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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ok..For just 1 Min..Let Us all Forgot DEV & SONAKSHi
Let's just Forgot That they are 2 Separate entities

Let's just forgot they Are Exs..

Let's Just Remember They are DEVAKSHI..Not the lover ,Not The Hubby-Wify..But The PARENTS of a Beautiful Girl Call Sohana


So Now tell me How Will U Justify One's action and question Other's

If u get partial To One of Them Ur definitily Doing injustice To Other..

They Both R suffering from Pain..Pain Of Love..Love of their daughter

1 is in pain of fear to loose her..1 is pain of anger for Staying away from Her

If 1 Is Crying by thinking that some 1 will take all The memories away From her..then Other is crying by thinking he has No memory of her With Him

1 Is Angry To think some 1 is Trying To take her daughter. far away .Other Is angry in thought some 1 has kept his daughter far away

1 is blaming He turned Her away along the Child from his door..Other Is blaming She kept him In dark Without Informinh Him So

1's heart Is Skip Beating thinking That Her Life Is going To end without her..other heart Just Start beating When He came To Know about The Existence Of Her..

Whom will u blame To React In The Love Of Paain Of Their daughter..?? Is It fair To Kill some one?? Or is it fair to Snatch The last hope of living Some One??

Both R Not Fair ..Right!!!!!!!!


U can judge a Wife,A girlfriend,a Daughter some extent..But how can u judge a Mother?,..U can't..U can't take Her part away From her..u can't Let her To suffer For The life time By snatching her Life from her..U can never ever Pay The favor of a Mother.U can never ever Ask her To Share her child with u..u Can never ever deny From those sacrifices What she has made for her children..u can never ever ignore The pain of fear from her eyes what she gone Through when it's a matter to loose her child..How can u exppect she'll hand over to u the Only support system Of her living..U just can't..nd If ur Expecting u r wrong..Will U do That..NO!! u Will Not.Neither am I I!!!!

U Can Judge A Husband,u can Judge a boyfreind,u can judge a son To some extent But U Can Never Judge a father..a father who was unaware about the existence of her daughter.U Can't judge the insane Behavior Of a father In Love Of his daughter..U can't Judge Him If he ants his daughter.Yes U could..If He abandoned Her Daughter..If he Denied to accept To Her if he Knew she Exists..But u can Never ever judge a father Who Just came To know about His Life Just a Few sec Bfr That Too after 7 years...U can Never say He has No right To be Rude,Cruel..Pain Given By His Mother was already enough To Make him Heartless..Now U can't Blame Him If He hurt U with the Broken Pieces Of His Heart..How Can u raise Ur finger on that person who is going through The feeling That he was Dead In Spite Of having his Life hidden Some where...How Can u question his attitude When He was Suffering From the lack Of Breath In Spite having a Bucket Of oxygen..Do u expect him to Be polite When The volcano inside Him came out..Will u be polite at that situation??..No..U will Not..Neither am I..!!

when a dad Or a Mom Meet Their hild after a Long period even if They Know they exist Somewhere In the world They want all The attention.all the time,all The Love Of the Child..so now just think a father who was totally unaware of the Happiness How can He control Himself..!!!!!!!! It's his right to Be out of control..!!!!!!!! U agree Or disagree He has The right...and When a Mom Live with Only Having the child if she Tries all the possible way to keep Him/her with her..U can't Blame her..cause it's her right..

Don't forget a child's Breath always Belongs To mother..But His/Her heart Always belongs To Her father...U can't Decide what is More Important To Live..Cause If 1 Of these 2 is Missing There is No meaning Of Life..Same way if a Mother give her breath away She will die..If a father Give His Heart away he will Also Not be alive..So If In the Try of saving both their lives they cross any limit U really can't blame any of them

think deeply and then decide. What is more important to u that woman's Ego..Or Emotions of that mother who lived 7yrs just look at The face of the child

. Or what is more important for u..a Behavior of a Man..or a emotion of That father who has suffered 7 long years of separation from His daughter Even being unknown Of it..


P.S.I always Try to pen down that side's emotion what maximum time have been Sided.. I can may choose between Dev and sonakshi..i can fight When it's about 2 Separate people..but i really Kind Choose when it's between a Father and a Mother

P,P,S. I am the only child OF my parents.i am More closer To My dad..and i always feel daughter's r more closer to dad..and son Are closer To mom..So somehow i can understand dev's feeling more clear..but it doesn't mean I don't love my mom..i love her More then anythinh in the world..I Think i would die if she is Not there..But I really can't choose any of Them..as i said My Breath Belongs to my maa and my heart belongs to ,my baba..I Need both..and they both need me..


