Arjun N Maya Both need help.

Atlast I am seeing some sane post. I hate to come to this forum otherwise.

Both needs to go to the marriage counselor. I hope Jhanvi recovers fast & helps them to resolve their issues.

Originally posted by: ronshaan

Sometimes, when we get too much love and we feel like other person wants to control us and take the right of our living our life is making us behave differently.

I had a friend, who was not bad person but came from bad family, she had fear losing my friendship, she started being too much, in such a way that one day i got very angry and said to her listen you, you are not my husband, i appreciate your love, honestly i do,. i love back but i need my space, i can not give u my life update every second what is happening with me. see even if you were my husband and you were too much, i would have felt suffocated i would have felt like i need to breath. Yes we did fight allot over it but eventually she understood, she loves me as her sis yes, but too much did not help it, it did not bring me closer but push me away because i felt too much i can't bear.

Now coming to arjun, i was feeling about him, the man doesnt know how to deal with it, he wasn't smart enough to ask maya give me space, listen i love you but i need air too, you should give me space to breath to live, you want to be loved, see you have to let me be, i will be yours but you have to understand i need air, if you be controlling too much, i might slip away of your hands and you might find yourself ALONE.

Love is great but too much love sometimes kills.

Arjun's reaction is not right but there is no one at this moment to tell him Arjun wait wait, why you beat your wife, did it really help? No it didn't, she actually fall more n more n more in love with you, instead, help her, bring her up, tell her you can't forget yourself in the process, stand up, take your business back, let me do what i m best in, you run your business, keep eye on me no problem but do your job again. this way they can rebuild their relationship.

Maya has nothing else to keep her busy that's why her job was something to keep her busy, meet people, go out, sitting at home did not help either, Loving him too much did not help either, it made him run away from you, nothing else. So b4 it is too late, stand up again, come to work, put him back on what he was doing and Wish you ALL THE BEST.

It is called stalking.

I don't know what has happened in these 3 years. Did Arjun try telling her these things? What is the thing which made him upset with Maya that he now wants to break free apart from being suffocated n her love? I feel there is a fault from both the sides. Both the hands are important to have a good or strained relationship. Their love has not been so deep that they could connect each other from their hearts. If that connection is there, a person will understand even without being told.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

It is called stalking.

Originally posted by: kavsy

I don't know what has happened in these 3 years. Did Arjun try telling her these things? What is the thing which made him upset with Maya that he now wants to break free apart from being suffocated n her love? I feel there is a fault from both the sides. Both the hands are important to have a good or strained relationship. Their love has not been so deep that they could connect each other from their hearts. If that connection is there, a person will understand even without being told.

There is one way. Arjun can become wheelchair bound and Maya will care both for her own mother and Arjun in her won style! No fear of his going out of sight!

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

There is one way. Arjun can become wheelchair bound and Maya will care both for her own mother and Arjun in her won style! No fear of his going out of sight!