Originally posted by: dhrishti_
While a trillion people hate on Saanjh in this forum, I'm amongst the viewers who don't really have an opinion on her. She's nowhere near my favourite character, but I don't hate her either. I must admit I hated her back when she was trying to play detective-detective and prove to Arjun that Maya isn't right for him and even throughout the Mauritius track, but now I quite like her character.
She has been acting sensible after the ArYa wedding. She acted a bit 'cuckoo' during the wedding rituals, but that was just her heartbroken self.
If you observe, all the ridiculousness has been on Arjun's side. The entire 'Duffer and Dusky ka bandar' was said by Arjun, not Saanjh. It was Arjun who forced Saanjh to stay back and he isn't the one who is willing to distance himself from Saanjh. Saanjh is no longer the clingy best friend she once used to be, but she is still bashed in every second post .
Its common , as long as saanj is close to arjun she will always be attacked. Even when she was doing her job as a judge, they say she was being to smart making maya look weak. Blah blah, honestly its nothing new. Ever since the marriage arjun has been at fault. Him leaving to go after saanj was his idea, not hers. When he stop her from moving, he did that on his own. When he tried to kiss saanj , he did that. She was just happy at that moment when he said he loves her, but she stop herself. When realization dawn on her that arjun isnt hers.
You cant blame her for it. Her agenda that time was to talk to him to talk to his mom. When arjun hug saanj, he did it on his own will, he wasnt forced. Same with the holi.
Honestly I'm tired of hearing she should stay in her limit an. Know her boundary. Haha exactly what is that. You cant stop someone from feeling, and I'm pretty sure she knows. Where she stands in his life. With the boundary, why exactly should she stay away. They've been friends for years, theyve always had this close relation. I notticed Arjun is the type of person that loves physical contact .
He does it with maya all the time. Not once did she tried to flirt or seduce him. If anything shes under control. I have a friend who loves hugging, and snuggling. He can never keep his hands to himself. He loves physical contact. Even if its embarrassing at times. I think its a habit of arjun, but people see it differently. It can get annoying at times. And from a wife view it does look weird. But she should accept it, the hugging and worrying. Because thats how he is. Honestly its like the bestfriend word doesnt apply. Saanj will always be in his life as long as arjun needs her. And that is why, I say His using her emotionally and shes not really aware of it.
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