JNDSD~ My take~ Friday 17.3.17 ~ Give and take..
One way to live life is to base it on the policy of give and take, a neat way that gives the option to practice compromise and agreement. This way, may well reduce conflicts and differences that loom up through events and circumstances. The system comes across as business like where issues are negotiated and concessions are made and deals are struck for harmonious moving on in life. Today's episode I view in light of give and take..an exchange of some of what we want for some of what someone else wants...
By providing information about Madhav's father to both families Vividha reverses some theories that prompted her marriage to Ravish.. That it was an emotional knee jerk reaction to Atharv leaving her waiting at the altar. She gives away readily without any coercion, that marrying Ravish was one informed choice she made. By adding that Madhav couldn't have found a better father, Vividha clearly gives away, that which she judiciously covers!the woman Vividha's emotions by that of Vividha the mother. However, Vividha fails not, to give respect to a friend when its due. It's what friends do, big up the image of a true friend. Thus, Ravish in giving out the truth, that by marrying Vividha despite knowing she was pregnant even before she knew it herself? He gathers, the gratitude of both families. What takes me by surprise though is how was he able to conclude that Vividha was pregnant?. Somehow, Ravish's act of honor ,leaves little room to chastise whatever transpired between Vividha and Atharv. As the families appears indebted to Ravish, who is gracious enough to confess that he has gained more than he set out for.. a loving family and a son like Madhav. So it seems now by giving the families a right to know, what they were unaware off for four years, gets Vividha and Ravish in return ,much gain and acceptance from the families. Then again, what of the give or gain between themselves?. Both Vividha and Ravish are skirting around the chasm of emotional attachment between themselves. For a greater cause at themoment takes up the attention of the two families.
Taking tests! becomes the need of the hour! to take hold of Atharv's DNA sample to keep Madhav alive and well! Vividha too has to take emotional tests of the residue of what she feels about Atharv now. Anger, being cheated, rejected.. whatever she feels, Vividha has to put on the back burner.. for what is imperative now is the man's DNA..for her son Madhav !and for her son's life she is willing to give away that final piece of news..that she shared with none other except Ravish.. Atharv's whereabouts !
Suman comes to her mentor to take her consent for beginning off preparations for the full moon night. The night which will herald in new life for her and bloody annihilation, damnation! destruction! death! for her foes!
Sujata in the main responds jubilantly to the news that Vividha gives her! Atharv is alive and well . Vividha though has to take much grief , as she suffer's a mother's flak! For withholding such important information. It is such a strange irony of fate that where as Madhav is at risk of a critical condition. His father Atharv assumed missing since four years , like a breath of fresh air returns to a family in Ajmer ,all courtesy of Vividha who breaks the news! Its Sujata now who feels cheated! left in the dark. Vividha attempts to give off, she meant well by keeping the truth about Atharv.. as too much stark truth about Atharv would take toll upon Sujata as his mother. Vividha though now feels duty bound to narrate the Holi incidents to a mother who has been a fine example of a strong motherhood qualities. One who bearings sufferings with silent strength! However Vividha and Ravish both hope that Sujata takes the news about Atharv which they are compelled to share with, and will keep in mind that he, Atharv in Delhi is quite different from what he was..! taking in the news of Atharv being happily married and first baby on the way, does take some of this mothers joy. She feels her son excluded her from such milestone of his life that Sujata as his mother dreamt of. Vividha gives Sujata the cruel to be kind treatment. Tells her bluntly that Atharv has moved on, "even his memories too have no room for them".. are such prophetic words that of which, even Vividha is unaware off!
Ravish as usual is a tower of strength for both the givers and takers of such revelations. Both pieces of news are significant in their own right.. Madhav's illness.. but with regards to Vividha withholding the truth about Atharv. Even he believes that she did so to spare them grief. Ravish does take away some of the families misery by reminding them Atharv is happy in his life as they are in theirs. He is realistic in his approach, that hard as it may appear its best to accept there's less chance of reverting back life to what it was. Sujata has always been the kind of woman who makes a family, unites families rather than divides. Under these circumstances too she contemplates about contacting Atharv if for nothing else, for Madhav's life! she sees her grandson's illness and the need for Atharv as the work of providence..
In the Vashist house.. Suman gives Guddi the dose of rich happy times ahead when all her game will be won. Guddi takes in the blissful news of beginning life bursting at the seams financially. It's hard swallow that Suman is this evil game only for the money? Rather disappointing..
The girl in anklets.. takes sweet liberties with Atharv's bare back. The distance between the benign being reduces, as a finger traces an erotic message on his skin.. Atharv swivels and he takes it as a figment of his imagination. Symbolic message, Atharv! Watch out for your back! on guard! Soon after Guddi comes to the room and he equates the moving finger on his bare back, as hers.. but Guddi's yawn tells him she needs sleep.. not him!
The major decision is taken, Atharv will be contacted for the DNA sample. The next issue to be sorted is who takes the lead? and which of the two gives in? Vividha and Ravish both battle it out as to who would go the Atharv to collect the sample. Ravish wants to prove his right and duty, both as Madhav's father and Vividha's husband. Eventually Ravish has to give in when Vividha tells him that she will go! and alone! as at the end of the day she is Madhav's mother and Atharv is his father!.. Ravish has to take what Vividha gives himas a salt rub on a wound..
It was interesting to see how the families share two pieces of news that are out of the ordinary and how people receive the information depends on the personal impact both father and son share with the two families. It is also interesting to see how families huddle together to draw support in times of unforeseen emergencies. The focus remains on how much Atharv is needed.. the precap shows, Vividha is on another fresh mission to the city of Delhi .. last time she visited the place it was to give a gift . This time she goes to receive a much sought after gift..the gift of life for her son Madhav .. an embodiment of Vividha and Atharv's bond... hamlet53 18.3.17
Sorry for the late post..Friday night ,got held up.. have a swell weekend folks! love hammie
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