IshRa - When Selflessness Hurts

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sririt

@sririt

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Very true

IshRa endless selfless love is understood by none even their family

It's true both Ishita and Raman has done a lot for their family and their partner. Not to forget outsiders too.

But other side its also true that no one is by their side when they need it.

Raman's stand about leaving home after that Romi-Rinki fiasco was the best thing that happened. They for once decided for themselves. Raman decided for himself and his immediate family and not the complete bunch of Iyers and Bhallas. Though he was blamed for that too.

Everyone use IshRa love for their own benefit but never stand by their side when they need

Even Ishita and Raman fail to stand by each other side in tough times.

The blame game here is very dirty

More than that the relationship, and its base has been portrayed as a complete different thing here. Every relationship has a basic trust bit here no trust for IshRa.

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996541

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: gargpoo
Word ! Word !
U said it all prabh !!
That's y it hurts more .. Ishra both r always ready to die for others .. They r too selfless they don't even think twice to save some stranger n end up getting trapped bt jst one mistake they get humiliation curses n wat not
Raman decided to b a bad person in accident track shanaya track n aussie track jst for his loved ones n many more things he has done bt wat he gets in return he is impulsive irresponsible bad influencen now murders too n wat not .. Wat i m seeing is almost everyone behave impulsively wen they face a tough situation not only raman Even kids his father don't think once wat they r sayi g n nvr apologize
Ishita .. This, woman has done a lot for everyone bt wat gets in return accusation blame .. Amma wants justice for her daughter is perfectly justified bt she is destroying her other daughters life she cursed not only raman bt her daughter n their kids too .. And how can she expect ishita to testify against her hubby .. Neither she knows ramam nor ishita .. Didn't ishita stand up for right during amma accident bt if this time she is not against raman then there must ba reason .. Not even benefitbenefit of doubt .. One side her sister passed away other side her husband is in behind the bars bt who cares .we will nvr get 1pm yhm. Ever ..

Thank you Poonam! It is honestly so upsetting to see that these two will put their lives at risk for those who don't value them at all. Their selflessness is great, only until it isn't advantage of. Ishita and Raman don't think twice before helping out a person in need, but when they themselves are in need, no one steps forward to be with them. They are ready to look bad in front of everyone for their loved ones, but it's sad how no one remembers that and only remember their flaws.

Everyone has been impulsive at some point in the show, but everyone accuses Raman of impulsiveness as if they have never hurt anyone in the heat of the moment. It is conviently forgotten that almost everyone has turned to Raman at least once for a favour or has been silently helped by him and now they can't even spare the man the benefit of the doubt. This Raman has helped Vandu's family many times, whether it was Bala's coaching center or providing a shelter for the Iyers, and he was the same man who could have driven by Amma's accident site b/c he wasn't involved, but stopped and tried to help without even knowing it was his MIL. And now that very Iyer family that probably should thank him for Amma's life is cursing him & accusing him of murder.

And Ishita, in my opinion is in the worst situation possible. Her sister, who was her friend and supporter is no more but the person she loves most, her own husband is the one accused for her murder. She would want justice for her sister at any cost and everyone should know that she won't hesitate to punish her own family for that, but she also trusts her husband not to leave a woman dying on the road. To me, it's highly insensitive for the Iyer family to not understand her pain, she too has lost a loved one but she can't blindly accuse her husband, the father of her children and the BIL of the woman he is being accused of killing, to be so inhumane that he left her sister to die. The Iyers cannot expect Ishita to be so sacrificing that she would give up her marriage and trust on her husband cased on a clip of his car hitting her.

The only thing I am glad is coming out of this, is Ishita's trust on Raman. She is wilingly to put her relationships at risk to fight for him because she knows that he wouldn't do such a thing. And in a show where anything is possible nowadays, I'm glad Ishita is giving him the benefit of the doubt.

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zohakhan7

@zohakhan7

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Waise why was Amma blaming Raman 8 years back when he spitted venom on Ishita when today she did exactly same thing as Raman

8 years back Raman lost his daughter and spitted venom on Ishita n today Amma lost her daughter n blamed Ishita n declared her as dead for them n said I hate u

Previously Raman killed Ishita with words n today Amma killed Ishita with her words

I want to ask Does Ishita deserves the hate she is getting n got previously ?

Do they think she is a stone or is not a human ?

Ishita is also a human with a heart who also feels hurt

Two people who r close to Ishita's heart have killed her with their words 😭

Why is only Raman is tagged as impulsive when each one starting from Mr n Mrs bhalla to Amma to Bala to Shravu are impulsive

These two can die for their family yet family in turn questions their loyalties towards them

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996541

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: sweet.Aman
well said prabh 👏👍🏼
cant agree more

they both are selfless thats the main problem in them ...coz they wil never think how both wil get hurt in order to save or to do something for their families goodness😒

bt what to do prabh sometimes it irks me too mch how can someone be so selfless that they cant even think for themselves ...bt this is how we loves our ishra coz of this nature that they love each other or their families beyond our undersatimng ...

sadly bt their families many times fail to understand their love for their families many time they gv eveidence to prove their love for them

ans yesterday part both are suffering
where ishita in this position she hv to choose btwn her husband who didnt do anything and other side vandhu ... other side raman is hidingsomething if that truth comes out it wil hurt their families

yes i dont like whwn amma says i hate u ...coz hate is not the normal; word ...aur how can she think raman did this ?????? did she forget everything ..khair if ithink mother pov she only want criminal to behind the bar ...she is not thinking rationally
bt still HATE Word did go well with me

bt i also love selfless ISHRA😳

agree with ur title SLEFLESSNESS ...sometimes it hurts to them only

Thank you Aman! I think that Ishita and Raman's selflessness is their biggest downfall. Would Nidhi have ever entered their lives had Ishita not helped a stranger? Would Raman have been arrested had he told the police where he was instead of probably helping someone?

