DIFFERNCE BETWEEN FEAR AND INSECURITY..

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Tinkerfairy

@Tinkerfairy

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

You made right post 👏 I dare Cv's to show whatever ishwari did was right.Dev ne Jo bhi bola ke "Tum achi maa nahi ban sakti"going to prove right by making sona ishwari part 2.

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shailu

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

https://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4803163

I made almost same comments ur views and mine exactly carbon copy .

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Posted: 13 February 2017 at 12:53pm | IP Logged

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Omg u ppl stop acting like ishwari now blaming sona just because dev is in bad state .
Sona was asked to get out by dev and taunted for not having baby because of her infertility and dev even called gold digger and used him for money prenup paper was made by ishwari because she was insecured .
Ppl forgot sona knew ishwari was insecured before even getting married to dev sona even tried to adjust to ishwari but no one can tolerate that psycho but sona did .
Ishwari played games and rift devakshi.
Now sona is insecured any mother will be and every one knows dev has the power to snatch soha and ishwari her emotional drama is enough to snatch soha from sona so sona is fearing to reveal yet she didn't hide it from soha but little angel loves her mom so much she doesn't want to hurt her so she never called her dad so what can sona do .
Even if sona reveals to dev he might not understand and will go to court for custody because his ego and his anger is bigger than anything .
Dev made her jobless to get her as neutralist for that psycho mother of his he even made sure the match which came to sona rejects her .
When dev can do so much to ruine her career and her marriage purposal .
for soha he can do anything to have soha back for himself .

U ppl are too much impossible just because dev is suffering ur against sona and comparing her with ishwari there is no comparison with that psychopath.
when sona suffered so much lost her house homeless her father slapped what not I didn't see this defense mechanism from u guys u ppl support dev seriously

Edited by rockstar.sj - 13 February 2017 at 12:58pm

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Dev is not a saint either were was he when sona and her family were homeless did he bother then why should sona bother .
Did he try to search for her whereabouts back then now why sona has to reveal her secret to dev .
If sona is to be blamed so dev equally was responsible.
He never cared for sona why should women always think about men just because he was hubby .
I don't understand this double standards.
Is soha suffering no sona is single mom who is giving equal love for soha and in school of topic like father comes she got sad but not soha craves to meet her dad if so she would have said to sona and sona is not ishwari she cleared asked are u sure to soha but little kid refused to talk to dev it's soha problem not sona .
Sona has given freedom to soha so that she can take her own decisions unlike ishwari

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sowiee

@sowiee

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Fear is the first step of insecurity...

Now Sona is in first step.. now they have to show how Sona deals wisely with this fear unlike ishwari.. that's where the difference between ishwari and Sona can be seen ...

When such difference will be seen clearly everyone will agree that ishwari and Sona can't be compared..

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sweeti1104

@sweeti1104

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Well said. Ishwari=Sonakshi, really???

Sonakshi's one sentence that how she is scared for Soha makes him insecure, insensitive.

and when Dev has not left any chance to hurt her but how can she think in that way because Dev loves her and he can hurt her but dare she will reply him. When she was trying hard to gel with Dixit family, she was doormat now when she is fighting for her self respect, she is arrogent. Its really annoying reading some of stuff then there are some sane discussion also regarding this topic in forum.

According to me if Sona has not told Dev about Soha then Dev also did not try to find about Sona if he did so would have known about Soha also.

Sona can never be a Ishwari because she is good human being.

I would suggest all people who think Sona is insensitive, insecure, arrogent, overconfident, please watch some episode before leap and put yourself on her position then give a thought about it again.

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

The contrast is always seen in both how it's soha who remembered that has to give good bye kiss to sona on the other hand sona not remembered it unlike ishwari when Dev used to forget she go into depression

How sona wanted soha to sleep without waiting for her but it was soha who left a cute video message for her mother unlike ishwari if Dev by mistake or come home late she goes into depression without telling her gone to sleep

How sona became successful to give soha bright future unlike ishwari who made Dev and neha sacrifice to achieve what she wanted

Why everyone is telling sona has told wrong about Dev to soha sona has clearly told he was bad only for her and not anyone else even how frankly soha shown sona the drawing of father and how she has good image of father and kissed her and even asked sona bad she replied with yes sona could have written wrong thing like golu and everyone in class would have agreed with it as everyone know that her father is not with her

So this is also a contrast inspire of having insecurity she never told her daughter if she want she can tell and soha will hate her dad as it is truth because no daughter would like to get a father love who has so much emotionally torchered her mother and !Are her sign prenup and even make her mother come on street and told so much to her mother disrespect her job her motherhood and questioned her principle unlike ishwari who even after seeing that sona is right she used to do chugli of sona

Ishwari and sona are mill apart in everything it's like comparing diamond with coal

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1Rockstar1

@1Rockstar1

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Excellent post if only everyone understood the difference between Fear and Insecurity!!!

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siddhi.d123

@siddhi.d123

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Comparing Sona to Ishwari is a crime 😕 Sona has fears and they are very valid she will overcome it with time 😊

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randomramblings

@randomramblings

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

before you start screaming your heart out dear, ponder these questions

why does sona need to fear the dixits. Wasn't the prenup a legal document ?

no matter what ever be the financial status of sona, Dev could have never taken away soha from her. well if dev tired to use force to take away soha, then technically it would be termed kidnapping... hehehe.

ok coming to your other assumption that GKB,ishwari and co will blame sona that she is trying to enter the life of dev using sona as an instrument, i dont see any reason why she needs to get back with dev just because she happened to be pregnant with his child.

if the divorce was already taken, sona delivering a baby after divorce does not bind sona with dev in any way unless they legally remarry.

in what ever way i see, i dont find any logical reason on why sona had to hide the fact that she is a mother of dev's child. there is no reason why she needs to live in a constant fear of " what if dev found soha was his daughter" this is baseless.

she wanted to punish dev for his harsh words , so she hid the fact - you say this i accept it.

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dbrk

@dbrk

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Thanku for writing this post! I am also very sad because Sonakshi being bashed.

My heart really goes out for this woman. Her pain and suffering has been immense. Dev had loads of money to becum a casanova and live for himself only. She din have a choice but live for her family. She and Dev had already seperated when Suhana was born. She had gone thru all the pain during pregnanacy and labour alone, during a period generally women have their husband standing next to them but when baby was born she is being cursed for not informing Dev. Yes, she din inform but as a seperated mother, din she have all rights on her daughter till she is was an adult and capable to take decisions for herself.

For Dev and Ishwari are one unit and after knowing about Suhana Ishwari wouldn't have left single stone unturned to get Suhana, at that time Sonakshi was not that capable and resourceful to fight Dixits.

I really want CVs to show in flashback or in a narrative form Sonakshi's struggle for 7 years. This direct leap has made people so insensitive towards Sonakshi. Everyone sees the coldness, the nonchalance of Sonakshi and i see her pain and sufferings.

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