Saanjh has done nothing wrong - Page 6

Originally posted by: angelk1

Its common , as long as saanj is close to arjun she will always be attacked. Even when she was doing her job as a judge, they say she was being to smart making maya look weak. Blah blah, honestly its nothing new. Ever since the marriage arjun has been at fault. Him leaving to go after saanj was his idea, not hers. When he stop her from moving, he did that on his own. When he tried to kiss saanj , he did that. She was just happy at that moment when he said he loves her, but she stop herself. When realization dawn on her that arjun isnt hers.

You cant blame her for it. Her agenda that time was to talk to him to talk to his mom. When arjun hug saanj, he did it on his own will, he wasnt forced. Same with the holi.

Honestly I'm tired of hearing she should stay in her limit an. Know her boundary. Haha exactly what is that. You cant stop someone from feeling, and I'm pretty sure she knows. Where she stands in his life. With the boundary, why exactly should she stay away. They've been friends for years, theyve always had this close relation. I notticed Arjun is the type of person that loves physical contact .

He does it with maya all the time. Not once did she tried to flirt or seduce him. If anything shes under control. I have a friend who loves hugging, and snuggling. He can never keep his hands to himself. He loves physical contact. Even if its embarrassing at times. I think its a habit of arjun, but people see it differently. It can get annoying at times. And from a wife view it does look weird. But she should accept it, the hugging and worrying. Because thats how he is. Honestly its like the bestfriend word doesnt apply. Saanj will always be in his life as long as arjun needs her. And that is why, I say His using her emotionally and shes not really aware of it.

Originally posted by: kavsy

Yes, it is common. Don't think that I am only blaming Saanjh. we are also blaming Arjun. Both are equally responsible. If not the members here, what will you say for Suman who is Saanjh's own mother? Even she told Saanjh to keep some distance from them. But she does not listen. Does any sane person texts & calls or texts a guy at the midnight? If Maya had done that (assuming that she is Arjun's best friend but with mental issues) I can understand where does she some from but this is not expected from Saanjh.

Saanjh is not a saint or an angel to be always right. If Arjun had kissed her, she has allowed him to do that. So both are at fault. You cannot clap with one hand.

@dristhi: If Saanjh has not done anything wrong then what do you say when Saanjh told Arjun that he should have allowed her to die in the hot air baloon? What do you say for her eavesdropping, checking Maya's purse in the name of friendship? What about her detectivegir in the name of friendsip? She has always loved Arjun & wanted to have him all for herself. That is her ulterior motive. She has listened more to Arjun than her parents. The former is using her for his benefits & the latter has brought her up & has been loving & supportive, who always wished well for her & stood by her. I think it is not only Maya who is having mental problem but also Saanjh as she trusts & listens to wrong persons. In real life, it is considered as a mental problem.😊. Sorry for the rant. But t is from my perspect.

Originally posted by: angelk1

Its common , as long as saanj is close to arjun she will always be attacked. Even when she was doing her job as a judge, they say she was being to smart making maya look weak. Blah blah, honestly its nothing new. Ever since the marriage arjun has been at fault. Him leaving to go after saanj was his idea, not hers. When he stop her from moving, he did that on his own. When he tried to kiss saanj , he did that. She was just happy at that moment when he said he loves her, but she stop herself. When realization dawn on her that arjun isnt hers.

You cant blame her for it. Her agenda that time was to talk to him to talk to his mom. When arjun hug saanj, he did it on his own will, he wasnt forced. Same with the holi.

Honestly I'm tired of hearing she should stay in her limit an. Know her boundary. Haha exactly what is that. You cant stop someone from feeling, and I'm pretty sure she knows. Where she stands in his life. With the boundary, why exactly should she stay away. They've been friends for years, theyve always had this close relation. I notticed Arjun is the type of person that loves physical contact .

He does it with maya all the time. Not once did she tried to flirt or seduce him. If anything shes under control. I have a friend who loves hugging, and snuggling. He can never keep his hands to himself. He loves physical contact. Even if its embarrassing at times. I think its a habit of arjun, but people see it differently. It can get annoying at times. And from a wife view it does look weird. But she should accept it, the hugging and worrying. Because thats how he is. Honestly its like the bestfriend word doesnt apply. Saanj will always be in his life as long as arjun needs her. And that is why, I say His using her emotionally and shes not really aware of it.

Originally posted by: kavsy

@dristhi: If Saanjh has not done anything wrong then what do you say when Saanjh told Arjun that he should have allowed her to die in the hot air balloon? What do you say for her eavesdropping, checking Maya's purse in the name of friendship? What about her detectivegiri in the name of friendship? She has always loved Arjun & wanted to have him all for herself. That is her ulterior motive. She has listened more to Arjun than her parents. The former is using her for his benefits & the latter has brought her up & has been loving & supportive, who always wished well for her & stood by her. I think it is not only Maya who is having a mental problem but also Saanjh as she trusts & listens to wrong persons. In real life, it is considered as a mental problem when you trust an outsider more than your parents. One may say that Saanjh has an extended family in the form of Saanjh, Vandana & Ayaan but her immediate family consists of her parents & her brother. So compared to that, the Sharmas are the third persons. When Jiten had come to the Mathur family with the proposal, he had genuinely loved her & wanted to marry her but Saanjh has goofed it up, taking Arjun's name all the time when Arjun was more than fine with it. He didn't even bother about it but he was more eager to see her getting married. No man would like to be a second choice for the woman he loves. About Singapore, I have already said that. Listening & trusting the third persons more than your closest well-wishers is also a mental problem. I can understand if Maya does not respect her parents as we all know how her parents are. Even God exempts her for that. But what excuse does Saanjh have to disobey her parents when they are loving & supporting? She can easily get a nice guy who will genuinely care for her.

Originally posted by: sandiab

i think we need pic of her expressions when she hugged him after Maya saved her. i did not find anything wrong with hug at the hospital bt yesterdays hug she aint nothing bt a hoe, hoe, hoe bag lol

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@sandiab you told it. Even I didnt made much issue of Saajun hugging in hospital and i found it mostly from Arjun's side than Saanjh. But the hotel scene where she almost kisses Arjun and just stops seeing the Mayaa tatoo on her chest, and yesterday hug well I wont say it's pure. It has more meaning to it and they cling to each other more than required. Not once they thought about the lady who burned her hands to douse the fire on Saanjh duppatta. Tomorrow precap is cringeworthy to say the least. No wife will like that leave alone Maya.

Also we can say Maya is wrong, but is Suman and Prem also wrong in asking Saanjh to stop many times. Especially Suman who gave her daughter a very good advice in the most beautiful manner. Why is that Saanjh always have to chose Arjun over and above her parents. Arjun is her weakness. In keeping him as her weakness, she is wrecking not only herself but also the home of another woman.