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Posted: 8 years ago
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This not any actors bashing post . This is just my anger towards how yhm CVS have shown my state (Haryana ) in such a stupid light . There are so many wrong things that itake me angry . But I guess one or other show do the same ..Thy just assassin a culture ,people ,state etc to suit their story line and raise trps .

So here are things I just hate I'm current track of Adobe in thm.

1. live in relationship - yes like all the other village in other states my village people also don't like this concept of living without marriage but quite contrary to what is shown in the show my people don't barge in unknown people houses and put them on gun point And hurt them.phycialy especially girls. Our brothers would never drag a girl like that.

We don't care about people with whom we have no relationship so that sudden attack on them.in just few hours of being their shows my state in such a bad light. If it has been their village girl or someone in their relation have done that than yes they have barged in and certainly would hurt the guy .But with strangers no sorry but we have other things to do too.


2.Kill my brother in-law and I will get you married to my sister 😆 this the lamest thing I have seen (though I don't say that more lamest thing has not happened in Indian TV they have).

What a Haryanvi would have done in such situation ?

Have beaten adi black and blue put him in jail or I even admit. If they would have been very angry and strong hearted my ppl would have killed him . 🤢

What a Haryanvi would not have done in a million years ?

Get adi married to their sister . 😡 no never NADA. Quite contrary again we don't get our sister he married to criminal especially someone who have killed and hurted our own .
We love our ppl so much that If village A get in fight with Village B. Even all their allies don't talk to eachother. We are fiercely loyal and protective people.

I know the sex ratio in my state is not so good but it is increasing Bt again quite contrary to other views .Girls are protected and cherished more than boys on our state . So getting girl.marries to a unknown man and le
Sending her alone with him to unknown city -sorry bit it can't happen in million years. ( I am voching for all the local cast like Jaat ,ror Maratha,Brahmins,Jat Sikh ,harijans, except Khatri Punjabi coz I don't have much knowledge about them)

After Bidaai of bride two or three brothers goes with her to her in laws in the same car as hers and make sure she is settled all right and next day brings her home for peg phera. So you see even in a marriage of consent where everything is normal such precautions are taken . So in this case where they practically got her married to a stranger ,they won't leave her alone .

3.Such a docile Haryanvi girl that too of Jaat - sorry but no . Maybe CV need to travel in Haryana roadways and see how girls take care of themselves and how they can make you cry but seldom cry and be docile .



Especially a girl that belongs to a village in Hissar - na re bhai na! Phela chanta to open hi jadti adi k . They are so strong than you can imagine .They are "kartar" she would have never married to some unknown man like that even if her family would have going al force which has 0% chance.

Than again it is a show and CV write all type of crap for trps.

Ps- the Haryanvi accent is barely there . They got it confused with Rajasthani accent . Sorry but we are straight forward people who talk straight forward. With no 'app or 'japp'.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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nicely explained dear
i don't know much about Haryana so thanks for telling us this
sorry to say but CVS have actually shown many things in a bad light
from the law to a noble profession like medicine everything is corrupt according to them
and i don't think any family would ever get their daughter married to a supposed criminal specially if that person hurt someone from their own
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with you. Nowadays tv ppl have only one topic to picture that is Haryana. Many serials are airing which are based on Haryana backdrop but they failed to picturzied real Haryana n showing it in a bad light. Which is very wrong. In YHM they showed it like Haryana is a place of goons n it's not safe for travel. They hv showed hissar n this city is a education hub not a goon paradise. In today's time no one from Haryana treat their daughters like they hv shown . What they have shown is completely wrong. I mean who the hell get their own daughter married to a stranger n send her with him without any family member . Kya guarantee tho un logo k pass ki adi use safely le jayega n happily accept her. This is bizarre...yaha Haryana me to aisa nahi hota h. N the language the girl was speaking wasn't haryanavi accent from any angle. She was speaking some mix language ...don't know...strange..
Ajkal to village girl bhi shadi k mandap se uth k chali jati h if she finds something fishy in wedding. So whatever they hv shown is completely nonsense. Waise bhi serials wale sensible show hi kab karte h.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: DikshaN

