character bashing

something is pricking me since a long time. i thought it wud be difficult for me to communicate fearing for the bashing i wud invite.

but i think we have gone outside the limit.

coming to the crux of my post,

we have started blaming each and every character of this show including a six year old kid suhana. at some point or other everyone of us have taken things to heart.

sometimes i feel it is getting strenuous n disheartening to read thru too much negativity.

we have gone to an extent wherein if dev sneezes infrnt of bijoy he becomes mannerless, bijoy becomes etiquette less wen he argues with ishwari for his daughter, asha for not supporting her husband , sonakshi etc .

the only one left out without a single finger pointed out is tiny golu molu. i think now we will all get an oppurtunity to blame him also.

there was a time wen we all were sad abt sona ritwik alliance and v never bothered abt silly mannerisms of characters although there were some posts then also, but not to this extent.

how can cv's direct something which does not hurt atleast some of us or which pleases everyone of us.

if we dont stop pointing at each n every body gesture and try to extract the negative intent of the character behind such gesture , im sure v r making the life of the showmakers hell apart from causing mental stress to ourselves. this cud also lead to show being abandoned by viewers as well as showmakers and wat not.

i plead that, let us all rationalise our thoughts and njoy the show.

im not sparing myself also frm this post, it equally applies to me also.

i have no intention to stop anyone frm expressing views, but i request to not use harsh views or arrive at rigid conclusions and make things difficult for showmakers leading to closure of the show.

please no bashing or war on me .