Love or Keechad?!??!?

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

Yesterday, Arjun used the word "Keechad" for his relationship with Maya ...Actually, the word is too mild, imo...

The relationship is so toxic at the moment that either of Arya can commit suicide any moment...Maya keeps talking of "dying together"...Is there anything more toxic in this world that can kill two young human beings, one of whom is perfectly healthy?!??😲

If Maya had confided in Arjun about her mental state, before Arya marriage, she was very sure that "Arjun bhaag jaayega...Kyunki mere Sach se kissi ko pyaar nahi ho sakta"

So, despite all my empathy for Maya's mental condition,I strongly condemn her actions... I feel she has wronged Arjun in such a cruel manner...His only fault was that he stood up for her against Ashwin...Something that no one had ever done for her ...

When a person is physically handicapped, the world can see it, n someone gets into a marriage with you, knowing EXACTLY what he/she is getting into...

But here, Maya intentionally hid her mental illness (her sach) from Arjun n manipulated him into hastily marrying her...

N now she's suffocating him with her "love" ...What she calls "love" is "keechad" for Arjun...N rightly so....

Love can never possess. Love is giving freedom to the other. Love is an unconditional gift. It is not a bargain.

Arjun, get out of this toxic relationship, get medical help for Maya, & then, go and find a partner who encourages you to grow, who won't cling to you, who will let you go out into the world, & trust that you will come back...

"Never try to change a person you love, because the very effort to change says that you love half, & the other half of the person is not accepted."

Arjun, make a choice that liberates you...Not poisons you...Go boy go...Get out of this poisonous keechad asap...👍🏼...You owe it to yourself...& To your loved ones...

Originally posted by: poppinss

For once want mukthi forArjun. But i want samay to get jailed with maya they are oh so hot!

I wantsaanjh to kidnaparjun asap.

Originally posted by: TheUnique

When did he use the word keechad?

Originally posted by: Fernandes43

Are you sure?Does Maya know that she is mentally ill? Or, we are drawing some conclusion here!
I expect a wealthy person like Maya who wants to live her life happily, will certainly go for medical treatment, if only she knows!
May be, she is not thinking that she has mental illness! She is not perhaps conscious of her unpredictable nature, yet!

Originally posted by: Fernandes43

Are you sure?Does Maya know that she is mentally ill? Or, we are drawing some conclusion here!
I expect a wealthy person like Maya who wants to live her life happily, will certainly go for medical treatment, if only she knows!
May be, she is not thinking that she has mental illness! She is not perhaps conscious of her unpredictable nature, yet!

Originally posted by: Penfolk

Very well written.

Though I won't comment on if Arjun should leave right now or why isn't he leaving and why does he stay on or what compels him to and to what extent,

I would definitely like every individual given his freedom of existence. That's what he's not given.

Caged under CCTV surveillance 24*7.

Caged with no choice of his own self. (forget aloo ke parathas once in a blue moon when he rebels like hell and you are offering things just to pacify his already drenched body and mind, that's not what's called giving a choice. )

Caged with puppet responsibilities. ( being used as a puppet today for saving the property from Ashwin, and when you feel like suddenly, take away everything without even wishing to know what the other person wants. Is this what is called love? )

Maya has really made not much difference between her husband and her office subordinates. She has always controlled them and just named one love and the other bossism.

Leave alone her bad past, have we ever been clearly much shown how much she was tortured apart from a few birthday cake scenes and certain godown scenes? Are those really pretty much enough to justify what she's been constantly doing?

Can we really justify a human who unmoved can see two beautiful goldfish die breathlessly when neither of them did any harm to her?

Does it really justify that she only harms those who harm her?

I really don't believe such a person can love. It's not love, though she believes she's madly in love with Arjun and maybe can go to any extent to pacify her definition of love, and yes I don't doubt too that she's madly in love with him, but that love is more of madness than love. Unjustified. Totally bullshit.