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That is our Abhi babu.
Nadz, I watched against my better judgement and your advice and paying for it.
Abhi is not any of those things he called himself yesterday, moral, ethical, principled and practical. He proved that he is inhumane too today by talking in the way he did with Pragya, the love of his life.
Not once did I see any concern or compassion in him about how Pragya will fare after breaking this news to her or how he will live out his life without love. His concerns are : I misplaced my wedding dress, I wish Pragya is here to find me my dress, she knows where I keep my things better than I do.
And what do you tell the "love of your life when you are meeting for the last time"? Without you who will bring me coffee, who will find my things, who will fight with me, how will I wake up without you, how will I pass my time, how will I make my music more soulful, who will inspire me to make my music, how will l learn to live without love. But we can't meet anymore after the wedding, can't work with you, can't see your face, can't have any more attachment with you, can't love you after my marriage? So what the hell was he talking and reassuring her about " loving her for the rest of his life "? How will I love the ... if you keep showing up after my wedding? Is there anything more insensitive than this for a guy to say to a hurting loved one? I understand that in a real life situation, staying away is healthy, but where is the compassion? Does he have to do this to her face in this pernicious way and rub it in as to how he plans to lead his life and how he plans to love the š¤¬? Can we do this to anybody, let alone to the love of your life? š”
Most laughable is the fact that " daadi told him that a marriage has to have a lot of trust in it, as the girl trusts you and comes to you as a wife and so he should give his 150% to that relationship". Really dude, when did your stupid daadi enlighten you with this information? Was it after or before your ML? Must be after, because we haven't seen this before ML. This, from a guy who didn't care a hoot about marrying a girl, wanting to shame and defame her, continue to have an EM affair, flaunt the GF in the face of his wife and then to throw her out of the house. I know I shouldn't bring up the revenge marriage deal and I should see this new Abhi as a new person, but I can't.
I hate how they are showing Abhi as the most rightful, noble, sincere soul trying to do the right thing by his hone wali...š”. Are we all supposed to forget how he was till now and then jump on this bandwagon of nobility and hypocrisy? Are we supposed to feel bad for this guy? Or is it just to show us that if indeed that hateful bride swap does happen, then his ethics, principles, morals will all go for a toss and then start with a " hateful marriage" ?
And he acts surprised that she shut herself up. What did you expect dude? I guess a hug, a pat on his back and a understanding smile from her. This guy knows how to kill her spirit. He wants her to come out as he doesn't have time. He wants to unload on her, seek closure for himself, so he can begin his journey with his ... on to greener pastures. Never once, did he ask how she is doing, how she felt, offer help or understanding of her pain. Heck, she has all the time in the world to cry, but he doesn't, he only has few hours before his wedding, and then onto his new life , shutting his mind and heart to everything elseš¤¢šš¼š.
More than what the villains did or said, I thoroughly detested the inhumane, selfish , torturous, cruel, noxious, malignant way Abhi dealt with and divested off Pragya todayš¤¢š
In short, he was all about his physical needs, emotional needs, his feelings, his hurt, his future life, his music, possible complications in his future rishta etc., etc,. etc...
Me, moi, mua and more of me... ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING.
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