I love Ishita and Raman always being there for people when they need help, but I don't think it should come at the cost of their own happiness. They need to learn how to draw a line, is helping others worth getting themselves hurt and humiliated repeatedly? According to me, Ishita and Raman are probably the least loved people in their families, no one thinks twice before asking them to prove their love or lashing out at them. It is because everyone expects them to be so selfless that Ishita is being asked to choose between her sister and husband, a choice impossible for anyone to make. And no matter what she does, she will upset either her parents or in-laws. Does no one try to think of how she feels doing that? Nope, everyone is just thinking about themselves as always.

I like the selfless IshRa, but I feel like I would love the humanly selfish Ishra, that put themselves and each other above others. That way maybe we would have seen them happy together more than crying separately.

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Pasoori

@ChanChanMan

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Prabh.

It's true that Ishita and Raman are strong when together enough to face the world alone. But does that justify the way they are put down and disrespected? They are enough for each other, but does it make it okay that everyone leaves them when they are in a time of need?

This is not the first time IshRa are being humiliated for standing up for each other. The family feud track, the Param fiasco as well, when Raman had tried to maintain a balance to protect his wife's dignity and try and get his sister to open her eyes to see Param's cheap reality. These two have always gotten the shorter end of the stick; enduring pain and humiliation for supporting each other. Jab tak doosron ko faida dete hain, tab tak ache hain zara sa khud ke liye kuch kar liya toh look what their worth is reduced to!

Aisi 'family' hone se toh better hai ke family ho hi naa!

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996541

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Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: sririt
Very true
IshRa endless selfless love is understood by none even their family
It's true both Ishita and Raman has done a lot for their family and their partner. Not to forget outsiders too.
But other side its also true that no one is by their side when they need it.
Raman's stand about leaving home after that Romi-Rinki fiasco was the best thing that happened. They for once decided for themselves. Raman decided for himself and his immediate family and not the complete bunch of Iyers and Bhallas. Though he was blamed for that too.
Everyone use IshRa love for their own benefit but never stand by their side when they need
Even Ishita and Raman fail to stand by each other side in tough times.
The blame game here is very dirty
More than that the relationship, and its base has been portrayed as a complete different thing here. Every relationship has a basic trust bit here no trust for IshRa.

Thank you! They always put others before themselves and it takes the slightest selfishness from them whether it is wanting to stand up for themselves or their spouse, for their family to take the chance to humiliate them and disrespect them. They are always left alone to deal with their problems when they are in trouble but still these two don't stop helping his family. IshRa seem to be a use and throw for the Iyers and Bhalla since they always go up to them and demand/request help and once they get what they need, they forget about all they did and whenever given the chance accuse them of being selfish and disloyal. This behaviour, like you said, makes me wonder what the basis behind all these relations is, whether it is the blood relation or trust, because for now it only seems to be the former since there is a clear lack or trust and respect.

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gargpoo

@gargpoo

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Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Prabh.

Thank you Poonam! It is honestly so upsetting to see that these two will put their lives at risk for those who don't value them at all. Their selflessness is great, only until it isn't advantage of. Ishita and Raman don't think twice before helping out a person in need, but when they themselves are in need, no one steps forward to be with them. They are ready to look bad in front of everyone for their loved ones, but it's sad how no one remembers that and only remember their flaws.

Everyone has been impulsive at some point in the show, but everyone accuses Raman of impulsiveness as if they have never hurt anyone in the heat of the moment. It is conviently forgotten that almost everyone has turned to Raman at least once for a favour or has been silently helped by him and now they can't even spare the man the benefit of the doubt. This Raman has helped Vandu's family many times, whether it was Bala's coaching center or providing a shelter for the Iyers, and he was the same man who could have driven by Amma's accident site b/c he wasn't involved, but stopped and tried to help without even knowing it was his MIL. And now that very Iyer family that probably should thank him for Amma's life is cursing him & accusing him of murder.

And Ishita, in my opinion is in the worst situation possible. Her sister, who was her friend and supporter is no more but the person she loves most, her own husband is the one accused for her murder. She would want justice for her sister at any cost and everyone should know that she won't hesitate to punish her own family for that, but she also trusts her husband not to leave a woman dying on the road. To me, it's highly insensitive for the Iyer family to not understand her pain, she too has lost a loved one but she can't blindly accuse her husband, the father of her children and the BIL of the woman he is being accused of killing, to be so inhumane that he left her sister to die. The Iyers cannot expect Ishita to be so sacrificing that she would give up her marriage and trust on her husband cased on a clip of his car hitting her.

The only thing I am glad is coming out of this, is Ishita's trust on Raman. She is wilingly to put her relationships at risk to fight for him because she knows that he wouldn't do such a thing. And in a show where anything is possible nowadays, I'm glad Ishita is giving him the benefit of the doubt.

Exactly they both nvr think twice to help someone they r always there for their kids, siblings , parents, in laws bt wen they r in need there is no one .. Ttheir love n loyalty is questioned their flaws r thrown at their faces they dont even get a benefit of doubt . They deserve better
I reaaly want them to b a little selfish .. Take a break from everything n everyone and jst disappear for some time they hv had enough .. yup I m glad too the best thing is ishitas trust for raman n they r together !

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