least showed some signs of improvement, they were apologetic for their mistakes. But that is not the case with Teni, she comes across as dominating in few occasions. And its not that she didn't learn anything in the past, her perspective towards Parth-Shorvori's problem changed gradually and beautifully during the insemination track.. But something had drastically gone wrong after that.. Things aren't progressing as expected and it has become repetitive..

Ufff.. Too long post 😆

Originally posted by: adi_FMT_ct

Yeahhh too longgg post.😆

Well said Reshmi but my prospective about Bhanushali Family little diffrers from you.

May be the reason behind it still now any of Family members reaction towards Teni don't impress me like PaRi also i just loveee the charecter Teni but about the Bhanushali Members (Except PaRi)i doubt.

I can't love ever those Family or can't see their good approach towards a unknown girl(This approach also for Shorvori rather say for the child as per my view;omce they face the Truth they don't think twice to throw out the Trio from the house,from the relation;And it's so evident in PaRi's doings;they could't share their terrible situations to any family members in that time speially when Duo need them soo much) who give respect to their DIL for sake of their next generation.

Originally posted by: snowflakes2119

The orthodox Bhanushali could accept grandson and his wife only for she was carrying the heir of the family in her womb . He had lost no time in banishing his grandson and grand daughter in law to a distant land earlier . He was definitely not going to accept Teni's behaviour as he felt it was affecting his social reputation and it would have been a tall order to expect anything other than this for him, However , he was obliged to Teni as she had saved his life . The women in the family had gone cynical to the relationship between Parth and Teni . They had also brought this to his notice. Considering these developments,Dadaji decided to get a Bridegroom for Teni and marry her off.

All relationships are not unconditional and there are strings attached to them. The relationships are maintained when " conditions apply" are adhered to. The goodness of Parth is visible to everyone and Shourvari is also a storehouse of such virtues. However, the goodness of Teni can be appreciated only by those who have the capability to sieve the same. PaRi have those skills and that is why they are able to treat her not only as a surrogate but also a good human being