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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: misspinkun

Agree with u completely Yeh Ghatiya soch Gul mata kii hai ...
Selfless Love My foot ... what type of selfless Love Gul is trying to show is that by losing Your Selfrespect and identity😆 seriously😡


The main thing is TM did not even mentioned a mistake of men. She posted in such a way that the entire mistakes are only the 3 female leads and only they should suffer. Why to run behind such so-called selfless love when they either be happily single or get any nice guy?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu.y

Bashing is a strong word my friend and so are its consequences.
Sharing thoughts help us all to see the big picture with more clarity.
What the character felt is a sense of admiration which is far far away from what is 'presumed' to be or as it portraits it to be I.e, love.
And that's what makes one to contradict.


The word bashing and the word love can be perceived anyway. It totally depends on the person.for me what is bashing is too strong a word for you. And what love is for gauri is admiration for you. The character of gauri comes w8th her set of beliefs and experiences.

Agreed healthy discussions help us all see the big picture. But what is really the bigger picture. It is the journey that we need to enjoy.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cactusbutt1123


The word bashing and the word love can be perceived anyway. It totally depends on the person.for me what is bashing is too strong a word for you. And what love is for gauri is admiration for you. The character of gauri comes w8th her set of beliefs and experiences.

Agreed healthy discussions help us all see the big picture. But what is really the bigger picture. It is the journey that we need to enjoy.

see that's why the concept is contradicting. It is making viewers to agree to the things they know are so not true yet to agree by masking them with heroism, characterization and what not.

For a second there, people actually believed one can devote or love someone in the name of soulmates ( no, one can't be in few meetings or because the so called forced situations )its a fact and people can't deny it by reasoning with character's beliefs and mind sets. Its like feeding us with wrong information that apples are only red and all the other colors are not heck not even fruits.

people get away with marrying off someone without their consent and even making people believe that character's assumptions about marriage are valid.

These contents are slowly changing the viewers perceptions of love, marriage and even life. This is the big picture and sadly the not so enjoyable journey we are all setted in.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kulsum_5


She was dying.. he saved her.. he said tum jaisi ladkiyon ko zinda rahne ka koi haq nahi.. he would have left her.. but no.. he came frwd and saved her life.. he had that marrg option to save her.. Aur waisey bhi kisi masoom ki jaan bachane ke liye 100 jhoot bhi maaf hai.. 😆 and now its their personal wish to accept it.. Gauri is overwhemed.. Koi bhi hoga yaar.. and om denying abd i dnt thnk i should explain why.. 😉


I am not saying Om marrying her to save her is wrong...I am saying Gauri's interpretation is stupid
If Om had saved her without marrying her, do you think she would have felt same way?
her words were not because he saved her but because he had married her...
even Gauri saved his life risking hers...she could have escaped from goons if she had not stayed back to save Om...that is her goodness
Om too has that goodness
Its normal human behavior to save another life
but is that goodness enough to fall in love? she can be grateful to him but love?
In Gul's last show, FL was attacked by goons and saved by a guy...few months later that guy turned out to be villain (even before truth, no viewers wanted FL to fall in love with that guy only because he was not ML 😆)
if some random guy saved and married Gauri instead of Om...would you have felt same about the her monologue?
my point is that Gauri doesn't know Om...whatever she knew he was rude, egotistic guy who always misunderstood her...viewers might know Om is is not complete jerk but she doesn't know that...just because he had married her, suddenly she ignores everything and fall in love with his goodness?
especially when he thinks that marriage is void...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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at the moment all the three girls r longing for the guys... but the stories r all diff...

if u see annika and shivaay shared a long relationship of hate friendship etc before and after marriage.. and annika has understood shivaay over this period of time and fallen in love with the real shivaay she has seen inside of the arrogant business man... she has managed to peel him off his SSO side.. same with SSO he loves anika but doesnt accept it out of his own inhibitions of her background whatever..

coming to rumya.. rudra actually acknowledged this marriage first... soumya wasnt intereted .. she wanted to marry someone else then.. he actually tried from his end.. when he saw soumya's indifference, he changed too.. soumya is actually getting a dose of her own medicine.. rudy changed towards her also owing to his family.. their marriage caused issues and even made alterations to omkara's life in huge way.. rudy is very attached to om

coming to rikara.. its a totally diff ball game.. they know nothing about each other .. gauri love for omkara is only respect.. he saved her life and stood up for her even when he hated her. and marrying someone for sake of saving her is a big thing.. noone would do it.. so she has a diff level of respect for omkara and she will do anything in return for what he did for her.. plus she is a village girl who dont have much ado about self respect etc when it comes to husband.. she is still independent and strong but her dedication to om is diff.. om is a type of a person with whom a dedicated person only can live and understand..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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oh god.. 😆

I dnt think i should say anything... 21st century.. Seriously.. 😕
Edited by kulsum_5 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cactusbutt1123

Guys stop bashing the poor topic maker. I am sure she dint mean to say anything like that.

TM I agree with you that I loved gauris scene where she says she'll love omkara without expecting anything from him. How is that being oppressed? Neither did she run behind him nor is she tracking him down to he a part 9f his life. She is just moving on with her life. And why can't she be in love with omkara? He protected her. In that second she saw a soul mate in him. And she said that that's her problem. She has omkara in her heart now. How does that degrade her? She is free to follow whatever she believes in. I got get this peer pressure which we fall under to seem modern. Everyone are entitled to their beliefs.


Thank you dear.. 😊 btw TM name is kulsum.

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