P.P.P.S. i really get emotional when there is sth about parents. So I amde this looong post..Pls before Entering or commenting forget that ur a Dev or sonakshi supporter..forget about all feminism and other morals..just think ur Self as a Child or as a parent.if u found it worthy more then comment..If u found it Useless then don't waste ur time.colors r most welcome


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Jade0001 thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Its a Beautiful Post

you know there is a saying no matter what our parents are , they are our parents and only deserve our love and respect and this fact has stood through decades

A Mother - her position never changes in our lives , her sacrifices has made us the best we can be

I was ten years old when I asked my mother "what does it mean to be a mother " and I remember she smiled at me but then seconds later her eyes were filled with tears and I really thought I had said something wrong almost on the verge on crying myself when my dad lifted me up and placed me in his lap he said "Baby boy its time to know what truly a mother is "

My mom said for her been a mother was a gift seeing her children grow into themselves having their own identities
just been there in their corner whenever they need her support
seeing the good and bad in her children
teaching her children to respect themselves first so they can respect others

Coming back to DevAKshi
both are in lots of pain and as you say one has fear of losing the memories while the other has no memories but both love their daughter immensely
there is no right and wrong in their situation
but their need to put their daughter first she is important
and yes in time it will happen

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Posted: 8 years ago
#3
A very very very beautiful post survi

For you - my respect increases to the power infinity.

Despite being unmarried, you are penning down such intense and beautiful meaning post.





Indeed mother and father is equally important for a child.


A mother and father both love their child equally( ** Condition a in cases this case doesn't apply**)

A woman get pregnant her bond with her husband changes, her bond becomes more stronger- together they create one life. They are no more "I" but "We". From the time we got the news of pregnancy till their end( parents end), they are worried about their baby. It is their baby and no one can change this fact.

I don't want to go into debate of who loves more - mother or father. Basically it is useless and pointless in doing so.
End of the day both loves and has equal right on the child.


P.S. Thanks Survi for writing such neutral post. Hugs to you dear😳

And once again thanks for use of fonts and colors😆😉


Edited by mayu1982 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post Survi!! Totally agree... amidst all this Dev's bashing, I couldn't agree more.. They both are parents and love their daughter immensely .. whatever they are saying or doing is out of that love... PERIOD. No further explanation is required 😊
survika1111 thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
#5

Originally posted by: Jade0001

Its a Beautiful Post

you know there is a saying no matter what our parents are , they are our parents and only deserve our love and respect and this fact has stood through decades

A Mother - her position never changes in our lives , her sacrifices has made us the best we can be

I was ten years old when I asked my mother "what does it mean to be a mother " and I remember she smiled at me but then seconds later her eyes were filled with tears and I really thought I had said something wrong almost on the verge on crying myself when my dad lifted me up and placed me in his lap he said "Baby boy its time to know what truly a mother is "

My mom said for her been a mother was a gift seeing her children grow into themselves having their own identities
just been there in their corner whenever they need her support
seeing the good and bad in her children
teaching her children to respect themselves first so they can respect others

Coming back to DevAKshi
both are in lots of pain and as you say one has fear of losing the memories while the other has no memories but both love their daughter immensely
there is no right and wrong in their situation
but their need to put their daughter first she is important
and yes in time it will happen


Thank You shaun..That Was such a Touchy Story U shared..TFS..

When it's about DevAkshi we have already seen they Both Put their daughter First by Giving her Choice to do whaever She wants and totally ignore Themselves..Hope time will show More N More Phase where It will Prove even more better..
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Posted: 8 years ago
#6

Originally posted by: mayu1982

A very very very beautiful post survi

For you - my respect increases to the power infinity.

Despite being unmarried, you are penning down such intense and beautiful meaning post.





Indeed mother and father is equally important for a child.


A mother and father both love their child equally( ** Condition a in cases this case doesn't apply**)

A woman get pregnant her bond with her husband changes, her bond becomes more stronger- together they create one life. They are no more "I" but "We". From the time we got the news of pregnancy till their end( parents end), they are worried about their baby. It is their baby and no one can change this fact.

I don't want to go into debate of who loves more - mother or father. Basically it is useless and pointless in doing so.
End of the day both loves and has equal right on the child.


P.S. Thanks Survi for writing such neutral post. Hugs to you dear😳

And once again thanks for use of fonts and colors😆😉



Aww thank you so much di..That \'s a Huge compliment for me..I M honored..

Mother and father Both have Different place in child's life..No one can replace that..Not even them..

and the matter of color will always be there😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
#7

Originally posted by: keershri

Beautiful post Survi!! Totally agree... amidst all this Dev's bashing, I couldn't agree more.. They both are parents and love their daughter immensely .. whatever they are saying or doing is out of that love... PERIOD. No further explanation is required 😊



Thank you Dear..among eall differences ther Is only thing b/w them which is common..That is their love For their daughter and the pain of It
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Posted: 8 years ago
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😭😭 A big hugg to you
I felt my own emotions moulding into your words..I am also the only child..a daughter and I understand your feelings to the T.
Both are asking for nothing else but their daughter. Hope the day comes soon when they realise their daughter needs them together
P.S. Yes.. Daughters are closer to fathers but love both mother and father equally
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samzz

😭😭 A big hugg to you

I felt my own emotions moulding into your words..I am also the only child..a daughter and I understand your feelings to the T.
Both are asking for nothing else but their daughter. Hope the day comes soon when they realise their daughter needs them together
P.S. Yes.. Daughters are closer to fathers but love both mother and father equally


awww..Huggy back.and hi5!!!!!!!!

Hope So yaar that day come soon whn They realize Their baby Needs both Of them
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Chaaa gayi ladki tu toh...i have no words for this post its simple damn damn hell beyond words...so i wil not say a single word for it...just akhon ne asso agye...lovely u dear.

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