Karan Johar's toughest ride begins now.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hope his gossiping with kareena about the fashion sense of other people in the industry would take a backseat.

When we talk about single parenthood lets talk about those small children who have lost either mother or father and are devoid of mother's love or fathers's love.
Those who have no mother yearn for that motherly love and those who have lost their father yearn for that protectiveness. Of couse they move ahead with time and accept the changes.

So just because a person trying to be single parent especially trying to be a father change the scenario? The kid out of surrogacy of a single parent may not have the grief of losing a mother/father due to death but that kid as he/shegrows up will miss the other parent.
How much nannies. staff, grand mother, relatives be there...MOTHER is always a MOTHER. NOBODY can replace that warmth of a MOTHER.

I think surrogacy when used by couples like srk-gauri is ok as the child will have both mom and dad.In case of Tushhar and Karan, i dont know how will they handle it.
In case of women its different
Best example is sushmita sen- she adopted and raised a child single handedly and for that it affected her career too. But she has been good at it.
The need of a mother is more for a child than a father which many surveys have established it.


I dont know whether Karan would control his sexual thirst after it.
Look he is in this glamour industry and is 24/7 is surrounded by good looking hot men, And he has indirectly said many times how he has led this unsatisfied sexlife since 26yrs of age.
So his escapades with hot people will continue...
as the children grow up they will know or rather be taunted for having a gay father. That would be very bad and hurting for them. how much modern people become, the society has not evolved to understand the sensitivities,

Many people including gays are saying that at this stage he has taken additional responsibilities. when people grow older they want to shed their burden ..and lead a relaxed life. Karan being unmarried had the best chance to complete his life journey with the way he was going already.If he thinks hat his kids are going to do sewa for him ahead..taking and holding him to washroom at his old age...then may god save him from such expectations.😆

Hope like all his films he has happy family at the end

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: clairvoyance

Hope his gossiping with kareena about the fashion sense of other people in the industry would take a backseat.

When we talk about single parenthood lets talk about those small children who have lost either mother or father and are devoid of mother's love or fathers's love.
Those who have no mother yearn for that motherly love and those who have lost their father yearn for that protectiveness. Of couse they move ahead with time and accept the changes.

So just because a person trying to be single parent especially trying to be a father change the scenario? The kid out of surrogacy of a single parent may not have the grief of losing a mother/father due to death but that kid as he/shegrows up will miss the other parent.
How much nannies. staff, grand mother, relatives be there...MOTHER is always a MOTHER. NOBODY can replace that warmth of a MOTHER.

I think surrogacy when used by couples like srk-gauri is ok as the child will have both mom and dad.In case of Tushhar and Karan, i dont know how will they handle it.
In case of women its different
Best example is sushmita sen- she adopted and raised a child single handedly and for that it affected her career too. But she has been good at it.
The need of a mother is more for a child than a father which many surveys have established it.


I dont know whether Karan would control his sexual thirst after it.
Look he is in this glamour industry and is 24/7 is surrounded by good looking hot men, And he has indirectly said many times how he has led this unsatisfied sexlife since 26yrs of age.
So his escapades with hot people will continue...
as the children grow up they will know or rather be taunted for having a gay father. That would be very bad and hurting for them. how much modern people become, the society has not evolved to understand the sensitivities,

Many people including gays are saying that at this stage he has taken additional responsibilities. when people grow older they want to shed their burden ..and lead a relaxed life. Karan being unmarried had the best chance to complete his life journey with the way he was going already.If he thinks hat his kids are going to do sewa for him ahead..taking and holding him to washroom at his old age...then may god save him from such expectations.😆

Hope like all his films he has happy family at the end


@bold: But then what should a gay man wanting become a father do? Wait till Indian sensitivities have evolved? The children will harassed for their father disobeying the #377 law and having sex "against the order of nature". (God forbid that awful law is still in place, then).

If they are proud to be off-springs of a gay father, then no amount of heckling will ever get to them. Hope, they imbibe that ability to be "gay and proud" from KJO, if nothing else.

