Hum Aapse Prem Karenge....REALLY GAURI

Hi...m Sonal

Waisey m new to this forum but not to the show...I m a regular viewer of DBO

I used to watch IB for OmRu but as u all know no SS for them toh I just stopped watching it but now m enjoying DBO😃

Ok enough of my bak bak...let's talk about yesterday's episode

Okkk toh yesterday we got the much awaited RiKara wedding n as I m toh a RiKara shipper so I liked it n I was enjoying the whole scene until n unless our gauri ji's Mann ki awaaj aka monologue started

Hum aapse humesha prem karenge...n I was like WHAATTT...Gauri ji what did u say prem karenge

Yeh kab hua I mean aapko pyar kab hua...na jaan na pehchaan n u r singing ajnabee mujhko bta why my dil is pareshaan...oops bad one😆khair chodo

So my question is why gul mata is hell bent on ruining gauri's character...I really liked the car todu scene n the way she fought with kaali thakur was👏

N now the same girl is saying such stupid words...prem n all😕

M not saying that I don't want her to fall for him...ofcourse i want but atleast not now...it has to be in right manner aisey kya shaadi Hui toh u have to love him

Come on gul I know that u r obsessed with love hate kind of stories but u r also a woman na toh why r u degrading a girl like gauri who has a very strong will powern I don't want her to run behind om

Bohot hua ObBros ka I don't want u in my life drama...I think their ladyloves r too good for them😡

Gul loves rude n angry guys but i don't want om to manhandle gauri bas😳

Baaki m enjoying the show n this is my first post so hi all😃

Having respect is fine because Om is the one who saved her life but dedicating her whole life to a person who doesn't even care about u is stupidity

N gul ji will do that only

Abhi toh poor girl will face Om's hatred

so i think. she wnt go behind him...

That situation was so high octane that you felt her reaction was not misplaced! Yes it was a bit dramatic but I felt that scene was very controlled and well thought out. Even the acting was subdued. She felt this determination in her. What she said was that "yes I cannot make you accept me, but I have accepted you!" In that moment he saved her, she felt irrevocably linked with him. Hence the line "I will regard you but will never expect the same from you".

I think what it actually meant was that she will never try to "impose" herself on his life. But from afar, she will always hold him in esteem! I think the line "Prem" is not that literal here. As in "romantic love or falling in love". It's more like esteem! When we hold someone to a high standard! It's hard to explain but I think that is what the makers were aiming at with that scene and I felt they communicated it! Because I am one who hates regressive themes with women acting like they have to accept a marriage even when they didn't choose it!

But here, Gauri understands why the marriage happened and she also "chooses" to accept it and regard it in HER mind! But she does not expect to be announced as Omkara's wife to the world! The scene was subtle and I felt it delivered! Even a person like me who is against such notions understood WHY she felt that way! So I was able to accept it for what it was. One point to note as well, Om did not victimise her or perpetuate any abuse of her. He had nothing to do with what was happening here at all! In fact despite his belief of her guilt he saved her! In such a situation, Gauri's heightened sense of gratitude is understandable. Because she is shown as someone religious, and Om saved her just when she had asked for an intervention from God. So to her HE was that intervention. Sometimes a story is trying to do more than just show regressive themes. Here her reaction had some logical sense behind it. So I was able to accept it!