Giving opinion=judging...?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Most recent (and incessant) bashing posts (about Manyasa) force this question:
When we give an opinion about Manyasa, does that not become a judgement, particularly when it's negative? ('childish', 'confusing', 'fooling viewers', 'only for publicity', ...) And, then, does such a judgement not become an intrusion into their personal lives?!?

This is my take:
1. I think we should not say ANYTHING about the personal lives of Manish and Jigyasa. As fans we may follow them ardently; after all, that's what fans are for...
(And the cbeye bits gave us some very cute stuff about them)-

BUT -

We really do NOT know what's going on in detail. We just get snippets here and there, stupid hearsay, contradictions, unsubstantiated inferences, blablabla.

I think we should respect their privacy to the utmost. As we would safeguard ours.
Remember how insatiable paparazzi cost Princess
Diana her life?
It's THEIR life, let them be. And just wish them well, wherever they are, whatever they may wish to do. That's what REAL fans are for...

2. Besides, if I understand Forum rules correctly, we're to refrain from such expressions in any case. But some ignore that, so blatantly... 🤢

Mind you, this is not about Thahaan, who are 'just' reel folk. We can chew their makers alive if need be - when they bash up our beloved jodi, when they mess up their lives (again, and again, and a...), or when they make us suffer for not showing their magical chemistry...🤬

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Discussing things on forum between friends and making naughty conclusion is fine as it does not harm or affect any one but posting same conclusions on those celebs pages and using the same info to bash them as per our own choice is not at all okay.

I have seen some so called fans bashing the two for clicking pics with other ppl or wat was in their past though they had no right to do so. They write nasty stuff and if blocked then complain abt it. I feel pity for such ppl with such narrow minds.

Any way totally agree with wat u said. And I also feel that we shd not comment on their personal lives and let the two live in peace.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kar_Nan

Discussing things on forum between friends and making naughty conclusion is fine as it does not harm or affect any one but posting same conclusions on those celebs pages and using the same info to bash them as per our own choice is not at all okay.

I have seen some so called fans bashing the two for clicking pics with other ppl or wat was in their past though they had no right to do so. They write nasty stuff and if blocked then complain abt it. I feel pity for such ppl with such narrow minds.

Any way totally agree with wat u said. And I also feel that we shd not comment on their personal lives and let the two live in peace.


Thanks, my dear. And I also totally agree with the way you put it.
Posted: 8 years ago
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Affecting actors on a public platform, where everyone gets pissed off is the worst part 😕 You are right, it's their life & everyone should let them be that way. They argue, patch up, avoid each other. So what? We all are humans & even we might act silly, isn't it?
But you know why they are bashed that way? The two brings their issues forefront & fans however finds a way to point fingers (Instagram obviously). We are healthily talking about it here but the fire doesn't get extinguished there...
Fortunately or unfortunately now that they are celebs, they do know right they're being noticed? That's where everything goes wrong..
My idea is let's discuss whatever we want here for fun & we can't shut others right? They'll get a taste of their own medicine 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Superb post Granzz...i totally agree with you. These few psycho so called fans on insta...they behave as if they own them. I know they are actors, they are public figures...but does that change the fact that they are also human beings like us...even they have feelings and emotions...they have every right to fight and avoid each other...and also click pictures with anyone.
And now for the sake of fans,,,they even gives bytes and shoot special segments when their fight is going on...if they can do much for their fans...why aren't we giving them the much-needed space they deserve.

I have an advice for these so called fans "Before you say something, stop and think how you would feel if someone said it to you"
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Fans have no right to bash them or indulge in their personal lives. But we can't stop most of the people from speaking nonsense.. Celebs go through bashing every now and then.. I only have one point where I find that they shouldn't do things publicly like Jigyasa blocked Manish. They don't understand that every activity gets noticed by their fans and the critics are ready to bash them and point fingers at them. They can also sort out things personally too, this is where they go wrong and give public a chance to bash them.. But still I feel that fans while bashing, cross their limits.. And about clicking pictures with others, I don't like people who bash them for not clicking with each other. It's their own wish with whom they want to click pictures.. We like to see Manyasa together doesn't mean we have every right to bash them on this, they can take pictures with anyone they want, after all its their lives and their choice what they should do..We should not interfere in this matter..

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