Have we got used to seeing a selfless heroine?

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ChipChipiBhaalu

@OriginalJuhi_04

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Posted: 8 years ago

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From which angle Gauri looks selfish? If she was selfish she would not care about Om after his insults and done only Svetty' s work as she needs money for her mother. That's what you call selfishness not just getting jealous of your so-called husband with another woman. If she was selfish then she would have accepted Dandi's help to find her a job instead of refusing his help and relying on vishwas. Why should she fall for a guy who will most probably insult her on knowing that she disguised herself as a not? Gauri does not even shows him how hypocrite he is which at least Ishaana did in the last scene for which some people in IB forum for angry as they can't see a woman taking over a man. Some even wanted Shivaay to trouble Ishaana for daring to insult them like he troubled Anika. Let's see how many people will like when tomorrow Gauri does the same of insulting Oberois by showing their faults.

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@Fruitcustard_9

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Sp launched a video regarding woman power, they was clip of gauri 2 , sp was so clever, they only show d clip of gauri's scape during KT's track , under d tag nayi soch, they never dare 2 show clips of gauri's pati parmeshwar things. No wonder , people find gauri's character so inspiring that sp feedback ids is full of req 2 improve gauri's characterization, . I bet to show gauri mahan they will spoil omkara's character. Gul taught me not expect anything from her shows

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ChipChipiBhaalu

@OriginalJuhi_04

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9
Sp launched a video regarding woman power, they was clip of gauri 2 , sp was so clever, they only show d clip of gauri's scape during KT's track , under d tag nayi soch, they never dare 2 show clips of gauri's pati parmeshwar things. No wonder , people find gauri's character so inspiring that sp feedback ids is full of req 2 improve gauri's characterization, . I bet to show gauri mahan they will spoil omkara's character. Gul taught me not expect anything from her shows

@bold: They already did that by making Om grab and squeeze Gauri's hands after marrying her which some of us did not liked. He forgot that she is badly injured who can even die and did not even took her to the doctor.

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FlauntPesimism

@FlauntPessimism

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Shanak_Fan

Gauri wanted to quit her job when she came to know that's Om's house but Swetlana stopped her.She didn't wanted to stay in Om's room but again Swetlana forced her to stay.

She's with Om 24/7 again due to Swetlana. After the current scenes, she started developing feelings for Om.

She also saw Om is disturbed due to his parents problems. She's also realizing Swetlana is a mysterious and bad woman and Om is not happy with her.She realized Om wants to expose Swetlana so she's helping him.

It's not like she's always been behind Om since the beginning. In fact,it's Swetlana who is playing cupid in their love story.

So where's the question of self respect here?At first, she followed Swetlana's orders. Now she's helping Om to solve his problems.

She forgot all the insults that Om gave the moment he put his blood on her forehead.

These actions are all good from Gauri's side excluding the fact that she forgot everything the moment he out blood in her hairline, forget this fake shaadi even after the real marriage a girl shouldn't forget her self respect n shall not will to be with the guy who called her characterless (I know initially Gauri showed some spine n didn't want to stay with Om but now she has lost that n wants Om to have some feelings for her)

She does aarti of him, she fangirls him, she gets sad when Om doesn't give importance to Gauri which is the problem, this isn't something a girl with self respect would do

Edited by FlauntPessimism - 8 years ago

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devilsadvocate

@devilsadvocate

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Shanak_Fan
People call Gauri delusional when she tries to know whether Om has any feeling for her.People bash Gauri when she calls Om her husband, feels jealous when she sees Om with Swetlana and wishes to spend her life with him.
Indirectly, she's being selfish and wants that Om should not marry Swetlana and is helping him for this reason.She took money from Swetlana to do her work but instead she's actually going against her and is helping Om for her own selfish reasons.

Is it because of this reason that many people here are not liking her?

I remember people bashed her when she told Om that she believes in the marriage but later appreciated her when she said she will not force Om to accept her as his wife.

Have viewers got so used to seeing a selfless heroine that they can't tolerate even a little bit selfishness in a heroine?

I know Gauri has been called delusional, and last week I replied to why I think she is Naive and suffering a little bit of Post Trauma emotions...what I dont like about Gauri's Pati Parmeshwar chants is, that I cannot for the life of me acceot that the wedding happened for real...The truth is there were no court documents, A Pundit, a Mangalsutra and Mantras...the wedding happened even without her consent...Forget about Omkara...I cannot really accept it as a marriage.

its only Natural for Gauri to have certain feelings for Omkara...I feel like she has a major crush on him, she is hero worshipping him...her feelings of Gratitude are overwhelming...and to top it off, she experienced a couple of near death experiences with him...That is something that binds the people who experience them together...Very Similar to how people Marry Firefighters and EMTs who save them from fatal accidents.

I am all for Gauri being selfish...and want to keep Omkara for herself...Given the fact that she has a solid foundation to be in Love with him...Not just love him because he is her savior (hero worship) or Because he is Her (non) Pati (Her Dharma) ...Honestly, I want more build up and quality of the main leads falling in love...This insta-love cop out just doesnt fit in and neither does it feel real...I want her love to take a lil bit of time to develop...I want her struggle with her feelings...to understand them...to FEEL them...to bask in them...and then accept them. After that, she is free to want Omkara for herself...she can g as grey as she can like...Trust me I have no problems with that...but there should be a solid foundation for Her Love to began with...

Right now, he foundation of her love for Om is, couple of Near death experiences and the Wedding.

As Chulbul, her developing feelings for Om makes a lot more sense...She is experiencing his generosity, his sharpness...his honor and the love of his family for herself...she is comparing herself to him...finding a mirror for her soul...feeling a little jealous about Svetlana's closeness to him at this point makes sense...NOT BECAUSE HE IS HER PATI!! but because he is someone she is falling for...If they tone down the Pati Parmeshwar jaap, it will be much more palatable to some of us.

Let me state that I like Gauri!! I do! ...but her too much Pati Parmeshwar Jaap does get on my nerve 😆

Hope this makes sense. 😃