I like her but can't support her

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Peacelover15

@Peacelover15

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

As much as i love Maya as a character,I'm sorry this is me who is saying that i cant support her now...It's turning inhuman to the core.

Allegation no.1

Arjun is selfish,as still many feel.My question is really???After whatever we are shown ,she literally has caged him and is torturing him emotionally and psychologically to the core.You can't force yourself on someone by blackmailing like this.She is literally forcing him to have physical relationship and harassing him.If he doesn't obey she attempts of committing suicide every now and then.

My question to all the supporters who are justifying her actions

1)Is this love in the first place?

2)Is it right to force oneself emotionally or physically and torture the other person?

2)Isn't this inhumane?Don't we all deserve breathing space?

3)Will we tolerate it for a lifetime if someone never lets us meet our parents just because they are insecure?

4)How can anyone after recent episodes think about justifying Maya at all is beyond me.Yes she didn't get enough love and was tortured by Ashwin.But does it give her a right to torture both Jhanvi emotionally and Arjun psychologically?My answer is NO

Allegation no.2

Arjun is bad because he went to his family?Really?For 3 years he didn't speak to them at all ,this time he went as Ayan is getting married.Its his family for God sake and no matter what if you love someone you truly respect that person's family

We have seen Maya venting her frustration on Jhanvi every now and then,for once have we seen Arjun venting his frustration on her?No...

Allegation no .3

Arjun broke his promise,He didn't know his life was going to be like hell while he was making promises.

Ps I'm still against Saanjh as i feel she is still wrong and doing wrong in many ways but I'm not blindfolded for Maya anymore

Edited by Peacelover15 - 8 years ago

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Piyushfanatic

@Piyushfanatic

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Posted: 8 years ago

Ok ur call... Nobody is forcing u to take Mayas side. There r too many lose ends in the show right now. Lot of unanswered questions. So can't comment much. Same oldd things coming up. It's all ifs and buts. Beating around the bush types.

Everybody had thier opinions.. so ok.

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Peacelover15

@Peacelover15

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Veronicalocks
Ok ur call... Nobody is forcing u to take Mayas side. There r too many lose ends in the show right now. Lot of unanswered questions. So can't comment much. Same oldd things coming up. It's all ifs and buts. Beating around the bush types.
Everybody had thier opinions.. so ok.

That's what I'm saying there are too many loose ends so it's unfair to blame Arjun equally .Whatever we are shown in last few episodes i don't blame him to go and meet his family atleast.But thanks for respecting my view point

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 8 years ago

I don't condone maya for her wrong doings though I like her. We all know that she is not normal. She does not know what is true love as she was never loved. I wish the cvs had introduced a character in her life to knock some sense into her head. I understand what Arjun has undergone for these 3 years but in the flashback, it clearly shows that Arjun has not made any genuine efforts to mend his relationship with her.

I am not going to reply in this forum anymore.

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Peacelover15

@Peacelover15

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: kavsy
I don't condone maya for her wrong doings though I like her. We all know that she is not normal. She does not know what is true love as she was never loved. I wish the cvs had introduced a character in her life to knock some sense into her head. I understand what Arjun has undergone for these 3 years but in the flashback, it clearly shows that Arjun has not made any genuine efforts to mend his relationship with her.
I am not going to reply in this forum anymore.

Arjun has made attempts by always giving in to the blackmails .Imagine for 3 years he was tortured this way but still for Mayas life and her mom's life he stayed there.Yes he was helpless as well.The way she has manipulated police, doctors it must had been difficult for him even if he wanted to help Maya or himself at all.Still i really feel that Arjun should take a medical help for Maya soon for his welfare as well as Maya's.And no the way Maya sedated Arjun wasn't justified at all to me as per my sanity.

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Darciny

@Darciny

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Posted: 8 years ago

I agree with you completely.