Pardon my frankness, but I feel the over-all tone of your post is very cynical, like " it is a mistake for a single gay man to have kids via surrogacy"
Edited by rajranbirshashi - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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My god this forum is cuckoo! So much analysis on someone's personal decision!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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See, X's opinions on parenthood or life in general are never similar to Y's opinions on same things because both their opinions are shaped by the life they life. And KJo has led a completely different life from most of us here.
As long as everything is legal, I don't see what the problem is, his life is allowing for it, so what's the problem?

He is also a person, who wants to experience parenthood, support and share his life with his own blood, these are basic feelings of every human which cannot be taken away, these instincts are deeply ingrained in human. Even if there may not be another parent... it's a basic feeling everyone of us have(mostly)


As for him being gay parent in a society that is not "ready" to accept such things, and that children will bear the brunt for it, society changes when there's atleast someone to begin the change. And, as you and me are society ourselves, let's first stop associating his identity with 'gay', he's an individual, him being gay is restricted only to his bedroom. He's a parent, not gay parent.

Children may get teased about it, but should that be the only reason not to have a child? We are missing the full painting here and are caught up with a small blotch on the canvas. I am sure he thought about it way before anyone did, and perhaps fears it too, I'm sure he'll take care of it and hopefully the children will only grow out of such experiences, should they face them.


As for his age, I'm sure he thought about that much, I mean, when we who are sitting comfortably in our homes are thinking of his age, I'm sure he must've thought about it? He is rich, can afford nannies to look after babies, let's not jump to the conclusion of what kind of poor quality parenting that would be now... life isn't so simple, he has had his own shortcomings in life, easy for us to strike down and judge his decisions or way of life, when we aren't living his life.

As for his children doing sewa for him in his oldage, come on, I don't think he's motivated by that, no parent is motivated by it! Most upper-middle class families themselves have personal nurse/assistants -_________-





Edited by Angel-likeDevil - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Just when I think I have seen all the outdated, hateful thoughts of our society a new one pops up. He is a gay man. He is never going to marry a woman. To say that he shouldn't have children because his kids need a mother is ridiculous. Men can be just as nurturing as women.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Why would this be a tough ride. becoming a parent is not rocket science. He will struggle like any new parent at first and then get the hang of it. And why is this anyone's business but his. There are men out there 100X worse then KJO who become father but man one celeb who is known to love kids becomes a father and everyone loses it.
Those two kids are going to grow up in a way no less then a prince and princess would. They are going to be surrounding by people who accept their father... go to a expensive AF school where having a gay father is not going to be a big deal... and grow up in a fraternity that loves their father.

We cannot compare his business skills with his parenting skills. Maybe he won't be a hands on dad... but I have no doubt he will love his kids and give them the best of everything. Just like he has for SRKs kids... SOTY kids... etc

And him being Gay has nothing to do with him having kids. The world he lives in is much different then the middle class world then normal people live in. Nobody cares about having a gay daddy in BW or those 15lac per year schools.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He deserves happiness...both the children will get lot of love..I am sure he has thought a lot about this and taken this step
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No big deal . There are lots of single fathers
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Let me understand first what you are trying to say : Is it that Gays should not have children ? Or Karan should not have children because he is Gay?

Do kids from normal families not face taunts and bullying? Should everyone who has some shame in their family history stop reproducing for the fear of football ground digs?

Google "Same sex families" and you will see that around the world there are as many happy LGBT families as "normal" ones.

Ae you worried about Karan's sex life after becoming a parent? Did you ask same question to Kareena-Saif or Shahid- Wife ? If not, why should this be a worry for Karan?

Lastly, what is your comment about kids will not take Karan to washroom when he is old?How many old age homes have Gay parents?

Think about everything you have said in the post.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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How much nannies. staff, grand mother, relatives be there...MOTHER is always a MOTHER. NOBODY can replace that warmth of a MOTHER.
agree to ONLY this part in your post.newborns need their mom more than anything or anyone else..

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