nicely explained dear
i don't know much about Haryana so thanks for telling us this
sorry to say but CVS have actually shown many things in a bad light
from the law to a noble profession like medicine everything is corrupt according to them
and i don't think any family would ever get their daughter married to a supposed criminal specially if that person hurt someone from their own

this is so wrong and make me so angry . CVS should do their research or instead of putting a real city or state make a fake one atleast that would make me less angry.
No one get their daughter marriied to a total stranger and leave her alone to survive .
All the TV dramas do one or the other thing that is so stupid and put a state in a bad light
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi
You know what this is not new they have killed the culture and heritage right from the starting of the show.

I speak Tamil so the Tamil amma and Ishita speak they are better of not speaking. The supposed tamil wedding they showed was not even a Tamil wedding they mixed both Kerala and Telugu wedding into it and the funny part was not even one scene which showed a Tamilian wedding

You know the worst part of this show they take such sensitive issues and always mock the victims of those issues be it infertility, marriage, love ,custody, law and order, suicide, infidelity, surrogacy, acid attack, murder, rape or abuse.

So don't feel bad about the way they are showing your state because if they show it like that then your state would be definitely opposite of that.




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Serenity_me

Agree with you. Nowadays tv ppl have only one topic to picture that is Haryana. Many serials are airing which are based on Haryana backdrop but they failed to picturzied real Haryana n showing it in a bad light. Which is very wrong. In YHM they showed it like Haryana is a place of goons n it's not safe for travel. They hv showed hissar n this city is a education hub not a goon paradise. In today's time no one from Haryana treat their daughters like they hv shown . What they have shown is completely wrong. I mean who the hell get their own daughter married to a stranger n send her with him without any family member . Kya guarantee tho un logo k pass ki adi use safely le jayega n happily accept her. This is bizarre...yaha Haryana me to aisa nahi hota h. N the language the girl was speaking wasn't haryanavi accent from any angle. She was speaking some mix language ...don't know...strange..
Ajkal to village girl bhi shadi k mandap se uth k chali jati h if she finds something fishy in wedding. So whatever they hv shown is completely nonsense. Waise bhi serials wale sensible show hi kab karte h.


Ya I agree .
Bado bahu -where even young bhus wear Daman (which nothing looks like Daman) and present somes nonesense. Sorry but we stopped wearing Daman long time ago . We wear suit,salwar,jeans,tops etc daman is wore by her grandmothers but even they don't wear itany more stop confusing wth Rajasthan.

Ya seriously. There is not 1% truth in them ,just put Haryana name and show whatever the hell you want.
That what I hate too they pictured as if you people just kill you for entering Haryana .
My brother studies in Hissar and it's a big city and village surrounding it are quite developed . CVS might have forgotten but it is the place of Shashi Malik,Saniya neghwal and many such girls who are doing nation pride. It's a place where 90% of girls participate in sports. Where they fight in shorts and all. Sorry but Haryana is more developed than
Cvs thinking ,they must be living some thousand years back.

Sachi me ,what is that accent ?? I know we have many variations of haryanvi but it was none close to any of them. I know how people of Hissar speak and it is clearly not how the actors are speaking
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Ya getting married their daughter to suppose to criminal. No sorry but we don't do it neither any one from anyother state would do. Do CVS meant to show that we don't care about our daughters and just marry tem off any lalo. Punjiu Mohit they are wrong .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I'm so sorry to hear how poorly they have portrayed your people, but thank you for posting this. It is such a shame that entertainment lives on these shallow, stereotypical portrayals of various communities. I'm happy that you've voiced your concern and taught us something today!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-

I'm so sorry to hear how poorly they have portrayed your people, but thank you for posting this. It is such a shame that entertainment lives on these shallow, stereotypical portrayals of various communities. I'm happy that you've voiced your concern and taught us something today!

thank you so much. TV ppl need to get responsible for their actions. Because it is just not in India but show is being watched internationally so such a picture not only a state but our country is being projected

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