This show is Maya's story and is about her love and obsession. But I cannot justify her actions. She may have had a bad past but it does not give her the right to install cctv cameras at every nook and corner of their home to keep an eye on arjun 24/7. Hell, who installs cctv cameras in the bathroom?? If the genders were reversed over here, and a husband would have been doing this to his wife, then there would have been a major outrage.

Regarding Arjun, he was the most poorly written character before the leap. There was absolutely no dimensions at all in his character. He was just there to be Maya's love interest and as Saanjh's best friend. But after leap, I have started seeing more depth in his character. I get it why he is so frustrated in his marriage. But I still don't get why he didn't take Maya to a psychiatrist. It's clearly visible that Maya needs professional help and they haven't even shown Arjun at least trying to convince Maya to go to a psychiatrist.

Saanjh on the other hand has no other thing to do except think about Arjun. I thought post leap maybe she will be shown as a successful lawyer who does have a life away from Arjun. But no she is still the same old duffer ki dusky.

But frankly as much as I enjoy watching Maya's 'beyhadhness', I don't think her actions are justifiable at all.

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Peacelover15
Arjun has made attempts by always giving in to the blackmails .Imagine for 3 years he was tortured this way but still for Mayas life and her mom's life he stayed there.Yes he was helpless as well.The way she has manipulated police, doctors it must had been difficult for him even if he wanted to help Maya or himself at all.Still i really feel that Arjun should take a medical help for Maya soon for his welfare as well as Maya's.And no the way Maya sedated Arjun wasn't justified at all to me as per my sanity.

I agree with all your points. Arjun definitely gave into her threats but what I am saying is, he has not sat with her & asked her why she is doing all these things. He has not made any effort to get back her trust after what had happened with Saanjh in the hotel. Even before the bhang, Maya had saved Saanjh from getting burnt in the fire but Arjun has royally ignored her burns & attended to Saanjh. When Saanjh came to apply color on Arjun's face on his first Holy after his marriage, he didn't take the stand for Maya. apart from this, I have only got to know Arjun's side of the story. I have not seen Maya's side about what she has to say. I'm only waiting for the unanswered questions to what made Maya the way she is.

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Sonali Mishra

@sellysona

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Posted: 8 years ago

I kind of like Maya acts. She makes show very interesting for me. I sometimes support her sometimes i feel she is going too extreme. But one thing i m sure of, that I seeing Arjun in such a state. The way he acts like a careless person it irritates me. I feel he deserves her tortures.
He did flirt around a lot and he was way too free wth a grl best frnd. So keeping eye on him was necessary. But yes bathroom me cctv is extreme for sure..
Also Arjun is a big hypocrite. Last night how he was acting all victim whn wth ayaan.but did he forgot, he himself said Maya that who wants to go back to that middle class house when he has worked so hard to get to live his drms. Though he didnot know abour gfts vandana ayan brought. But still he did blantly refuses to call Ayan for holi function whn sanjh suggested him..
So i feel like he changes his views acc to his comforts. He wants a person who helps him in all wrong deeds also. He has prblm maya doesnt let him drink. Seriously now. He broke the promise before leap and lied to her and went to drink with sanjh. And now he expects Maya to give him freedom..
He needs a person like Maya to teach him that life is not only about doing whatevr u lyk and ppl supporting u bcz she is ur mother or ur best friend.

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Manali

@I_LoveYou_Kanha

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Posted: 8 years ago

I love this show coz of Maya character...she is not any real life character to support or not to support...this show is for entertainment...and m getting entertained by the show...si i dnt have any isse with Maya...day by day her plans and actions makes me egar to watch the next episode.
Other characters are boring for me.

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Mehek25

@Mehek25

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Posted: 8 years ago

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I agree with all your views. But I have only one thing to say about Arjun...He has dug his own grave and now he's lying in it...As far as I can remember he was totally blinded by maya and accepted everything she said as gospel truth even at the expense of his ayan and his mum...

As for Maya it's obvious that she's not fully normal...her so-called beyhadness goes beyond any normal limits...that's probably the crux of this show.

And Saanjh...the less I speak about her the better
Just my opinion...sorry if I've upset anyone

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